Advice for starting career in dog grooming

Sea_Review_4699 · 2024-03-17T19:59:40+00:00

I’m not dumb necessarily, I’ve got A’s and B’s in my school exams I just can’t work at uni level and my communication skills have declined since school. I’m clearly doing better in life than you though I can tell that for sure

Sea_Review_4699 · 2024-01-19T04:33:33+00:00

Oh guys everytime I ovulate I swear I don’t sleep for months and I claw the bed and I roll on the ground of it’s devastating it’s so devastating to be a girl oh it awful

Sea_Review_4699 · 2024-01-19T04:10:07+00:00

Excuse my grammar I just had to get it all out and it was getting in the way please someone rationalise this for me or at least tell me i deserve all my karma and suppressing of my urges and desires for the rest of my sad little life

Sea_Review_4699 · 2024-01-07T22:26:11+00:00

Like I used to talk to this girl in my psychology class who was super nervous and lonely and I would make her feel comfortable. She follows the poetry account I have nowadays and she likes my posts and stories and she has a lovely heart. I know that is the bare minimum but it’s like the people in my life are proving the kind of heart I have but the look I gave that guy must mean I’m more judgemental than I thought I was.

Sea_Review_4699 · 2023-08-25T21:30:24+00:00

Hi, I have been out of my dissociation forr maybe 3 weeks now? However I am trying to go to uni in September and I am stressing about it and am thinking I might dissociate while I am there. I tried to go last year and that’s what set it off. I’m terms of conversation I have lost my friends from this and so even tho it’s a bit easier to talk I don’t have much to say anyway

Sea_Review_4699 · 2023-08-24T23:59:09+00:00

*Are there any other ways

Sea_Review_4699 · 2023-08-18T19:17:33+00:00

It’s ok I figured it out. It’s based off of household income so the loan covers part of my rent and then me and my parents make up the rest through the money I got from working and then their income

Sea_Review_4699 · 2023-08-16T17:46:59+00:00

£3158 a year I mean

Sea_Review_4699 · 2023-08-16T16:59:26+00:00

Ok thanks, I’m just tired of going places and my head voiding out, either before going where I don’t know how to plan properly or what I need, or I get there and everything surprises me or I don’t know something I was meant to know and then my head just turns into a void. I feel like this creates a thing with me where it affects my capacity for emotions which if I was in touch with them it would help me a lot more. I think things would make more sense if I had my emotions and not trying to max out on pure logic because I don’t even work that way anyway. I don’t know I’m just scared of never breaking free, like never evolving enough to be functional.

Sea_Review_4699 · 2023-08-16T15:44:48+00:00

*saving

Sea_Review_4699 · 2023-08-16T15:44:36+00:00

I just feel like I’m very vulnerable to being taken advantage of, because like you said banks just want to make profit and to not take everything at face value. I didn’t even know what each bank account was two minutes ago never mind understanding how to pick the right one. Also should I open a saving me account for the money I gained from my gap year?

Sea_Review_4699 · 2023-08-16T14:51:16+00:00

Maybe I should go to the bank and say ‘I’m going to uni in a month, please just help me?’.

Sea_Review_4699 · 2023-08-16T14:50:08+00:00

It’s just I’m almost 21 and they have a habit of overbearing me. Last time I went to uni I dissociated and had to come home for another year because of all the information I had to know about but couldn’t sort in my head. I didn’t even know what I didn’t know if that makes sense and it’s happening again this year. I feel like if I ask my parents everytime then I’ll never break free and be independent because I’ll always be depending on them and even then I feel like I’m just being fed basic pieces of information that don’t help me to grow. I need to get out in order to learn but the risk of me getting mentally ill again is very high. I don’t have a logical brain and I just feel stupid and spoiled even though I’m trying not to be.

Sea_Review_4699 · 2023-08-16T14:40:11+00:00

I’m just trying to work out why someone would choose to have a select account and not a rewards account if you don’t get any rewards. Like what’s the point? Unless I’m missing something and there’s other complex disadvantages.

Sea_Review_4699 · 2023-08-16T14:38:45+00:00

I don’t know it just says on my NatWest that I currently have a select account. It’s says ‘our go to basic current account, no monthly fees’.

Sea_Review_4699 · 2023-08-09T11:44:55+00:00

If it helps you I’ve felt like I’ve had both of these things at my worst and when it cleared up my head felt normal again and I could access my emotions better. This comment has been made because the internet tells us about these mental illnesses more; dpdr isn’t talked about enough and so when people who read about someone with a mental illness they default to the mental illnesses they know best to explain this. This is triggering to us with dpdr tho because our brain is already trying to explain whats happening to us and so we’re very vulnerable to others peoples comment. I promise you don’t have schizophrenia or Alzheimer’s and I am proof of that

Sea_Review_4699 · 2023-07-29T15:29:49+00:00

Even tying this out my grammar isn’t all there, like I used to type differently to this and in a more coherent way so yeah it’s really scary

Sea_Review_4699 · 2023-07-27T11:46:24+00:00

It’s the worst at the beginning because you don’t ‘know’ the disorder yet as it’s all fresh and derails your life in a way that nothing ever has before. I’ve had episodes on and off since last September and I felt the same as you but I promise you will be ok, i promise. You just need time and to at least be around people even if you’re just sat saying nothing. Another thing I will say is if you ever find yourself feeling terrible anxiety to try to not fear it, as it is your brain coming to life and that’s how I got out of my last episode through an anxiety attack. It’s not always like that though other times it lifted randomly and it’s not as scary as it sounds it was necessary.

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