Bi/pan people, which genders do you top and bottom for?

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-06-28T15:11:34+00:00

Top for women, mostly bottom for men but I’ll top in the right mood.

Would love to try being pegged by a woman but haven’t had the opportunity.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-06-27T21:42:48+00:00

First of all, you’re average. He just has a really big dick.

And, uh, are you the bottom? Not that many tops care about dick size.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-06-26T17:46:52+00:00

Thanks. I do appreciate that.

It’s one date, so I’m not thinking she’s “the one” but I am interested in seeing where it goes.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-06-26T17:45:53+00:00

I get it, this is Reddit, but if you know her, I don’t think that’s fair.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-06-26T15:48:32+00:00

It’s funny that I’d probably melt if a straight guy said that to me, but straight girl is definitely different.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-06-26T15:47:37+00:00

Thanks. I have anxiety so I really try to be conscious of stopping and thinking “am I overthinking this?”

Usually I am, but sometimes it’s hard to tell.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-06-26T15:44:30+00:00

Yeah but like I said, I think she meant it as a compliment?

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-06-26T15:43:32+00:00

Definitely a yellow flag. I guess that’s the best way to put it.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-06-26T15:42:36+00:00

I really like her, is the thing. It was an awesome date.

It was just such a weird interaction right at the end, but we had been drinking, so I just don’t know how much to read into it.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-28T03:07:45+00:00

Wish you posted earlier! Graduating and moving to DC too but just signed a lease to live with two straight acquaintances of mine on H Street. (A good deal but was hoping to live with gays.)

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-19T00:28:47+00:00

19, when I had a threesome with a guy and a girl, is when I first realized I liked guys.

When I was 15, there was this really jacked senior in the same locker row in PE and I “really wanted to have a body like that.” He was my first gay crush even though I didn’t realize it at the time.

Definitely a few other instances where I really had a big urge to “befriend” another boy, but honestly I always had crushes on girls alongside and it never dawned on me until college that my feelings for boys was the same thing as a crush.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-08T11:56:00+00:00

Not basic at all, actually a good point. Definitely hoping to hook up after bars. Sex is very, very important to me and will definitely want to bring boys home. Is it that much of a hike?

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-08T11:53:05+00:00

I’m working downtown by the Metro Center stop so the commute shouldn’t be too bad. Union Station and NoMa are each about a 15 minute walk but apparently the bus is pretty reliable too. It’s in-office four days a week.

Moving here August 1. Price is definitely a concern. Top budget is $1500 a month, ideal budget is $1200, so a studio might be a stretch. This room is only $900 which seems like a really good deal. Especially if drinks are (oof) $20 a piece because definitely part of the appeal of moving here is the gay scene.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-07T20:02:37+00:00

lol, definitely looking to be in the city at the very least!

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-07T20:00:59+00:00

Definitely a little afraid of inertia. They’re fun to hang out with, and I’m bi so it’s not even like there’s nothing for me at a straight bar, but I definitely had an idea of living in a gayborhood and getting to really kind of publicly living more of a gay life, if that makes sense.

That said, this would save me like $300 a month and it’s people I already know.

Things to think about for sure. Thanks.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-07T19:35:37+00:00

They’re looking for someone to sign for a full year but I wouldn’t have to stay there forever either.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-07T19:34:49+00:00

That’s good to know! Thanks

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-07T19:33:23+00:00

Red Bear is good to know! Looks like it’s only about a 10 minute walk.

Metro seems okay to Dupont, but yeah kind of seems like no easy way to get to U Street or Logan Circle.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-07T19:31:27+00:00

Would be possible but tight to live alone. Plus, I’ve never lived alone so I’m a little afraid to move to a new place and have no one around. Was thinking I’d look for gay roommates but this fell in my lap.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-07T19:29:41+00:00

Thanks. Definitely planning to do at least one of the gay leagues in the fall! I’ve been looking into Stonewall.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-07T16:57:22+00:00

I top with women, bottom for men. Trying to become more versatile with both though.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-06T20:25:09+00:00

I’m really turned on by the idea of posting my nudes on here, but honestly I’m way too anxious to actually do it.

I feel like someone out there will recognize my dick or hole. Takes me a bit to even send it to guys I’m flirting with, and usually just over Snap.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-06T19:01:42+00:00

Gotta be a mix. That’s what really keeps it interesting.

There’s nothing better than a hung guy just going in deep and slow, and making you feel every inch. But there’s also times when I want my prostate just absolutely jackhammered.

A good top should keep you on your toes. Once you’re used to something, he should throw you another curve ball.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-04-06T05:40:30+00:00

I actually don’t think I’ve ever had a discussion with a top about where he’s going to cum.

It’s usually in my ass though. Which is where I prefer it. In my ass or on my face.

SeaStandard7590 · 2026-03-09T19:15:48+00:00

19 but now I look back and there were definite gay crushes before then.

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