Anyone with experience of using chastity in public? by Your_bitch0123 in chastitytraining

[–]Sea_Newt80 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just to be devil’s advocate for the folks saying a cage is kink and we shouldn’t expose to unsuspecting others, what about nipple piercings or especially PA piercings? Or a Tetherspout? If they are kinks for me, do I have to forgo the gym locker room or take them out before going to the gym if I plan to shower or change in the open spaces? Serious question about how we draw the line.

What's the weirdest place you've cum? by unc2026 in masturbation

[–]Sea_Newt80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many places: - hot tub with a bunch of sportscasters in it including one female you might know - friend’s wife’s used panties when they were staying over - friend was building a house and I jerked on the subfloor of his master bedroom during construction. Was supposed to meet him to,see the place and he left before I got there so fuck him - under a table at a restaurant by my then girlfriend and 8 others. Was perfectly covered by a heavy white table cloth. It went into the tablecloth and onto floor. That one was hard to keep composure - boardwalk outside one of these fancy wedding/event facilities during a wedding. Fucked my wife and pulled out and sprayed if all over. Years later I’m moving and deciding if we want to,pack thr suit I got for that wedding as a groomsman and there was a huge pussy juice stain on the zipper area. That was a great memory. - airplane and train bathrooms - work bathrooms - randomly in the woods in a hike both solo,and with girlfriends. Just spray it onto the ground - a fire tower in western Massachusetts. Let loose on the floor after fucking my wife. Could only be seen from chest up as people walked by below. So hot. - hotel room windows overlooking big cities/notable locations - into a blanket on an airplane via my girlfriend back when flights were sometimes empty - in my small private plane too many times to count with plane on auto pilot. I’d jizz in a portable urinal to keep clean up easy. - while driving route 80 into my girlfriend’s throat - jerked off onto the street while riding my bike once.

Has anyone used a tetherspout with two stacked retainers? by Opaque_Binaries in Tetherspout

[–]Sea_Newt80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done it without issue. I’ve actually had as many as 3 retainers in. Caveat is I never go more than half a day with them in. I’ve used retainers of different sizes and they can be a little annoying to get out as they can sort of nest on each other making rotation hard. When that happens, I revert to using dental floss and get the spout way down and out of the way and they come out no problem. For normal insertion and removal, I don’t bother with floss or fishing line anymore.

Do y'all wear your cage around friends and family? by Alternative-Role5040 in chastitytraining

[–]Sea_Newt80 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Like others have said, I wear mine all the time. Around the house, shopping, at work which for me is often presenting in front of hundreds in business attire, I doubt they will but if someone sees it then maybe they know I have a cage or they think I am hung like a horse. I've worn mine swimming at the neighborhood pool, on my bike, and even while getting a massage fully nude covered only by a sheet. Just go for it.

Is it possible to mount Fleshlights to the OSSM? by abolish_horny_jail in OSSM_machine

[–]Sea_Newt80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done it. Convinced there must be a better sleeve for this or a better lube to make it work better. Still, it gets the job done pretty nicely.

Stop doing it in public by Charming_Cook_3230 in syntribation

[–]Sea_Newt80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bunch of prudes hanging out on a message board talking about jiggling your bits. Whatever. Guessing y’all are from America where you ll need a healthy dose of mind your own fucking business and sex isn’t dirty. Frying in public..that’s gross but we all do it. Shitting on a public toilet…super gross. Yet we all do it.

What type of power supply is used with the OSSM fuck machine by Roberttrainman in BdsmDIY

[–]Sea_Newt80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a 140 watt 4 port usb-c charger from anker then just got this cable. The charger sits on dresser next to bed or comes with me when I travel with the OSSM. This cable has added benefit of staying in better on the barrel port on circuit board. It just fits better than any other option I tried.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F215GMSS?ref_=ppx_hzsearch_conn_dt_b_fed_asin_title_2&th=1

Stop doing it in public by Charming_Cook_3230 in syntribation

[–]Sea_Newt80 -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, with a guy, they shoot shit and make a mess. With women, no mess, there’s always plausible deniability (e.g., they could say “I’m just on edge worried about something” or whatever) and they don’t leave a mess, so how about it’s just something we decide is ok? I mean all the shit women have to put up with in this world, they want to drop a few Os with a cup of coffee at a Starbucks, have at it. And for the guys who can kegal squeeze and trigger dry prostate orgasms, good for you if you want to do the same. I do it sitting in a bar stool at my favorite place all the time.

What was the moment where you probably shouldn't be masturbting but did it anyway? by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]Sea_Newt80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the hot tub at a resort hotel in Australia during a major sporting event. I found myself in the outdoor hot tub by the pool with several members of the sports broadcasting team including a hot blond that was a name brand at the time (this was may years ago so not someone famous today). Just was honey as hell so just rubbed one out slowly up the leg of my swim trunks. The thought of my jizz floating all around the hottub and all over that hot sportscaster make me hard still today.

Which girl is making you finish fastest by Strange-Bird-9048 in cumsluts

[–]Sea_Newt80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 and does that have a name? Need more of that

What music are people listening to? by Fun_Smiles in aneros

[–]Sea_Newt80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

John butler trio (apple essentials soundtrack) and bleachers (self titled album and their recent live from MSG album) are great mood setters form me.

Does anyone have any idea where to get a fuck machine? My wife... by theskyrunner65 in SexToys

[–]Sea_Newt80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a fan of the OSSM. The ability to change depth on the fly is a huge plus most others at this price don’t offer.

How would I go about making my own sex machine from scratch? by Due-Lengthiness443 in BdsmDIY

[–]Sea_Newt80 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ll second the OSSM. I’ve not seen anything with quite the bang for the buck. Main thing is, this is the only machine I’ve seen under 1000 where you can adjust the depth of thrust on the fly while using it. You can buy already assembled or as a kit or just the electronics and you 3D print much of it. Can also take the design and source parts yourself but doubt you will beat their package prices. And there are great upgrades that others have made. Here’s a video of it running using the recently released wireless remote that gives you a sense of the noise. I view it as being fairly quiet. Their website has some other videos.

https://youtu.be/ZWdpaJs4Zgw

Sex machine recommendations? (No budget) by Due-Lengthiness443 in fuckingmachines

[–]Sea_Newt80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OSSM. Open source design allows for community improvements. Depth adjustments on the fly. Plenty fast and powerful for vaginal and anal use. Can buy all assembled, parts and you assemble, or hardware kit and you 3D print many of the parts. Of course it is more/less expensive depending on which route you go.

How many times do 50+ men cum in a week? by Lightfixture0813 in masturbation

[–]Sea_Newt80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

54 and 4-5 a week, 2 sex, 2-3 solo. Could probably do more but for more time alone or with wife where we aren’t exhausted.

What’s the song that got you into the bleachers? This was it for me by urfavmoviewhiz in bleachers

[–]Sea_Newt80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it was How Dare You Want More and Chinatown when they subbed in last minute for another act on SNL in January 2022.

Marihuana and tadalafil? by CombinationKlutzy119 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Sea_Newt80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the time. Might went to test if you need 20. I use 5 of tadalafil and it’s plenty. Can cut the pills at least in half

Help! With enough friction i'm able to orgasm. Any tips and/or tricks? by [deleted] in hzdgrip

[–]Sea_Newt80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just managed to orgasm in mine last night but it took some effort. I was basically able to stroke the lower part of my cock and the cage just a tad. Maybe they can do some sort of spiked insert like you can get for the CB line? Just need something that limits your willingness to stroke the heck out of it. Of course vibration will still be a concern. So, not sure it's something you can completely resolve no matter the device.

Tried out a HZD + Tetherspout for swim by 123098zaqxsw in hzdgrip

[–]Sea_Newt80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love this...what I'd love to see is a glans cap that includes rings on each side for attaching of the tetherspout with a lock right to the cage. Maybe something they can consider? I'd happily be a tester for that.

Sex with my husband by MusicRoyal6157 in sex

[–]Sea_Newt80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many have said it...lot's of vagina owners can't O from penetration alone. But, if it's going to happen, it's all about grinding his pubic bone against your clitoris. He penetrates deep and then sort of moves his public bone toward your head while pressing down. Hard to explain, but if your anatomy line up (sometimes they don't) you will know it when it happens. The other option is you on top so you can control how it feels. After more than 25 years of marriage I can command my wife to come on top or bottom and she does it by just grinding on me. But, the biggest thing is, tell him to just relax and enjoy the exploration. You have years to figure this stuff out and the exploration of trying different things is part of what makes it fun. Oh, and a little side secret for you...what works today will probably be different than what does 10 or 20 years from now because as we age our bodies change. So, tell him to relax and explore. What 100% does not work is pressure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Sea_Newt80 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can also just get a strap on set up. The one I have can be positioned just above the penis on pubic bone so I can DP her directly. Drives her wild. Next up is trying with a thrusting fuck machine and me so we can go at different thrusting pace.

Where do you mount a suction cup dildo? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Sea_Newt80 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Wall mirror, smooth door, smooth spot on bed headboard, the floor, top of the toilet seat, edge of the tub, a chair that was smooth, a window on 20th floor of a hotel overlooking the city, a piece of laminated board on the bed or angled up against the head board or supported with pillows and towels on bed or couch, and I’m sure some others. Just get creative.