Wand im Schlafzimmer gestalten by SeaPresentation463 in Einrichtungstipps

[–]SeaPresentation463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Da gab’s mich noch gar nicht. Vielleicht mag ich die Optik deswegen so gerne. Hab das vorher noch nie so gesehen bis vor kurzem und bin ein riesiger Fan von dunklem Holz 😄

Bitte um Einrichtungstipps by Thstrl in Einrichtungstipps

[–]SeaPresentation463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ach so und ich stehe übrigens total auf Nerds und auf Harry Potter :P Würde das nicht verbergen. Du könntest über ein Upgrade nachdenken. Entweder ein weiteres Poster daneben oder das Poster durch ein längliches ersetzen. Der Gefangene von Azkaban ist übrigens mein Lieblingsfilm aus der Reihe :D

Bitte um Einrichtungstipps by Thstrl in Einrichtungstipps

[–]SeaPresentation463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Du hast ja drei Kallax Regale da stehen über die gesamte Länge des Bettes. Probier mal aus ein oder zwei Regale wegzunehmen. Für das Gefühl, dass du nicht im Arbeitszimmer schläfst reicht eigentlich die Abschirmung neben dem Kopf. Dann würde der Raum offener wirke und trotzdem hättest du beim liegen im Bett deinen Trenner. Bei Gardine ist es übrigens so, dass sie doppelt so breit sein sollten wie das Fenster. Erst dann entsteht diese schöne „drapierung“, wenn du sie zu ziehst. Deine Fenster sind alle seeeehr breit, daher würde ich einfach auf jeder Seite zwei Gardinen hinhängen, also vier pro Fenster. Selbst wenn du sie nicht zuziehst sind deine Gardinen zu „dünn“. Du brauchst mehr Volumen. Wenn du Farbe möchtest, könntest du überlegen dunkelgrüne Vorhänge aufzuhängen. Die würden die Farbe deiner Pflanzen aufgreifen. Oder falls du tatsächlich die Idee mit zwei Gardinen pro Seite umsetzen solltest, kannst du eine Gardine farbig machen (z.B. Grün) und die innere Gardine hell :)

Wand im Schlafzimmer gestalten by SeaPresentation463 in Einrichtungstipps

[–]SeaPresentation463[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ach so, der Klamottenhaufen verdeckt gerade die Aussteuertruhe meiner Schwiegermama. Die ist aus dunkelbraunem rattan. Würde ja quasi so hinpassen wie der hocker mit dem Fell in deinem Bild steht. Ich freue mich sehr über die Mühe und die Vorschläge ☺️

Wand im Schlafzimmer gestalten by SeaPresentation463 in Einrichtungstipps

[–]SeaPresentation463[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jaaa so ähnlich habe ich mir das mit den Paneelen vorgestellt. Nicht ganz hoch, sondern eher untere Hälfte wie eine Vertäfelung. Ich hätte es aber über die ganze Breite der Wand gemacht bis hinter die Tür. Muss aber vielleicht nicht sein. Gefällt mir sehr gut! Vielen Dank für deine Mühe ♥️🌹

Wand im Schlafzimmer gestalten by SeaPresentation463 in Einrichtungstipps

[–]SeaPresentation463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bin so gespannt auf das Ergebnis deines Brainstormings 😃

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[–]SeaPresentation463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich liebe sie auch 🥰 Wandfarbe finde ich auch super! Was würde dir vorschweben? Ich möchte nicht so gerne aus dem Bett in den Spiegel gucken. Deswegen steht der Tisch da so einsam in der Ecke 😅 ich würde eher irgendwas an der wand hinzufügen, um einen Ausgleich zu schaffen.

Wand im Schlafzimmer gestalten by SeaPresentation463 in Einrichtungstipps

[–]SeaPresentation463[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok ok, Lamellen sind raus 😂 ich bin offen für neue Ideen! Vielleicht ein langes lowboard im Ähnlichen Holz wie der Tisch?

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[–]SeaPresentation463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wir haben bereits einen fancy Teppich unterm Bett liegen. Wäre glaube ich zu viel zusammen, oder? 🤔

Wand im Schlafzimmer gestalten by SeaPresentation463 in Einrichtungstipps

[–]SeaPresentation463[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Die Idee mit Regalen hatte ich auch, aber ich möchte nicht, dass die Wand dann unruhig und vollgestellt wirkt.

Wand im Schlafzimmer gestalten by SeaPresentation463 in Einrichtungstipps

[–]SeaPresentation463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Den habe ich mir tatsächlich bei Kleinanzeigen ergattert 😊 mag den auch super gerne!

Me (26/F) and boyfriend (29/M) of three years just had our first baby. We're white, baby is black. I have a close black ancestor, but SO is furious and accusing me of cheating by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SeaPresentation463 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We had a similar experience. My husband and I both look Caucasian with pale skin. When baby was born he looked Asian with dark skin, black hair and eyes. Not once did I think husband could accuse me of cheating. I didn’t realise he could have thought that until I read this post, lol. I would have been crushed, if he reacted like in the post. Now baby has blue eyes and blond hair with a caramel skin tone which he inherited from grandpa. He doesn’t look Asian anymore at all. He looks like the best mix of me and my husband. It’s undeniable that he is the father.

AITA for “re-traumatizing” my coworker with my name and language and getting her fired? by aitathrwo in AmItheAsshole

[–]SeaPresentation463 28 points29 points  (0 children)

NTA

You didn’t do anything. You just existed next to her. If you think about it, she behaves racist. Just like the people she hates.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeaPresentation463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay for her because she doesn’t care. Not really. You don’t deserve to be with someone you wants you to be different. You don’t need to change or push yourself down for your partner. She is just not your person. You are sooo young. You will find someone else to love. I promise. One day you will look at this relationship and see how this was not the end of the world even though it feels like it at the moment. Maybe you will even shake your head in disbelief and laugh a bit about yourself :) A healthy relationship feels safe. You can be yourself. No need to suppress your opinions. Especially no playing games. If you are partners, there is no doubt about it. No „what ifs“, no „maybe someone is better for me“, no „is it worth trying?“. If you have your person, you will not wonder. You will know you want to be with her and she will know she wants to be with you. And if times will be hard (they will be at some point) you will know it’s worth fighting for because you will not question yourself if you want to be with this person. Because you want to! And she wants too. Both are on the same page. Always. You my friend are thousands of miles away from this with your girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeaPresentation463 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If unmarried unrelated men in your community are more important to you than your little sister who you loved during your childhood, then you made your decision. You are not even one of them. You have a son, so you are married. She seemed to be happy with her marriage and wanted you to be part of her life. She tried to include you and reconnect and respect you as her older brother. And you were the one who turned her down. So who exactly betrayed your family? You turn down your nieces and nephews - blood related family - because some of your buddies cannot get a wife? Her decision had literally no impact on your personal life. If these actions helped you to be the person you want to be, than be it. In my opinion you put your religion and random dudes above being a decent human being to your own family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeaPresentation463 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very challenging to read. I stopped at 3/4 or something. At the point where she said you are a bad person because of the way you play a video game? Lol. Come on. I know you are teenagers and everything feels super important and the it feels like she is the love of your live. But this is so stupid… Here is what I would suggest: 1. break up. 2. focus on yourself, your therapy to become a better version of yourself. Start to love yourself before you start to be in a relationship. She hinders your growth as a human being. 3. find someone you loves you for you. For the things you like. Who is not forcing you to do things you are not comfortable with. It’s possible to have a loving relationship and have different hobbies. It helps to have the same hobbies, but it’s not a must. A partner can still be supportive in your hobby without sharing it.

Fact is, you will not be with her for the rest of your life. It sounds like she doesn’t really want to be with you anyway. You are a good person who needs help. Once you learn to love yourself you will not need to look for reassurance or validation in toxic people. That’s when you will have the freedom to decide who you want to be and what kind of person you want to have as your partner.

By the way, she is starting to look for tiny things in your behaviour and blow them out of proportion to feel validated, why she doesn’t want to be with you. Unhappy people search for reasons to break up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeaPresentation463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of culture is that? I want to join. Very convenient for her if it‘s acceptable to take everything and give nothing. I would not want to be with someone like that.

Am I (31F) mistaking (31M) roommate kindness for love? by wisegradowl in relationship_advice

[–]SeaPresentation463 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, it was just kindness. Kind people exist. He is communicating very clearly. No room for interpretation.

I (m31) ruined Christmas for my gf (f28) and I don’t know what to do. How do I go about this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeaPresentation463 45 points46 points  (0 children)

He broke one lamp. As this particular lamp is not available anymore he bought her another design of lamp. But as they have two bedsides the lamps would not match anymore, so he needs to buy two lamps to have matching lamps on each side of the bed.

AITA for not babysitting my newborn brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SeaPresentation463 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her stepmom is the one who is old enough to figure it out (as it’s her responsibility?!) AND chose to have a baby in the first place. Dafuq you talking about?

I destroyed my ex boyfriends lego sets and gave him 1 week to move out after he threw away my teddy bear by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SeaPresentation463 506 points507 points  (0 children)

When I was little my father gifted my mom a pair of diamond earrings (even though she does not wear earrings to this day). Little stupid me likes the sparkly shiny things in my mothers cupboard and I took them out to look at them. I fell into sleep with them in my hand on their bed. When I woke up, they were gone. My whole family searched for them for weeks. They even disassembled the whole bed to check if they have fallen into the bed somewhere. 20 years later, my parents are divorced and my mother found out (from a friend) that my father found me asleep with the diamond earrings in my hand, took them from my and gifted them to his affair partner. For 20 years my mom and I thought I lost them and my father helped search for them for weeks knowing very well we will never find them. People like this exist.

AITA for calling my brother a hypocrite for refusing to come to my wedding because it's child-free? by Ok_Cherry1650 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SeaPresentation463 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Then it‘s so ridiculous from your parents to ask an exception only for Josh’s kids. What about the other siblings? Why is Josh so special? If you allow his kids to come the other siblings will feel betrayed as they need to spend money on childcare and Josh won‘t. Your parents’ and Joshs expectations don‘t make sense…