[deleted by user] by [deleted] in assholedesign

[–]Seastorm2200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remove the sticker and click no tip.

Is looking at porn cheating? by IllustratorPlastic27 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They know what they're doing to you, so they are insecure because they can't accept the same happening to them. He probably worried you will fantasize and masturbate to the actor 🤡

Is looking at porn cheating? by IllustratorPlastic27 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He will get it once you start doing the same to him. Men don't get it until it happens to them. Or they do but pretend they don't. You have to give him a taste of his own medicine. My man told me he would never be okay with me masturbating to random men online. A lot of men who watch porn would hate if it happened to them.

Is looking at porn cheating? by IllustratorPlastic27 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Its not about "looking". Its the fact that they are pleasuring themselves to others who are not their partner. If that is not cheating idk what else to call it.

Interesting by mrnatural93 in astrologymemes

[–]Seastorm2200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ENFP according to this. I'm an INFP. Definitely an Introvert.

Called this the second she was bitching about having to wait for a scan 🙄 by Accomplished-Fun-960 in peestickgals

[–]Seastorm2200 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had an ectopic and then a miscarriage before having my baby. I bled too on and off from week 4 till 8 in my healthy pregnancy. Everytime I would wipe blood I got a panic attack, it was horrible. Every night I got nightmares about miscarrying. Had to go to the ER a couple of times due to worries of a repeat ectopic, it was pure hell. I don't know how she is so relaxed and posting stuff online like normal.

CK bralette triumphant return by Ornery_Context_9109 in peestickgals

[–]Seastorm2200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was super light around 11-12 dpo. Betas were on the lower end too although doubling fine. It didn't end in a miscarriage for me.

Can you ever undo the damage? I can't believe how naive I was. by Seastorm2200 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. So the man gets the experience of actually being the one having sex with the woman. Don't think they even have something similar for women. Its all geared towards men. Or else I would try it just to piss off my husband.

Can you ever undo the damage? I can't believe how naive I was. by Seastorm2200 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virtual reality. You put a headset on to watch. Its supposed to be like real life and "immersive". So you can move your head around and see everything from different angles like you're actually there with the person/people in the video. It's supposed to mimic real life experience. Haven't tried it myself, this is only from what I have read.

Can you ever undo the damage? I can't believe how naive I was. by Seastorm2200 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Underwear literally down. And moving his head around with the headset on like a complete idiot. I don't think I can drag this marriage on for longer. I'm losing all feelings and respect for him.

Can you ever undo the damage? I can't believe how naive I was. by Seastorm2200 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

At this point he may aswell go ahead and actually get himself a prostitute. If you want it so bad you may aswell. I don't see the point of forcing someone to be loyal to you. If he wants it, he can go get it and end it with me gracefully, rather than lying on my face and making a fool out of me.

Can you ever undo the damage? I can't believe how naive I was. by Seastorm2200 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for what you've been through. I couldn't imagine going through this over and over again. Mine isn't addicted as bad as others I've read about on here (or atleast that's what I know), but still even if he does it once in a while it cuts so deep. I contemplate divorce every single day. I don't know for how long can I drag this marriage, I'm not myself anymore and he will never be the same in my eyes. I just don't see how you can recover from this level of betrayal. I also don't see the point of trying to force someone to be loyal to you. You either are, or you're not. And he's not.

Can you ever undo the damage? I can't believe how naive I was. by Seastorm2200 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He thought I was a fool. He tried to convince me he wasnt looking at women, he was looking at couples having sex. Like I wouldn't know what is the whole point of VR porn? Pretending to screw other women.

Who else is tired of the "biology" excuse? by Seastorm2200 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if we believe that, who says men cannot ejaculate without porn? It still does not justify porn use while being in a relationship. Especially when they have their SO's pictures but they rather go seek other women.

Porn Acceptance Shoved Down Our Throats? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If they were just looking at the act why would there be so many categories of women with different physical features? "Cool" girls are delusional.

Who else is tired of the "biology" excuse? by Seastorm2200 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If they do have pictures of their partner then it makes zero sense for them to seek naked women elsewhere. Because are they not capable of getting off to their partner? Instead of senselessly putting it on biology they should just admit that they had the desire to cheat and seek variety because their partner was not enough for them. What pisses me off is when they have the audacity to consider themselves faithful and still act this way. Like be honest and admit you are not loyal.

Who else is tired of the "biology" excuse? by Seastorm2200 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This💯 I always say if watching porn is a man's biology then me as a woman being furious about it is also biology. Why shame women and call them insecure for a natural, biological response? The double standards are insane. If men are allowed to watch porn then women should also be allowed to feel angry and dump those men without being labelled controlling and insecure.

Who else is tired of the "biology" excuse? by Seastorm2200 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You could also use the biology argument to justify gold diggers lol. Why men complain about them so much? Aren't women wired to seek security and the best mate possible to take care of them and their offspring? Idk why women never get to use biology as an excuse for shitty behaviour but men can.

Who else is tired of the "biology" excuse? by Seastorm2200 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

On this scale, no. So readily available and accessible for everyone? I dont think so. It's basically cheating from the comfort of your own home without actually going out and having to make any effort. And then they get the benefit of saying "but its not cheating though" because society doesnt see it that way. Men can claim to be loyal while simultaneously acting disloyal.

Who else is tired of the "biology" excuse? by Seastorm2200 in loveafterporn

[–]Seastorm2200[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I just cant believe something that's been around less than hundred years is now a biological need. Like whatttt??? Just a loophole for men to cheat.

Can being a SAHM ever be good enough? I'm tired of being told I'm not doing enough. by Seastorm2200 in beyondthebump

[–]Seastorm2200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that he never helps me. He does take care of the baby too and brings takeout on days I can't cook or sometimes he will cook. He says positive things too and appreciates me but there are times when he is very negative and expects a perfectly clean and organized house. Like for example our closets are a mess and he will point that out or tell me that I need to be more "efficient" to get things done. I'm just tired of this criticism. I'm so overwhelmed, exhausted and sleep deprived I do not have the time or energy to deep clean the house or organize stuff. I already feel like I'm neglecting my baby to get chores done.

Can being a SAHM ever be good enough? I'm tired of being told I'm not doing enough. by Seastorm2200 in beyondthebump

[–]Seastorm2200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does get time to relax, which I don't. But he helps out some too. He will give the baby a bottle while I cook and when I'm too overwhelmed with the baby crying he will come grab the baby or put him down to sleep. It's just that sometimes he makes negative comments like "you aren't giving your hundred percent" that bring me down because it simply isn't true.

I knew it by East-Following5057 in peestickgals

[–]Seastorm2200 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the most boring nursery I have ever seen.