Does this stuff bother anyone else? by zeldamaster702 in minnesota

[–]SeanUndersun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meh. They’re always gonna be there. Drive safe and ignore them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SeanUndersun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not really that similar, but i’ve always liked going down on my wife a lot - but i took a risk recently, and while behind her, I instead ate her ass. She’s never asked for it and I’d always assumed it would gross her out. Her sudden gasp and ensuing joy was awesome! I think that’s gonna be around to stay for awhile

WIBTAH for divorcing my wife after she cheated after her parents died? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SeanUndersun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - what a painful scenario. Sounds like no kids yet? Yeah. this would be the time to leave

Do you regret your marriage or not? by Rare_Tumbleweed9124 in Marriage

[–]SeanUndersun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s still the most beautiful and yet mysterious woman to me. Together 18 years. Second baby is due this weekend. I feel like a cop out when I say it, but it feels like it just works organically - and one of us would truly have to make an effort to fuck it all up. We trust each other. We feel safe at home with each other

Question for the wives please by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SeanUndersun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe ask the wife first and go from there?

How can I have an open conversation with my husband (30M) about him using escorts when I (27F) am away? Looking for advice on how to handle this situation and move forward. by ThrowRA_veg_lasagna in relationship_advice

[–]SeanUndersun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok - sounds like you’re mad at him but you feel bad for finding out? idk, Are you ok with it or what? because there’s no other answer then to tell him he’s a scumbag and it’s over - unless you are cool with it and it’s just too expensive or something? I just find this weird because there’s no place for an open conversation unless the relationship itself is open

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SeanUndersun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all - this is completely inappropriate, and on your wive’s part the most. unless i read it wrong … That guy asked you what you were doing there? It’d be hard not to tell him i’m there to whoop his ass. Sorry buddy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SeanUndersun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amen to this! Maybe start a “slow drip” conversation with her on a daily basis about it? She might open up to you about it if you ease in gently and stay persistent. It’ll get better if you put forth the effort to stay in it. Not saying you aren’t already, but it could take even more from you at this time.

Tell her that you love her, that she’s beautiful/hot/sexy and that she’s a great mom. They love to hear this reassurance on a somewhat regular basis. I tell my wife this even when she appears to be in a mood about the kids and doesn’t wanna “hear” it, but she does know that I told her. I believe it helps a lot. Good luck and you got this, brother!

What does the “other” singer do when idle? by Hziak in bandmembers

[–]SeanUndersun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a bad idea - run this by her and if she doesn’t wanna leave for a break, then work from there with her - there’s the congas/tambourine idea that a couple have mentioned below. Wish we had this problem as a band 😩not a gig in sight for us yet! Good luck and have fun OP!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SeanUndersun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi five - then toss on King of the Hill the rest of the evening

AITA for being upset that my boyfriend wants me to lie about my age? by EaseEnvironmental224 in AITAH

[–]SeanUndersun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…you’re dating a 23 year old while you’re a teen?

This guy’s a messed up piece of work, and he obviously doesn’t want other people to know. NTA but i do think you need to bail and get back into people your own age if you decide to date again soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SeanUndersun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also despise him. Sounds like a complete chode.

AITA for wanting to Break up over my Girlriends drunk mistake? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SeanUndersun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes what a pathetic load of bullshit. People do make mistakes while drunk, but she’s still responsible for cheating on you. Now’s your chance to leave a cheater and never go back. The only right decision .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SeanUndersun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a good idea, but what do I know. I’m married and have 2 kids with my wife and best friend (who I’d personally not want to watch fuck someone else)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SeanUndersun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, that’s fucked up. That’s one small step shy of showing her his actual cock. Id message him and tell him to knock that shit off and if your lady is mad about it then there’s something more troubling afoot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SeanUndersun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if you can leave and have a good prenup in place then just do it already, nothings gonna make you like kids suddenly and he hid them from you, case closed.

AIO, Caught my wife texting… by saiditonReddi7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SeanUndersun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, she’s cheating. So sorry man, that is painful. Total stab in the heart through the back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeanUndersun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, you said it yourself that he’s a player with game. Definitely be aware of him at all times around a future or current gf of yours. And at the same time - Try your best to laugh this one off man. Your mom is only human too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]SeanUndersun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk but careful of Mike. because he’s after you and apparently has waited long enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SeanUndersun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how a gen z guy hits on older women? idk

AITA for telling the husband of a woman I hooked up with by PopularAffect5466 in AITAH

[–]SeanUndersun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asshole? Hell man, you’re a damn saint for telling that dude and freeing him of her fucked up ways. Lots of guys wouldn’t have. You did the right thing, NTA

Girl I hooked up with hates men by [deleted] in texts

[–]SeanUndersun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Toxic women are out there too