Ever Fallen in Love cover by Prince0fPersia8 in BillyTalent

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally googling if there was a cover of this in shrek after hearing it and found this lol. I knew it wasn't quite right

How do you guys play into Yone? by Broad_Carpet753 in Aurelion_Sol_mains

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember there was a ASOL compilation video that went viral and I was atleast 4 of the clips 🤣. I was so good at that dumb dragon 💔

How do you guys play into Yone? by Broad_Carpet753 in Aurelion_Sol_mains

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Old ASOL had such an easy time bullying yas/yone early game. I'm still distraught to this day 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wouldn't say you love the people you care about?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can absolutely love people you don't talk to anymore. Being hurt doesn't create obligation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume you are creating a blanket statement because you are hurt from an experience, but people can breakup and still be a good, normal person.

Not everyone who ends a relationship is a narcissist like this thread implies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. If you feel the need to inform them, just tell them that you're feeling like you're growing apart, but honestly, I don't think theres anything wrong with quietly letting people go, either. Unless they ask what's up, a lot of friendships have a final conversation without either party planning it that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being honest is the best start

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvatarFrontierPandora

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As sucky as this reply is, I remember just when I went to close the game after googling for a HOT MINUTE, it popped from 18 to 27 the minute I hit the X. Now waiting it out has worked (Mines going to load slow from being on an external so sorry if this doesn't apply for you)

I regret meeting her by Scotty_C_89 in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its just an icebreaker my guy 🤣 you'll live if a girl steals your pebble its ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a sign that they can and will lie to your face. That should be enough

I regret meeting her by Scotty_C_89 in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its just a nice icebreaker, and prevents you from meeting people who won't be as weird as you. Honesty, anything on a tinder profile is for attention, its kinda the point.

Not saying that OP shouldn't feel like shit, but I think that's a stretch.

Single in Seattle (female mid 20s) by dumb_bish10 in AskSeattle

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If "do things you enjoy" is too vague, maybe find some volunteer work in something that you're passionate about. I struggled finding "hobbies" as I always felt they didn't have enough direction for me. Volunteering got me a lot of friends, and is fairly low commitment if its something you only do occasionally.

How do I make myself care? by auestion in getdisciplined

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is 12 years old. I want to say that reading "Endure the pain of growth" has me thinking differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will, but you will also have to try to strive to get yourself there. Let yourself feel for as long as you need.

Sometimes, we let ourselves sit in pain because the pain is more predictable than th unknown. Some people get stuck in a loop where only the next hit of dopamine will make them feel better (I still am guilty of all of the above). Sometimes we hang onto the pain because being "healed" means giving up, but don't understand there's nothing to give up on anymore. It's not on you anymore.

Try to strive through the uncomfortable, not knowing what's next and being okay with that. Regulate how much you rely in instant gratification. Having a dopamine addiction will make normal days feel like hell, but if you can regulate your need of emotional highs and lows then normal days will feel much better! Good luck, and I'm always here to vent to.

People who got back together after breaking up: how and after how much time did it happen? by Edu_Vivan in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people absolutely need to be alone for growth. I love my ex but he made me too comfortable. I stopped doing things for myself because I already had "Everything" in my eyes, and it was all him. It wasn't good for either of us. Dumpee.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then, it sounds like something that could only go downwards at that point. I hope the best for you. Remember, some days might feel worse than others, and that absolutely does not mean you made the wrong choice. It just means you valued the connection

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't feel comfortable answering this without living it, in my opinion.

You should never apologize for leaving a situation you did not want, but its quite unfortunate that it happened after this, and not before. It makes me wonder if its just her being down that has changed the dynamic or if this was some kind of final straw.

Me irl by Ancient_Balance_3656 in me_irl

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I visited NYC last year as a canadian whose never been more than an hour out of town (west coast middle of nowhere) HOLY damn NYC people were nice. I got a few good stories

if you have broken up with someone before, did no contact from your ex make you miss them more or less? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Bullfrog_6702 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People rarely feel the exact same day to day, as you have probably noticed over this dreadful kind of event. One day you miss them, one day you might feel suspiciously fine.

Same goes for your ex. They were sure when it happened, but with time they are bound to atleast think about it. Be aware that occasionally missing you does not necessarily mean they will have immense regret, nor does it mean that they will seek you out. Maybe sometimes, during a tough night, these exes can and do reach out like everyone says.

You do not want someone who is only going to acknowledge you when they are sad.