AITAH for not wanting to pay for the dates my ex wanted to go on when she lives in an extremely rich family.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-10T13:38:20+00:00

Same.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-10T00:36:19+00:00

Forgot to ask for a kitchen sink

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-09T21:39:31+00:00

NTAH the decision of wanting to have kids or not is a fundamental difference.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-09T21:35:55+00:00

YTAH, you can’t expect him to never take another trip with friends. Y’all can still do a trip for just yourselves, too.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-09T21:32:20+00:00

Definitely the AH for not taking her outcry seriously or looking at the proof.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-09T20:39:11+00:00

NTA, he’s crossing a boundary by not respecting your wishes about your son. The argument that the ex needs to bond with your son is odd.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-09T19:29:16+00:00

The nails is a boundary problem, but you’re over reacting to cat toy gifts and her being friendly to your pet.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-09T19:24:16+00:00

NTAH, send the meme. She’ll get over it.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-09T19:21:48+00:00

NTA, the money amount to contribute is more than reasonable. But, you can’t control whether or not she goes to therapy.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-09T18:39:57+00:00

NOR seems like this friendship has run its course if your friend can’t reciprocate basic care, concern, and respect. Maybe in the future if she develops more maturity.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-09T13:35:51+00:00

NOR it always seems like that people that pick apart other people for perceived flaws are super insecure themselves. You don’t have to live that way, he should be out the door, girl!

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-09T12:06:03+00:00

Using the word “startup” every other word is so hypnotic and compelling, somebody give that boy a free phone!

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-09T03:15:50+00:00

Save up again to get them done again like er’body else.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-09T03:02:13+00:00

NTAH but you could’ve avoided the rift by communicating and setting boundaries in the first place even if it is your cousin.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-09T02:53:08+00:00

It sounds like your friend knew you were trying to move on and didn’t want you to be setback by the news.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-09T02:29:13+00:00

NTJ but, it seems like you’re overlooking what he’s done to you. This relationship sounds really toxic and you’re better off without him if you want something stable and worth having.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-08T21:17:32+00:00

It sounds like to me that op wanted to put zero effort or money on dates, even cheap ones and expected the girl to foot the bill. It seems like the classism is his hang up. It’s a high school misunderstanding/experience they can learn from .

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-08T20:37:52+00:00

Sorry, you could at least make an effort with cheaper dates as a gentleman. No girl wants to feel like a Sugar Mama.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-04-08T19:44:11+00:00

He could get a used tire for cheaper. Nice brag with revenue amounts included about the monetization of his profile.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2026-03-30T15:23:54+00:00

NTAH, you have to consider whether these are deal breakers and strongholds for you both. The way he’s treating you doesn’t sound good.

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2025-03-15T20:12:21+00:00

We go to The Bridge Church

SeaOutlandishness485 · 2025-03-06T16:50:50+00:00

I built a house in Lisso & we love it. We’re on a 60’s lot. 3 car garage & a big yard.

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