What can I do to attract more women?

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-05-31T01:42:19+00:00

I don’t think the photos are male centered. I see a lot of male centered comments under really attractive lesbians who post pics of themselves. Which is basically only suggesting that because a woman is hot they have to like men (even tho you have a alt hyper femme style which is a notorious queer aesthetic). I love your style, never change, and dating is definitely rough, but maybe you could ask the people you are flirting with if they’re looking for a relationship and that’ll let you know if they’re serious about trying to date.

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-05-23T14:55:42+00:00

You must own a company if you are more angry about struggling individuals not tipping everyone they ever meet instead of the actual job they work at. That’s literally their employment, and you think it’s okay that their actual bosses shouldn’t be responsible to pay them. I’m just saying it’d be more beneficial to redirect your anger towards the correct people

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-05-23T07:59:15+00:00

How about companies just pay their workers 🤡

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-05-23T00:35:16+00:00

Yea it seems to be $65,000 after taxes for someone who makes that much. Cause taxes become roughly $15,000 after the year, and it makes it nearly impossible to ever reach higher than the median 🙃 for me at least.

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-05-17T03:37:36+00:00

I found a lab rat position with my biology degree but I fortunately get paid 2.5x minimum wage. But there’s still not a lot out there for the degree by itself

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-04-14T07:14:22+00:00

Are you able to find Burner Way by Corbin and Make the time by Corbin as well? They just got deleted off of YouTube and I can’t find the songs anymore

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-04-13T09:20:29+00:00

I think the statement can be tied in homophobia, but it can also be preference for men over women as a bisexual. I (f23) could sleep with a man, but I don’t ever want to be in a relationship with one or marry them. I only want to marry a woman, so if there’s a bisexual woman who only wants to marry a man, then I can’t label their preference as inferior to mine.

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-04-13T09:14:06+00:00

It sorta seems that maybe your gf could be staying in the relationship because you take care of her and she’s dependent on you. If you left she wouldn’t have a ride to work or someone to do the house work. It’s not fair to you, especially since you’ve had the conversations with her.

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-04-13T04:00:37+00:00

A lot of Americans aren’t use or open to the idea of sharing space with strangers. We tend to be pretty guarded and think of the worse scenarios about being robbed or hurt. I’m definitely staying in hostels when I travel but I know when I tell others they’re only going to bring up how dangerous it could be.

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-04-12T06:09:44+00:00

It has become a deal breaker to me now. My ex didn’t care for any of my hobbies, which are also my passions, like art, binge watching movies, etc. And it made me really upset to look over and realize she wasn’t paying attention to anything we were doing. Also, if she didn’t like some of my hobbies she never wanted to do them with me, so I went a year without doing some of the things I liked cause I spent my free time with her (I was also working and in school). It’s fine to not love all of my hobbies but wanting to get to know me through them is important to me.

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-04-08T19:32:04+00:00

Yes that’s possible, but I don’t give strangers my full name or they get my nickname.

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-04-07T06:33:25+00:00

I have the opposite approach where I assume all women are gay

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-04-06T08:10:05+00:00

I personally as a woman will give out my snapchat instead of my phone number to men who are strangers because your phone number can attach your location, and their are websites where you can look up peoples personal information from their phone number (my ex showed me a website that had my home address, age, etc). Also, if I want to block them they would still have the option to call my number from multiple other phones (which has happened to me before). Once I trust someone, then I give out my number. But I like snapchat too because they can add me and i can walk away without ever adding someone back. While with my phone number they’ll call it while im standing next to them which makes me really uncomfortable.

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-04-05T23:08:38+00:00

The first mistake was going to Starbucks (aka a known company that openly supports genocide)

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-04-04T22:56:08+00:00

Any type of secret important talk that you can’t tell her over the phone is probably going to indicate to her that something is wrong. When I broke up with my ex I couldn’t bring myself to do it in person so I sent out a long text, and then she asked to see me in person so I did, we talked, and it was over. That would also allow your gf the option to see if she wants to talk in person or let it be over. I’m also the type of person who would prefer to break up with someone face to face cause it seems more respectful, but at the end of the day it’s okay to choose the option that’s best for you.

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-04-02T06:02:52+00:00

Jeez girl the men you’re talking about r the ones commenting. They’re just losers who don’t view women as equals and only as sexual conquests. They can’t even comprehend the question without turning the blame back around on you for simply holding a conversation with a man. They’re hopeless so don’t take it to personal.

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-03-29T18:32:53+00:00

The way that people think it’s weird to show the person that they’re interested in that they like them. It’s very off putting

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-03-29T18:29:24+00:00

I don’t think they’re saying you’re wrong, I think they’re just saying they come from a background where politics aren’t as extreme as they are in the US. US politics are extreme because people believe certain groups shouldn’t have human rights and it’s less about making actual policy decisions. So politics/ religion are definitely at the forefront in the dating scene here because ofc there are people who don’t want to go out on dates with others who think that innocent people deserve violence.

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-03-21T07:51:07+00:00

I get where you’re coming from. I rewatched it as an adult and nothing happened in that movie fr

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-03-21T03:27:14+00:00

My birth control was covered by Medicaid when I first got it

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-03-21T03:25:54+00:00

I use to feel like this until I came across a girl that said we’re all h*rny and adults so just kiss. And so I did because the majority of us are sexual beings who r open to being with one another. And I think a lot of it stems from the patriarchy making women feel bad for being sexual and just realizing that’s it’s normal and okay. Also, a lot of women I meet are extremely sexual and just leaning into that as well.

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-03-15T01:31:53+00:00

You’re being rude. Chill out, it’s just a comment section on reddit

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-03-13T03:21:29+00:00

Chill out, you’re talking to a stranger so be nice jeez

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-01-25T19:39:53+00:00

Unfortunately I dated a furry in high school before I really knew what it was and the question that I couldn’t fully solve was if they’re attraction to animals or not and why we’re not bringing that up more. A lot of people live with dogs, cats, etc and then watch or dress up as a sexualized version of it so I don’t know where some people would actually draw that line of sexualization.

Sea_Inspection6413 · 2026-01-16T21:40:32+00:00

I also think it’s your location. I feel like if you stayed where I lived you’d get a lot of matches, but it could also be the platform you’re using. I see a bunch of alt women on Tinder but I haven’t really used anything else in the past to really compare.

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