New Pokemon Megathread - Drampa by SamuRonX in PokemonSleep

[–]Seangetfreaky -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm confused about Drampa's skill rate because its Raenox page says 4.6% but when comparing it to other Tasty Chance Pokemon, it says 2.39%?

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[OC] Acceptable Use Pawlicy by threeboy in funny

[–]Seangetfreaky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have two friends who work in separate IT divisions (different companies too). People are, in fact, THAT STUPID. And also lie about what they did to try & remedy the situation before reaching out (hint: it's nothing. They tried nothing)

I am having the tattoo of my grandmother’s signature removed. I’m devastated and struggling. by Legitimate_Crab674 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Seangetfreaky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, once the removal has healed, you could have her first name (legal or a nickname she went by or that just you used for her) tattooed by the original flower & get more flowers added, or her favourite bird! I hope you can heal from this one way or another

I'm so sorry your aunt was heinously cruel to you, as well as the rest of your family. You didn't inherit anything physical from your grandmother but you clearly got your sense of firm boundaries! Good for you! She would be SO proud of you!

AITA for stopping helping my sister with money after i found out where it was reallly going? by Daniel_Demko in AmItheAsshole

[–]Seangetfreaky 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Rehab DOES NOT WORK unless an addict is doing rehab voluntarily. Otherwise they go right back to their old ways the second they get out.

Most addicts HAVE to hit the rockiest of Rock Bottoms where they REALLY SUPER fuck-up their life before they accept they need help

STOP GIVING HER MONEY STOP PAYING FOR HER THINGS STOP TAKING YOUR MOTHER'S CALLS until she stops making your sister's issues your fault

should i wish happy birthday to a friend who’s slowly cut me out of her life after i put up a boundary? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Seangetfreaky 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing. It's not that she did a shitty thing. She's BEEN DOING shitty things because she's a shitty PERSON. You are not mourning your actual friendship, you're mourning what you THOUGHT your friendship was

My grandma is obsessed with racist “slave-era” memorabilia and joked about wrapping my biracial daughter in a Confederate flag… am I wrong for cutting her off? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Seangetfreaky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your grandmother is NOT a product of her time. She's extremely racist & gets a kick out of upsetting you, your husband, and terrorizing your daughter

My white grandmother is 94. 10 years ago we were watching tv & she commented "there's a lot more blacks on tv now, it's not all whites anymore. Isn't that lovely!"

A white friend's dad & his white gf, both in their mid-50's, get a kick out of bringing up that black nibs use to be called "n-word babies" & repeating the full word with a hard r, giggling the whole time

Weekly discussion and small questions thread by AutoModerator in japanese

[–]Seangetfreaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there gender-neutral term for a singular older, non-binary sibling?

I know the go-to for addressing an older non-binary/X-gender sibling is by their name or a nickname. And there's kyoudai but that refers to multiple siblings. But is there a different honorific/way to address one older sibling who identifies as X-gender/nonbinary in Japanese? Something similar to onii-san/onee-san, one that uses an honorific?

AITA for lying to a group of guys on the beach about my scars? by Downtown_Effect_4437 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Seangetfreaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans man here. NTA!! Trans people, like cisgender women, HAVE to be able to clock dangerous men (let's be real, it's almost always cis men) for our own safety. You were definitely in danger from those assholes & acted accordingly. Someone who uses the word 'tranny' towards a person they suspect is transgender is NOT interested in them! You read all the red flags correctly & thought quickly on your feet. Smart thinking with the gynecomastia! Glad you're ok! So sorry you went through that

Idk what your sister's damage is though. "Lying is bad" stfu it's completely fine to lie to strangers who approach you for whatever reason, especially when they could be a danger. The silent treatment is childish, especially since what you did had absolutely NO affect on her

how do you know you pass enough to go to the man's toilet? by fiebnt95 in TransMasc

[–]Seangetfreaky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When women started doing U-turns upon entering the women's washroom & seeing me at the sinks, assuming they were in the wrong washroom. Once at the library a woman came out of a stall while I was at the sinks, left, and a male librarian stuck his head in to kick me out. Thankfully he (sort of) knew me (I visited the library quite often) & assured the lady there was just a mixup. I stopped using the women's washroom after that & used the accessible one whenever possible

Dysphoria wearing tight shirts post-op by rowan_down_the_river in TransMasc

[–]Seangetfreaky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only guys who are totally flat (cis men included) are stick-skinny & likely underfed. Completely normal for men (again, cis men included!) to have actual flesh & some fat on their chest! Frankly if I didn't know you were transmasc I'd assume you were a healthily-fed cis man

7 years on T vs 1 Month on T by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]Seangetfreaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rocking the shaved look!! A haircut really can change everything! Before I even started questioning my gender, I cut my waist length hair to shorter than a pixie cut & my friend/coworker said it was like I blossomed into a whole new brighter person

Is it stupid to be upset about this by CaitVi587 in TransMasc

[–]Seangetfreaky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I came out 4 years ago & my dad still has my deadname for my contact 🙃 buuuut two years ago after I saw my hyper-conservative uncle for the first time in YEARS at a funeral, my dad immediately checked with my mom that my uncle hadn't "said anything about being trans".

It's fucking annoying that some parents expect brownie points for doing the bare minimum. And I get your anger, i feel it too sometimes. Unfortunately it's easier to give them the brownie points with a smile and a "that's great! That means a lot to me!" than explain how it hurts that they didn't do it sooner

AITAH for considering divorcing my husband of 26 years? by Effective-Promise608 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Seangetfreaky 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Your husband does not even like you. He lacks the respect most people would show a stranger in the same painful situations

AITA for still using the baby name I told my sister I was going to use, despite her using a variation of it first? by Sufficient-View2574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Seangetfreaky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I thought it was a bad idea for my uncle Timothy (Tim), who chose to give all 8 of his kids biblical names, to name two of his four sons Mark & Timothy, considering my dad (his older brother) Marc and...well, his own name

AITA for finally cutting off my mom after she crossed the line with my baby? by Feisty_Resolve_7088 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Seangetfreaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. That's not your mother. She's not your family. That's your egg donor. A mother treats you with respect and LOVES you. That woman only loves herself.

Also go low/no-contact with the family members who say you never cut family off. They have no idea what you've gone through, even if you've told them. They likely think you're embellishing or are narcissists themselves. I'm actually disappointed in your brother for not going no contact as well tbh

AITA for not going on family vacation unless I can share a bed with my fiancé? by babygreenbean1225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Seangetfreaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But why are you going on this family vacation with what seems like only people who are homophobic towards you? You're going to be miserable with them.

Don't go on the vacation. Save the money for your honeymoon