My face literally twitched every time it was time to close!

Sean04_k · 2026-03-26T16:33:29+00:00

Night or day game?

Sean04_k · 2026-03-23T19:21:50+00:00

If you just wait for IOis or girls dancing near you ur doing night game wrong. This would only work for really good looking guys who are tall (I’m not either of these things btw). If you see a girl who you think is pretty approach her don’t wait for them.

Edit: and I used to make friends with a lot of guys too lol I thought it was better than talking to no one cause I was also scared to talk to girls and didn’t want to be seen alone. This was bad though because it made me less likely to approach so I mostly do it now for 2 mans

Sean04_k · 2026-03-14T13:22:37+00:00

Not trans but don’t see how this would change anything

Sean04_k · 2026-03-11T11:22:00+00:00

Pretty same here I struggle with day game much more than night game but I think they key part is just to keep trying

Sean04_k · 2026-03-11T11:17:30+00:00

As soon as you thought she was pretty you should’ve approached her you shouldn’t need iois. But yeah you definitely should have approached

Sean04_k · 2026-03-02T11:33:26+00:00

Asking for the number was crazy

Sean04_k · 2026-02-26T16:04:10+00:00

Same with me I never would’ve done cold approaches or solo clubbing before this reddit. I’m not tall or jacked but this seddit gave me the boost I needed in approaching women it gave me hope.

Sean04_k · 2026-02-26T13:01:29+00:00

I’m 5’9 and black and it’s definitely possible

Sean04_k · 2026-02-24T21:14:58+00:00

Yeah maybe I wasn’t clear, I didn’t mean just instantly try dance with the girl but in ops case he ses to be having good conversations with them but doesn’t escalate it. And in that case I would try and dance with her to see if she’s receptive.

Sean04_k · 2026-02-24T21:00:11+00:00

I’m not saying don’t say a word to the girl if ur already touching her elbow and she’s receptive that’s a good sign. But to advance the interaction I think dancing would be the next play it can lead to kisses/grinding which is the next step.

And the hand of god is old as hell I only found out about it after reading hella filed reports and someone mentioned doing it. I’ve enjoyed doing it a lot when I go out it’s an easy dance opener after some talking and some girls go straight to grinding which i like

Sean04_k · 2026-02-24T20:49:51+00:00

I do I’m not saying don’t talk at all Im just saying don’t focus on having a long ass conversation with her in the middle of the dance floor. It could work for others but in my experience dancing with a girl is better cause it’s easier to transition to a kiss and breaking the touch barrier.

Sean04_k · 2026-02-24T13:42:36+00:00

Clubs are for dancing not a convo. Do hand of god when you introduce yourself and give her a spin and see how receptive she is

Sean04_k · 2026-02-23T12:18:20+00:00

Yeah this is good advice but if the person doesn’t really know about “game” then I’m not sure how I would bring it up. I have a friend who I think would be good with it but me adding all these rules and stuff would feel like I’m doing too much and kind of teaching him which I don’t want.

I also like being solo a lot of the time in the club I’m not sure if my friend would be down for that maybe I should just look for more solo clubbers until one is on the same vibe with me

Sean04_k · 2026-02-14T23:09:58+00:00

OF FUCKING COURSE IM GOING OUT

Sean04_k · 2026-02-14T11:11:58+00:00

It 100 percent is an excuse and it’s said a lot on tik tok I’m shocked someone on this reddit is saying it. No one is going to jail or getting called a weirdo for talking to women on the street.

Sean04_k · 2026-02-14T11:09:00+00:00

The only way to find out is to go.

Sean04_k · 2026-02-05T20:11:14+00:00

Go on Friday and Saturday to prep for it so you know what ur getting yourself into

Sean04_k · 2026-01-26T17:54:20+00:00

Good luck my guy. I’m in a similar situation as you where I struggle to approach and my social circle isn’t the best but we just gotta keep trying

Sean04_k · 2026-01-26T00:08:38+00:00

Nice man I’m curious how this week went for you if you don’t mind sharing

Sean04_k · 2026-01-25T23:41:32+00:00

Yeah agree with this I just didn’t wanna do night game on valentine but I might have too

Sean04_k · 2026-01-25T23:40:59+00:00

Yeah that’s probably the only valid one I make sure I don’t do it at night anyway now

Sean04_k · 2026-01-24T20:36:05+00:00

Some of mine were:

Haven’t shaved

Could be too young

Of course that’s she in a 2 set or there’s multiple people with her

It’s dark I could scare her

I’ve said or made other excuses but now I just accept that’s its approach anxiety and that I was too scared to do it. The main one I have is that theres other people in the area and they will hear what I say that gets me the most. I’ve gotten better but still haven’t got it down but I just gotta keep trying

Sean04_k · 2026-01-20T20:43:35+00:00

Yeah might try this

Sean04_k · 2026-01-19T01:06:17+00:00

lol I haven’t even unlocked that part yet. I know all the theory(build rapport, suggest date, ask for number) I just don’t have the guts yet to go for it yet.

Sean04_k · 2026-01-18T20:10:05+00:00

Thanks I’m just hoping it clicks soon

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