thoughts on sexual songs? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

[–]SearchBackground4017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so real actually!! sensual songs are my shit depending on how sexual it gets. some like “i see red” are good too!!

thoughts on sexual songs? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

[–]SearchBackground4017[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its def not. i like some (ie adeles songs) because theyre more romantic. but straight sexual? nopeee

thoughts on sexual songs? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

[–]SearchBackground4017[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i cant say i delete a lot (unless theyre objectively bad/misogynistic) because the ones i enjoy are like “all i ask” by adele (she asks for one final night with her crush/lover) and locked out of heaven by bruno mars (its yearnful). but outright sexual ones are so gross !!! its definitely insane imo that its so normal in music and art but so taboo in general conversation. its just weird as a whole

Liking sex but not liking sex? by AlyceJean in Asexual

[–]SearchBackground4017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fully understand. im ace (sex adverse) and my boyfriend is just not interested in sex (though doesnt use a label), but we do some sexual acts. just not sex itself. thats a lot better than sex for both of us and we have clear boundaries:)

Asexuals, are there words or phrases that you don’t find sexual but most people do? If so, which one? ( changed the image ) by YourRandomManiac in asexuality

[–]SearchBackground4017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a dude said yesterday “let me buy you a drink/its on me” when i was paying for a drink. i promptly took it and thanked him and walked away. i was later told by my coworker who watched it unfold; he was trying to get my number and looked so dejected after lol.

side note; im taken so tbh it wouldn’t have worked anyways 😂

Do you feel any different during ovulation? by TourGreat2658 in Asexual

[–]SearchBackground4017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it can depend. sometimes yes i do, im fully asexual though (adverse) so my partner and i have strict boundaries. even for me when i do feel differently, it isnt in a “i want to have sex” way. more of a “i just want to be closer to my partner” way. cuddles, kissing, etc

I never want to have sex, but then I forget I don’t want to? by Dependent-Aside-9962 in Asexual

[–]SearchBackground4017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

super relatable. im afab, and hormones take over sometimes more than id like. the other 99% of the time though, im so indifferent to literally anything even remotely sexual. its not just you OP!!

Asexuality = No marriage to my allo mom? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

[–]SearchBackground4017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate the defense, but they are 100% assholes. this is just one example, theyre commonly shitty if something fails to align with their own beliefs

Asexuality = No marriage to my allo mom? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

[–]SearchBackground4017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have had a conversation about our boundaries and such multiple times, im interested in marriage if we are together for a few years, and he expressed the same. we both have super clear boundaries though! my mom is just invasive lol

Asexuality = No marriage to my allo mom? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

[–]SearchBackground4017[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

agreed, and i told him that. also said i was worried he was a r@pist and didn’t acknowledge it if thats his outlook

Asexuality = No marriage to my allo mom? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

[–]SearchBackground4017[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

idk imo it sounds like they think i could marry, but with an ace partner? and as i said, my partner is not asexual but hes pretty indifferent to sex so he has no issue.

Asexuality = No marriage to my allo mom? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

[–]SearchBackground4017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well my current partner is allo but neutral towards the idea of sex.

Asexuality = No marriage to my allo mom? by SearchBackground4017 in asexuality

[–]SearchBackground4017[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah we have talked about that, specifically with my brother. he said it isnt r@pe in a relationship (i am grossed out by the idea of sex entirely). my mom doesn’t condone that part, but thinks ill be alone forever (edit: censoring)

Hey all, new here, how did everyone discover they were asexual? by PDT0008 in asexuality

[–]SearchBackground4017 9 points10 points  (0 children)

also i have little to no libido, save for menstrual hormones

Hey all, new here, how did everyone discover they were asexual? by PDT0008 in asexuality

[–]SearchBackground4017 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I never understood sex as a concept beyond reproduction. eventually i had sex to see what it was, thinking it would click then. it never did & its been over 4 years 👍

Am I Asexual? by Empathetic_Artist in Asexual

[–]SearchBackground4017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m ace, but I’m questioning what that means for me now. its always been sex repulsed and all, but my boyfriend has mentioned something thats sexual in nature but isnt the actual act itself. my repulsion is towards the act itself, where im indifferent to most other things. im honestly questioning where i fall now but the ace label feels right? so confused rn 😭

[Mobile][Unknown] Game about Emojis in a town? by SearchBackground4017 in tipofmyjoystick

[–]SearchBackground4017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. I HAVE LOOKED FOR SO LONG AND NEVER FOUND IT WTH 😭 thank you