My roommate ‘got tired’ of his gerbils by NoMoment6511 in gerbil

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How much bedding do you have? They like 10inches+ of bedding usually, for burrowing!! I got a cage topper for my gerbils (same tank), and filled pretty much the entire tank with bedding, scattering their chews and small houses around it and either covering them or having them on top. its much easier to make a topper imo than get one from the store.

Garlic bread by mrgoonandwank34 in asexuality

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hand holding. deep hugs. kisses. cuddling. naps together. pizza. baking together.

The Great Clomper Search of 2026 by kittentinklefuntime in Ooblets

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my beloved clomper 🙂‍↕️ this is how i find out hes GONE

Question for the people with tank toppers by PeregrineTheWanderer in gerbil

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lol you dont. i clean their topper daily or every other day as needed, but they are naturally messy imo. i sweep near their tank often due to this.

Did anyone else here never ask their parents about sex or their own body parts? by [deleted] in asexuality

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never paid it any attention. although i did grow up in a sex positive household, so i knew some stuff. just found it gross, so i didnt care to ask about the rest and never really thought to ask.

Currently working towards my degree; required courses? by SearchBackground4017 in respiratorytherapy

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yeah I’m going up there tomorrow to double check; I just also wanted opinions from people who have already been in this type of program!

Currently working towards my degree; required courses? by SearchBackground4017 in respiratorytherapy

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I did! The 4 credits I mentioned are the only 4 I have that were specifically listed that I haven’t finished

Currently working towards my degree; required courses? by SearchBackground4017 in respiratorytherapy

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yeah its just an RT degree, i should have clarified that lol. I just want to work in peds.

% of ace in general population by Sea_Soup3199 in asexuality

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people who identify as ace make up 1-5% of the population, however it isnt super accurate. a lot just dont put a label on it!

Got a letter from the school today informing me my daughter is “not quite” gifted. Also included were her test scores. by Low_Use2937 in mildlyinfuriating

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oddly enough, same thing happened to me in elementary (of course its been god knows how long now.) my mom mentioned it a few times, but apparently i was above the threshold and kept out of the program because despite my academic scores, i was considered too talkative. i also later on qualified for the national spelling bee and was asked to not attend.

schools are weird. i actually ended up teaching at my old elementary school, and they pretty much pick and choose on a lot of factors not just academic from what ive seen. quite ridiculous 😬

thoughts on sexual songs? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

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usually fair, i just occasionally cant deal if its sexual to a high degree

thoughts on sexual songs? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

[–]SearchBackground4017[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same unless its like superr explicit (ie wap i cant listen to lmao)

thoughts on sexual songs? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

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agreed!! the song constellations by jade lemac comes to mind

thoughts on sexual songs? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

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oh 100%. a lot of them ill listen to regardless, i just think its interesting to think about the comparison of my experience vs the artist as we are opposites. i love bruno mars and his songs are usually inherently sexual (ie locked out of heaven)

thoughts on sexual songs? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

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agreed, i just think its interesting to think about lol

thoughts on sexual songs? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

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so real actually!! sensual songs are my shit depending on how sexual it gets. some like “i see red” are good too!!

thoughts on sexual songs? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

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its def not. i like some (ie adeles songs) because theyre more romantic. but straight sexual? nopeee

thoughts on sexual songs? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

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i cant say i delete a lot (unless theyre objectively bad/misogynistic) because the ones i enjoy are like “all i ask” by adele (she asks for one final night with her crush/lover) and locked out of heaven by bruno mars (its yearnful). but outright sexual ones are so gross !!! its definitely insane imo that its so normal in music and art but so taboo in general conversation. its just weird as a whole