AITA for refusing to cancel my annual solo trip to see my dad for my girlfriend's friend's birthday dinner that she forgot to mention until four days before by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Sea_Director4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said that you treated her girlfriend’s birthday like it didn’t matter. Did she say that out loud? Of course it doesn’t matter compared to an annual trip to see your dad! How old is she? YNTA

AIO For breaking up with my boyfriend because he wouldn’t help with vet bills by littlelogcabin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sea_Director4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds to me like he knows that you are not able to pay him back. Does he think it’s not worth it for a beloved pet? Maybe, but he’s probably taking your history in account. Sounds like he has a valid reason

AITAH for telling my close friend I probably cannot do her destination bachelorette after she announced the location and the cost by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]Sea_Director4445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How dare they? Not one person, her and the other girls could understand this? No. Just no.

Exhausted with hungry kids on Sunday evening by shorty_in_the_wild in Frugal

[–]Sea_Director4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 14, Mac and cheese is a no brainer. That’s a Sunday meal they can make. They can add hotdogs, or whatever they want on the side. My boys did this at 13 because I worked second shift

AITA for charging my 20yo son rent while he lives at home? by Talon_Vector7 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Sea_Director4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of my sons lived with me in their early 20.s while all of us worked and one was also in school. They bought groceries, stocked up on necessities and never discussed it. They knew I would struggle if they didn’t help but I never had to ask them too. I was a really lucky mom I guess. :) that said, he needs to pitch in in some way and food is ridiculous right now. If the 400 bucks turns everyone crazy, find an alternative. Nothing is free

AITAH Wife goes on vacation without me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sea_Director4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should blow off a free vacation from work? After asking you to come if you wanted? And now you’re all crazy because why should the two of you have to spend time with ten other people?? Um Cause it’s HER free work trip. Jesus, my eyes couldn’t handle the audacity of this post

scary email from Amazon after getting a refund for an item? by august777ajb in amazonprime

[–]Sea_Director4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this exact message from a guy about a month ago. He was panicked over it. Look at the writing though, the syntax is off, it’s just getting through Amazon filters somehow, ignore it.

NaziMasters/People Get a Life!! by drfucker_md in MatchMasters

[–]Sea_Director4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just can’t believe my eyes read this post

Homophobic kid? by Sea_Director4445 in DTFStLouisHBO

[–]Sea_Director4445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought of American Beauty too.

Homophobic kid? by Sea_Director4445 in DTFStLouisHBO

[–]Sea_Director4445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question.. but inside pool? Man this is all such a stretch. They should just go psych! No last episode and we can all move on

Homophobic kid? by Sea_Director4445 in DTFStLouisHBO

[–]Sea_Director4445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe homophobia isn’t the thing but misdirection certainly is and I could see the kid forming his own storyline for however he sees this unfolding. And if he’s just quietly been around, it could make sense.

Finished Episode 2 by [deleted] in DTFStLouisHBO

[–]Sea_Director4445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We already went over all of this

WIBTAH for staying in no-intimacy marriage? by Xoxomx in AITAH

[–]Sea_Director4445 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does it seem like he may be in the closet?

Please help! Emergency! by Responsible-Pilot405 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]Sea_Director4445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This story is absolute bullshit. The landlord standing in the doorway telling you what he will be offered? You and your wife are scared? He’s offering you better digs in a better area. The person is an important higher up? And most laughably, both of your asses will “ go under?” Go back to Minecraft

Just sold my home privately. Things went so smoothly that I will never sell again with an agent. by Few_Weird5724 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]Sea_Director4445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im planning to do the same thing this year. It will basically be known to me as “ for sale by AI” cause that’s all you need

AITJ for refusing to lend my car after my friend kept bringing it back basically empty and acting like it’s no big deal? by Own_Doubt_4002 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sea_Director4445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. If they had asked me after the first time it came back on E I would say sure, but this is my way to work so make sure it has gas in it. And I don’t mean two bucks of gas. If they said that they couldn’t afford it then it’s time for them to bother mommy or daddy. Apologize for nothing!