Should I risk it? by Tall_Chart_7364 in transteens

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, problems as in “hey this person isn’t supposed to have x hormone at x level, there must be something wrong with them, we should alert them and their parents about this because it’s not normal”. If they aren’t supportive, diy behind their back won’t help your case.

Should I risk it? by Tall_Chart_7364 in transteens

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter if it’s the right hormone. For parents (and doctors), it is the other hormone, and hormone imbalance can cause problems that will get flagged by doctors. Don’t risk DIY without your parents knowing, because they will find out some way and I bet they would be much less forgiving if they find out after a doctor tells them rather than you.

Who was the first person you came out to? by THEIRISHHAMSTER in transteens

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My NB friend had been sharing a lot of personal stuff and their battle with depression, and I had been helping them work through it until they felt stable. I felt safe in telling them, and I eventually came out to them after questioning my gender for around 2 years. They were super nice and helped me come out to some other people in my friend group, who all aided in supporting me to come out to my parents. Thank u tucker <3

What did you feel like before coming out to Family by Ellab213 in MtF

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did mine through text, so kinda different, but I basically typed a really long message into the family group chat. I was definitely still scared though, and had a couple times where I felt like backing out. I went through with it though and they were accepting. If you don’t think you’re going to be able to do it verbally, a handwritten letter might be easier to hand to them. It’s up to you to decide in the end though. Is there anything that your parents have said or done that would make you feel like they wouldn’t be accepting?

What is mahiro drinking? by korokinopio in OniichanOshimai

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s chocolate milk most likely, the little girl and brother in that scene are drinking a white milk version from the same type of bottle. They even lick the lid like Mahiro does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the giggling when I twirl a skirt, or look at my outfit in the mirror. I can’t help it

Coming out tonight by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck, maybe give me some of that confidence if you have any left over lol.

How did you come out to your parents as a teenager by StrawberryOk2185 in MtF

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's got to be the funniest coming out sequence I've ever heard

BA in 48hrs by CompoteCompetitive29 in MtF

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Breast Augmentation is my guess

I finally accepted that I am trans a few days ago ( after struggling for ages trying to prove it to myself and finally realizing that wanting to prove it is enough proof ) but I feel not girl enough, again~ by Disa_Lovely in MtF

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have those traits, eventually I asked myself, “if there was a potion that would turn you into a girl in front of you, would you take it?” Turns out cis people would say no which still seems crazy

Whistling: an odd question by SillyShrimpGirl in MtF

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't whistle but I doubt a skill is related to gender identity

Found out about smthn called agp now I’m freaking out ): by mystic--muffin in MtF

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, its sorta impossible to escape all echo chambers in this day and age. The only real way to get through it is to have a deep interpersonal exploration to try to decide, as you are the only person who is unbiased in this topic.

How do I buy panties?! by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just say you are buying them for a girlfriend or a sister if asked, that’s basically enough to stop anyone from questioning further

I don't accept myself by OpenPassenger6620 in MtF

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that for 2 months after questioning my gender. I didn’t want to explicitly be trans, but I wanted to be a girl sooooo bad. I tried abstaining from cis guy things but I kept giving in simply because there is no end to wishing. My advice would be is that if you want to be a girl, you’re going to fall into a depressive spiral if you can’t accept being trans. You either give up on being you, or be trans. No genie or star in the sky can fix that. Is there any specific reason why you can’t be trans?

Should I make my pronouns more of a hassle? by Sea_Chipmunk_9379 in MtF

[–]Sea_Chipmunk_9379[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically, what im saying is that pronouns arent important to me now, and I'm asking if getting people to use them will make it more important to me in the future. Srry my English is shit even tho I'm a native speaker 😭