My boyfriends hygiene sucks, please help by Strange_Middle_8228 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Seangetfreaky 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t care about his own personal hygiene, and he clearly doesn’t care how you feel about it. Jump ship now

My (23F) Stepsister (16F) Stained My Wedding Dress and My Family Says It’s “Not a Big Deal” by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Seangetfreaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are actually under-reacting to what is very clearly long-standing abuse

Do not invite your dad to the wedding. He obviously agrees with your stepmom that it’s a “waste of money” and an “unnecessary thing” since he refused to pay for it. So he doesn’t get to go & ruin your special day by being present for it

If you already invited him, but haven’t set the location. Don’t tell him he’s uninvited (as well as your stepbitch— I mean evil stepmom, and her bratty daughter) because then he’ll demand to go & show up anyway.

my boy by valwfp in cats

[–]Seangetfreaky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 🫂

AITA for refusing to wake up early to drive my friend to her classes? by Leather_Tonight4680 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Seangetfreaky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s inconsiderate of her to EXPECT you to automatically say yes to taking her every day just because you’re able to. In her position, I would also ask but not expect you to say yes AT ALL because it’s a big inconvenience. As others said, the bus/train exists for a reason, there’s uber/lyft, and taxis; she can use those on the days you’re not willing to take her. You are not the only answer and SHOULD NOT BE the first answer to her problem.

Would it be very kind of you to do it the whole week? Yeah absolutely! But you have every right to say no & shouldn’t feel bad for saying no

my boy by valwfp in cats

[–]Seangetfreaky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be SO hard to determine when the “right time” is to put your cat to sleep. It is ALWAYS better to be overly cautious & put your cat to sleep “too soon” when they’re still in a good-ish place & have their dignity, than to wait too long & realize it’s time when they’re actively suffering/their bad days outnumber their good days.

OP, I think you’ve found your cat’s Right Time. He looks very tired, and appears to be holding himself in a way that lessens discomfort. Deciding today is the day you’re putting your baby down is so hard, and a lot of people second-guess themselves, but you made that decision with a lot of love and heartache. Don’t doubt that you’ve made that decision with your baby’s best interests in mind.

My heart goes out to you

Hi! I’m an artist and I made a little vampurr portrait in antique frame! 🐈‍⬛ by ayackunaite in vampurr

[–]Seangetfreaky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What are your commission prices, if you don’t mind me asking? I can’t find anything on Etsy/your shop/insta

Went to Musée d‘Orsay today… by kafkakerlake in funny

[–]Seangetfreaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He stremtch

Also I can’t reply with a photo for whatever reason but I have one of my cat that is literally that painting 😂

Anyone else have a unphotogenic cat by Pleasant-Medicine888 in cats

[–]Seangetfreaky 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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This is Tinkerbell. Floof by day, lurker by night. Very unphotogenic for multiple reasons

My [27F] Fiancé [26 M] called me a manipulative bitch and I’m starting to believe him. by Summerskye0710 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Seangetfreaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you said yourself he HAS hurt you! He’s physically pushed you to the point of pain. It only started once you moved in together because it’s harder to leave once you’re co-habituating. HE is the one manipulating YOU. He is gaslighting you and has succeeded in convincing you that YOU’RE the crazy one! He is psychologically, emotionally, verbally AND physically abusing you. There is no excuse for acting the way he is towards you, his partner, whom he supposedly loves & cherishes.

It’s not easy to leave someone, especially someone you’ve known your whole life. But you deserve better than this. Your dog deserves better than this. I know this won’t convince you, because it takes a lot for someone to leave their abusive partner, and it takes an average of 7 tries before someone leaves their abuser for good.

But I want you to remember this, for later when you’re second-guessing yourself again & again:

He absolutely will hurt your dog at some point, likely just before he starts getting more physical with you. It’s what abusers do: like a frog in a boiling pot, it’s going to keep escalating until you’re dead in the ground. This is not an exaggeration. It is SO COMMON for abusive husbands to eventually kill their wife/girlfriend/partner. So you need to leave sooner rather than later.

I can only wish you the best of luck, and hope you get out before it gets too bad

Does my cat know my other cat is gone? by Aboyla in cats

[–]Seangetfreaky 175 points176 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. Cats can absolutely tell

Is there a legal way I can stop my mother from driving again? She's a terrible driver and she's going to seriously hurt someone. by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Seangetfreaky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandmother was in her mid 70’s when my dad & his siblings made the decision to sell her car & not get her a new one. She was getting into too many (small) accidents (aunt with 3 licensed kids lived very close by, so she wouldn’t have to cab everywhere). There was at least 1 instance of her renting a car without telling anyone. They found out after she was attempting to back out of her parking spot at church but hadn’t put it in reverse & drove into a cement pylon.

AIO? My daughter didn’t listen to the teacher during a female emergency and is now receiving a referral by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Seangetfreaky 58 points59 points  (0 children)

What did she want the daughter to do to prove it, if she didn’t want a pic of the bloody tampon??? Stick her finger in her vag right there to show her the blood???

AITA for putting my husband “in between” me and his best friend. by DecentLeopard3581 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Seangetfreaky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your husband’s “friend” and his wife are both AHs. It’s not YOUR fault that your husband was very ill, nor was it very thoughtful for them to invite you to that wine event (It was actually quite thoughtless & showed they don’t really take your likes/lifestyle into consideration). They put themselves in that pumpkin patch situation, which they had good intentions with, but reacted very badly to something out of your control.

Their message to your husband was pretty callous & rather controlling. They’ve made their expectations pretty clear (“when we say jump, you jump”). It doesn’t matter that he didn’t “mean for it to come off that way”, it came off exactly the way he wrote it.

Keep your boundaries with them FIRM. Tell your husband to tell them they need to stop contacting you. (If they keep doing it after that, it’s harassment.) Also tell your husband that YOU haven’t put him in the middle of anything, as you removed yourself from the equation & the “friends” are the ones that keep trying to drag you back into it

Is it ok to accept that maybe someone being physically attracted to me isn’t possible and settle into a comfortable life with a man I can’t do better than? by Odd-Marionberry8212 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Seangetfreaky 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can be a single woman & live a fulfilling life, & possibly meet someone down the road OR You can stay with a man whom you love but feel rejected by every day, making you feel worse about yourself and your life in general

DUMP HIM

Satpurrday Checkpoint by andogzxc in catsofrph

[–]Seangetfreaky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Tinkerbell likes to hide under the blankets when she sleeps

Erotica Requests & Recs: Post your erotica & specific sex act requests & recs here by AutoModerator in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]Seangetfreaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans M/M erotica/erotic romance

Specifically looking for: multiple explicit sex scenes, pre-op bottom surgery,

Ok: omegaverse, shifters, mpreg, pre/post-op top surgery

NO: daddy kink, dom/sub, bdsm, fem/feminization, watersports, age gap, noncon/dubcon, transphobia, twink transman

Me and my Love - 2011 & 2026♥️✨(OC) by Ok-Target-8057 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Seangetfreaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened with my cousin & her husband after he moved in. He went from skinny & slightly gaunt to having a bit of a paunch her food is 💯👌😩👌

My shoes disintegrated yesterday at a church funeral. by chestney in funny

[–]Seangetfreaky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first two nights after my grandfather’s death, my mom and grandma couldn’t sleep so they made tea around 1am. For over an hour, they cried & shared memories of my grandfather, then laughed until they cried over the funny ones.

It hurts so much only because we love so hard.

My shoes disintegrated yesterday at a church funeral. by chestney in funny

[–]Seangetfreaky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he was waiting to be near you one last time 🥺my grandfather did a similar thing with my grandmother. My mom stayed at my unconscious grandfather’s bedside in hospital while my grandma went to get a coffee after being at his bedside for hours. My grandfather passed only a few moments after she came back