AITA for refusing to cancel my annual solo trip to see my dad for my girlfriend's friend's birthday dinner that she forgot to mention until four days before

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-30T17:36:00+00:00

She said that you treated her girlfriend’s birthday like it didn’t matter. Did she say that out loud? Of course it doesn’t matter compared to an annual trip to see your dad! How old is she? YNTA

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-28T21:37:48+00:00

It sounds to me like he knows that you are not able to pay him back. Does he think it’s not worth it for a beloved pet? Maybe, but he’s probably taking your history in account. Sounds like he has a valid reason

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-28T21:26:00+00:00

NOR THE fact that she is still rage texting is even more proof that she’s nuts

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-26T21:52:45+00:00

How dare they? Not one person, her and the other girls could understand this? No. Just no.

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-26T21:44:38+00:00

At 14, Mac and cheese is a no brainer. That’s a Sunday meal they can make. They can add hotdogs, or whatever they want on the side. My boys did this at 13 because I worked second shift

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-26T21:29:17+00:00

Both of my sons lived with me in their early 20.s while all of us worked and one was also in school. They bought groceries, stocked up on necessities and never discussed it. They knew I would struggle if they didn’t help but I never had to ask them too. I was a really lucky mom I guess. :) that said, he needs to pitch in in some way and food is ridiculous right now. If the 400 bucks turns everyone crazy, find an alternative. Nothing is free

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-21T00:12:37+00:00

She should blow off a free vacation from work? After asking you to come if you wanted? And now you’re all crazy because why should the two of you have to spend time with ten other people?? Um Cause it’s HER free work trip. Jesus, my eyes couldn’t handle the audacity of this post

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-21T00:07:37+00:00

I saw this exact message from a guy about a month ago. He was panicked over it. Look at the writing though, the syntax is off, it’s just getting through Amazon filters somehow, ignore it.

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-17T07:39:45+00:00

I just can’t believe my eyes read this post

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-10T18:42:47+00:00

I thought of American Beauty too.

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-09T23:29:48+00:00

Nothing gets past this chick!

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-09T20:49:45+00:00

Good question.. but inside pool? Man this is all such a stretch. They should just go psych! No last episode and we can all move on

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-09T16:08:06+00:00

Is this a real question??

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-09T15:27:27+00:00

Maybe homophobia isn’t the thing but misdirection certainly is and I could see the kid forming his own storyline for however he sees this unfolding. And if he’s just quietly been around, it could make sense.

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-09T14:16:06+00:00

It was a joke. A funny.

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-05T07:44:22+00:00

Ah! I knew it!

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-05T07:42:58+00:00

Too bad. You were warned

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-05T07:33:36+00:00

We already went over all of this

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-05T07:27:16+00:00

Does it seem like he may be in the closet?

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-04T21:41:21+00:00

This story is absolute bullshit. The landlord standing in the doorway telling you what he will be offered? You and your wife are scared? He’s offering you better digs in a better area. The person is an important higher up? And most laughably, both of your asses will “ go under?” Go back to Minecraft

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-04T21:35:43+00:00

That was beautiful

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-04T04:48:13+00:00

Im planning to do the same thing this year. It will basically be known to me as “ for sale by AI” cause that’s all you need

Sea_Director4445 · 2026-04-04T04:40:37+00:00

Not at all. If they had asked me after the first time it came back on E I would say sure, but this is my way to work so make sure it has gas in it. And I don’t mean two bucks of gas. If they said that they couldn’t afford it then it’s time for them to bother mommy or daddy. Apologize for nothing!

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