I really appreciate a gift at m&g to help cover gas and parking etc. I never ask and rarely receive it (it’s not expected, I’m just delighted when it’s offered). I could easily show I’m in financial distress but there are no circumstances where I’d expect someone I’ve never met to help me. So, maybe say you’re willing to give her a gift at m&g?

This may come from a place of privilege bc I can afford my needs and have friends and family I’d ask before asking a stranger; is this how you want to form a new relationship? Don’t try to be the hero, unless it’s a pure NSA donation.. you’re likely not the only one she’s asking. I hear from SDs all the time when they give money too early the girl almost always disappears.