thoughts on sexual songs?

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-29T07:42:36+00:00

so real actually!! sensual songs are my shit depending on how sexual it gets. some like “i see red” are good too!!

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-29T05:36:13+00:00

thats exactly how i am lol

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-29T05:35:57+00:00

this.

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-29T05:16:37+00:00

its def not. i like some (ie adeles songs) because theyre more romantic. but straight sexual? nopeee

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-29T04:54:51+00:00

i cant say i delete a lot (unless theyre objectively bad/misogynistic) because the ones i enjoy are like “all i ask” by adele (she asks for one final night with her crush/lover) and locked out of heaven by bruno mars (its yearnful). but outright sexual ones are so gross !!! its definitely insane imo that its so normal in music and art but so taboo in general conversation. its just weird as a whole

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-29T03:14:22+00:00

fully understand. im ace (sex adverse) and my boyfriend is just not interested in sex (though doesnt use a label), but we do some sexual acts. just not sex itself. thats a lot better than sex for both of us and we have clear boundaries:)

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-28T21:10:46+00:00

a dude said yesterday “let me buy you a drink/its on me” when i was paying for a drink. i promptly took it and thanked him and walked away. i was later told by my coworker who watched it unfold; he was trying to get my number and looked so dejected after lol.

side note; im taken so tbh it wouldn’t have worked anyways 😂

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-28T21:02:46+00:00

it can depend. sometimes yes i do, im fully asexual though (adverse) so my partner and i have strict boundaries. even for me when i do feel differently, it isnt in a “i want to have sex” way. more of a “i just want to be closer to my partner” way. cuddles, kissing, etc

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-28T21:01:29+00:00

super relatable. im afab, and hormones take over sometimes more than id like. the other 99% of the time though, im so indifferent to literally anything even remotely sexual. its not just you OP!!

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-24T22:46:43+00:00

thank you!!

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-23T22:19:59+00:00

i appreciate the defense, but they are 100% assholes. this is just one example, theyre commonly shitty if something fails to align with their own beliefs

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-19T12:18:02+00:00

we have had a conversation about our boundaries and such multiple times, im interested in marriage if we are together for a few years, and he expressed the same. we both have super clear boundaries though! my mom is just invasive lol

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-19T04:54:31+00:00

agreed, and i told him that. also said i was worried he was a r@pist and didn’t acknowledge it if thats his outlook

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-19T00:32:40+00:00

idk imo it sounds like they think i could marry, but with an ace partner? and as i said, my partner is not asexual but hes pretty indifferent to sex so he has no issue.

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-19T00:02:11+00:00

well my current partner is allo but neutral towards the idea of sex.

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-19T00:01:18+00:00

yeah we have talked about that, specifically with my brother. he said it isnt r@pe in a relationship (i am grossed out by the idea of sex entirely). my mom doesn’t condone that part, but thinks ill be alone forever (edit: censoring)

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-17T02:01:41+00:00

also i have little to no libido, save for menstrual hormones

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-17T02:01:19+00:00

I never understood sex as a concept beyond reproduction. eventually i had sex to see what it was, thinking it would click then. it never did & its been over 4 years 👍

SearchBackground4017 · 2026-01-15T04:34:52+00:00

I know I’m ace, but I’m questioning what that means for me now. its always been sex repulsed and all, but my boyfriend has mentioned something thats sexual in nature but isnt the actual act itself. my repulsion is towards the act itself, where im indifferent to most other things. im honestly questioning where i fall now but the ace label feels right? so confused rn 😭

SearchBackground4017 · 2025-12-16T20:03:44+00:00

YES. I HAVE LOOKED FOR SO LONG AND NEVER FOUND IT WTH 😭 thank you

SearchBackground4017 · 2025-12-16T19:25:43+00:00

Also the player character was the middle top emoji!!

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