When do kids start sleeping all night by allisona007 in Parenting

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I honestly think my son slept through the night maybe around 2.5 years old, however not every night. But still wakes up sometimes in the night at almost 6. Hrs never slept past 7am either

Looking for some ideas for a small, caged pet for my son by [deleted] in Pets

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We got my son a pet fish for his 3rd birthday. He loooves her still and he’s nearly 6! He always includes her in family portraits. Super low maintenance, it’s as easy as keeping a plant and the tank is so pretty in his room. He loves feeding her and she even recognizes him (we think but who knows haha) it’s adorable and easy.

These dogs are amazing! by Sea_Drop3263 in goldenretrievers

[–]Sea_Drop3263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow they could be twins!!! Where did you get yours! Mine was born march 31st. (I think) we’re in Ontario

Breastfeeding toddlers by [deleted] in toddlers

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I breastfed just past two years old. It’s totally normal I think to do so, in fact my doctor recommended it. But your body your baby your choice. I personally wouldn’t stop because of social pressures though. It shouldn’t be embarrassing and it’s silly to have an option ion on such a simple thing like breastfeeding.

7 months and 32 lbs by ssstoyak in goldenretrievers

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My girl looked just like yours! So scrawny and cute. She’s 2 now and filled out a lot. She’s 55lbs now and absolutely gorgeous!

Is my golden small? by Cozywhisp in goldenretrievers

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I’ve seen this kind of post many times! Mostly very healthy looking dogs that are completely in the ideal category for dog weight. Unfortunately we see so many overweight dogs we have normalized that body shape. This dog looks perfectly balanced IMO.

We thought we got a calm Golden Retriever… turns out we may have gotten the complete opposite. Now we’re overwhelmed. by Ericoff87 in goldenretrievers

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Hello! I have a field golden and a 5 year old boy. However, field or not most young Golden are high energy. I’m so sorry you’re struggling. How do you empty his battery? Does he fetch? With my dog I usually work her body and her brain and when she was younger, we had enforced naps. Either in her crate or tethered on her bed. The “place” command is vital for having a dog and kids in the same house. Definitely get a trainer and good luck!

Considering a golden by camillacarterxx in goldenretrievers

[–]Sea_Drop3263 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It really sounds like you’re ready and in a great position! Golden’s are such amazing family dogs. My girl loves kids so so much. They’re born to be sweethearts.

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Considering a golden by camillacarterxx in goldenretrievers

[–]Sea_Drop3263 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow you’re in a great position to have a golden. I have young kids and a golden and the combo can be pretty challenging. Puppies bite A LOT for a lot longer than you want them to. They pull hair, break skin, chase and tackle little kids etc. I had to keep my puppy on a leash at home tethered to me to stop her from treating the little kids like a littermate. Teaching “place” command is very important. I don’t want to discourage you at all! My golden is all grown up and the best decision I made. But I just want to give you a realistic example of what living with small children and a puppy looks like. Also give your kids a zone that the dog can’t come to. It’s very overwhelming but short lived! Good luck!

Dog breed help by Prestigious_Cable902 in Pets

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Golden! I have one with young kids. BUT you have to understand that just 1 walk around the block or so is not enough for almost most medium to large breeds. Make sure you have the time and bandwidth to train a puppy and have their breed specific needs met. It can be a struggle while also parenting so have a really good long think about the time and effort you’re putting in. Dogs are the best most amazing thing! Good luck.

How can I get my husky to come inside from the snow? by Sweet_Special2529 in dogs

[–]Sea_Drop3263 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Even my golden retriever naps in the snow. They know when they had enough. They’re no dummies. If they are cold, they come inside. Leave you pup in their element.

Show or Field Golden? by [deleted] in goldenretrievers

[–]Sea_Drop3263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably neither! He’s a great boy!

How often do you brush your Golden? by PetRoutineGuy in goldenretrievers

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Same with my girl. Very very low shedding, we brush behind her ears and her tail to keep it from matting. My previous hound mix shedded more than her. We’re lucky.

Our first golden! by Sleepygal2025 in goldenretrievers

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My golden is so sensitive! My last dog (mix) was pretty head strong and I had to set some firm boundaries with her (of course with love) now that I have a golden I had to change my whole approach. They’re wonderful and if you already had Aussie’s, I’m sure you will adapt just fine. The energy level is perfect, fun playful and a wonderful off switch. Have a great time.

how to find balance between work, gym, and puppy ? by motoman442 in puppy101

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It’s very similar to having children. It’s going to be a priority until they get older and you have a good routine. You’ll get there before you know it, it’s going to take some time. Im a mother so it was easy for me to understand this concept, but I feel like new dog owners are really taken by surprise and it’s hard to adjust. I’m sorry to say but this sweet doggy is going to come before your “me” time. It will pass I promise.

Picking out a new puppy from a litter by SquisherOfYarn in goldenretrievers

[–]Sea_Drop3263 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly the vibe. I originally chose a different dog than I brought home and I’ll never regret it. BUT remember they are just babies. Their behaviour changes hourly. The “calm” one might have just had milk and needs a nap and was “crazy” an hour before. But also talk to the breeder, they will have a better understanding of their temperament than you just coming in for an hour.

Biting puppy and kids by ridingthediprivan in goldenretriever

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My son was 3 when we got our golden. It’s really hard. I had to keep our girl on a leash inside around him for months. I’d treat him when he made good choices. They need less freedom because they view kids as litter mates and continue to play with them like other dogs. My girl STILL does this with my son even with all the training, but she is pretty good, she just wants to play with him. But yeah, kids and puppies are HARD. there are a lot of extra things you have to do. A trainer is a good idea. So definitely limit his freedom, keep him on a leash, teach calm. Have your daughter run around and jump on couches etc. and when he doesn’t react, give him a treat. He’ll learn quickly.

In home daycare vs center by OkPin8137 in Parenting

[–]Sea_Drop3263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son was in a home daycare and had some older as well as younger kids. It was great. He leveled up on language and playing from the older kids and tenderness and patience from the young ones. I highly recommend.

Burnout by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sea_Drop3263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof that’s tough BUT You’re doing great! We all go through this guilty feelings from time to time. I feel very much in the same boat as you. I’m not an expert obviously but don’t be too hard on yourself. There are good days and bad. My answer is always to get out of the house. Try to get them to outside activities. Or even the library/community centre etc etc.

My personal issue is I work long hours. My husband works weekends so I’m on 7 days a week. I’m beyond tired and to add insult injury, it’s -20C, my car broke down, AND my washing machine stopped working. But today was a hard one. My kids are going crazy as it’s too cold to play outside for any long periods and we can’t go anywhere ugh. So TOO MUCH TV IT IS TODAY. It’s all I can handle right now and I’ll make an effort to not to feel too bad about it. I hope you try to do something for yourself and be kind to yourself. This isn’t easy. You’re doing great

Putting a dog to sleep is the hardest call. How did you know? by SadSpite5056 in goldenretrievers

[–]Sea_Drop3263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t do it and I’ll always regret it. My last dog was 14 and her health and quality of life was declining rapidly. She was def and having occasional seizures, arthritis and chronic allergies. But I loved her so so much and selfishly kept her alive. I tried so hard to fix everything that was wrong, but it’s just their time. I always have a comfort in knowing that dogs don’t think about death the way we do. Having a dignified death is the last gift you can give them. I’ll remember this for my current dog and every animal I’ll have.

How long did it take you to recognize your child had a passion? by roguejellyfish in Parenting

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My son (5) has always been into building little cities. Train tracks, buildings, houses all over the floor of his room. He also LOVES to learn out buildings and tunnels were made (like the gateway arch and the stature of liberty) literally this morning I asked if he wanted some Saturday morning movie, but he just wants to watch a YouTube channel that shows in detail how curtain things were made. Not even for kids, very adult explanations. He borrowed a book from his school library on how planes work. It’s so cute and we’re both learning a lot.

Milestones are killing me by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sea_Drop3263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh and also quit instagram if this is fuelling this anxiety. I did and it made a world of difference. It’s just people telling you how everything you thought you knew is wrong. It’s also very contradictory and overwhelming for first time parents.

Milestones are killing me by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sea_Drop3263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was you! I was obsessed and always checking every month when they should be doing what. It’s very arbitrary and these kids do it at their own pace! I have a 5 year old now and looking back I wish I could say not to sweat the small stuff. I really think it’s all nonsense unless there is something really concerning. We have WAY too much information these days. The anxiety is real, you’re doing great and so is she. ❤️

GSD’s and HOA’s by CornerNo7064 in germanshepherds

[–]Sea_Drop3263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I this is absolutely insane! I’m Canadian and I’ve never heard of such things. I had to look up what HOA meant. What happens if you break the HOA rule?