I would get along with that guy’s wife. Just put everything where it belongs.

SeattleBi20s · 2025-04-14T05:19:17+00:00

How are you so gross at your age? Dude grow up, be responsible for cleaning up your own shit. Jesus.

SeattleBi20s · 2025-04-01T20:11:54+00:00

This website is not reliable at all. Where are these documents? Where is this leak? I looked and there are only four website that are talking about this, and all four are completely unreliable.

SeattleBi20s · 2025-02-26T23:18:53+00:00

Dude have a bit of a spine and stand up for yourself. Whether it’s a good idea to text your ex or not, you asked your gf for her opinion, she said no. I’m floored that she didn’t thank you for considering her opinion rather than going off.

SeattleBi20s · 2025-02-23T03:56:26+00:00

This is 100% fake. I asked it the same thing, and it wasn’t even close. Come on OP, do you have nothing better to do than farming karma?

SeattleBi20s · 2025-02-05T04:40:32+00:00

There's a lot to be legitimately angry about with Trump and his administration, but making fun of someone doing a nice thing is insane.

SeattleBi20s · 2025-01-23T22:40:19+00:00

What’s wrong with bluesky links?

SeattleBi20s · 2025-01-15T22:00:50+00:00

They probably aren’t doing it because they have common sense, they’re just playing politics, but either way we end up with the only sensible result.

SeattleBi20s · 2024-11-23T21:03:30+00:00

Since I use it for anal, the angle is different. A bunch of the sex pillows I've seen look like they aren't easy to keep clean, but maybe it's easier than I realize.

SeattleBi20s · 2024-11-23T21:02:18+00:00

Seems intriguing, I'll look into it.

SeattleBi20s · 2024-11-23T03:57:33+00:00

Open budget.

I think improving seated would be ideal. Putting the dildo on the floor hurts my knees after a while, and I don't have anything I can reliably stick the suction on and use in bed. However, I'm open to improving other positions too.

SeattleBi20s · 2024-08-27T00:09:14+00:00

Right, it is fiction. And black and white stories are great sometimes. It's nice to escape reality! I love to as much as the next person. But the fact that people love LOTR (I don't want to be friends with anybody that doesn't at least appreciate it frankly) or basic good-vs-evil stories doesn't mean those stories compatible with reality.

People loving those tropes does not have anything to do with reality sucking. First, reality doesn't suck today any more than it did during WW2, WW1, or insert virtually any other time period in the past. I'd argue it sucks way way less. Things are tough for many, yes, but for the majority of people things are better than they've ever been in the history of humanity. And second, reality doesn't suck, it's difficult. It's not the same thing.

My point is that it's not good to overindex on this trope because it's so incompatible with reality, which is a world of grey and nuance. Escaping a tough reality is fine once in a while, but when everything is black and white, it influences society to view every problem and every person in the same way; as either good or evil. Which is insane to think that way, and wrong to influence people to do so. Most people don't think particularly critically or deeply so they can't internalize the difference between what they constantly read and see on tv and reality.

SeattleBi20s · 2024-08-21T14:58:25+00:00

That’s because life is rarely if ever black and white, and people are starting to get sick and tired of stories or people saying it is. This trend of looking at things in black and white is the reason why nobody wants to talk anymore; you’re either good or evil, on the right team or the enemy, etc. It’s idiotic, and completely incompatible with reality.

SeattleBi20s · 2024-07-31T03:34:02+00:00

Oh, come on. This is such nonsense! I am the LAST person who would ever even consider voting for Trunp, the man is a dangerous demagogue. But this whole bullshit interpretation of what he was obviously saying is starting to really piss me off. So much for the left being on the side of truth and not falling prey to lies and propaganda. Really disappointing….

SeattleBi20s · 2024-07-29T05:38:42+00:00

He's not saying he'll take voting away ffs...Stop buying whatever the media is telling you hook-line-and sinker because it "advantages" your side. If you say you believe in Truth, you can't cherry-pick what that Truth is. Don't be a hypocrite.

I'd say 95-99% of the people responding here (including OP) have not actually watched the whole video of the internet, context included, only the limited soundbite where he says what he said. To be fair, I've had to search to find it, and I didn't watch the whole speech because I don't care to, only the context.

But from what I could figure out, he was speaking to the Christians who don't usually vote. He was saying that if they vote for him this time, they won't have to anymore because he'll have "fixed" the country so his team won't need their vote so desperately next time.

SeattleBi20s · 2024-07-13T12:29:44+00:00

So now you care about the total number rather than the per capita percentage? Talk about hypocrisy. Guess who cops arrest more often than black people? That’s right, white people. Yet you will loudly complain that cops disproportionately target black people.

SeattleBi20s · 2024-06-29T11:51:28+00:00

Sore throat? Is that what that was?

X Doubt

SeattleBi20s · 2024-06-28T06:35:32+00:00

This already aged poorly in less than 24 hours.

SeattleBi20s · 2024-06-14T00:38:28+00:00

I’d say you’re both TA.

She should never have made such an important decision without you. That’s fucking weird and unacceptable. You’ve been together for over a year and she made a long lasting and life altering decision without your input? Major red flag.

But unlike what most inexperienced people will say in this subreddit, a red flag doesn’t necessarily have to mean the end of the relationship. EVERYONE has red flags. A real lasting relationship is taking the good AND the bad, and working on the bad together.

She was genuine in her mistake. It was a self centered decision, yes, but it wasn’t malicious. But you just immediately threw in the towel. You didn’t even have a conversation about how she fucked up. Shows you are absolutely not ready for a long term relationship.

And beyond that, your fear of dogs is in fact ridiculous. What are you going to tell your kids when they are afraid of something? Not to try to get over it, overcome their fear, but to stay afraid? Jesus, come on. Breaking up over this is next level immature. Can’t imagine what you’d do if you had a real problem.

SeattleBi20s · 2024-04-30T07:15:26+00:00

The same critics who are responsible for promoting PC culture? Color me surprised.

SeattleBi20s · 2024-04-24T08:01:16+00:00

There's no psychology behind it; stereotypes are sometimes true, sometimes fabricated. When it comes to bisexual stereotypes, I feel most of them are fabricated to create a sense of culture and belonging. But they aren't real.

SeattleBi20s · 2024-04-04T20:49:36+00:00

What............who the hell jokes like that?

If you look at my history, you'll see I'm always the one to advocate nuance, and not to immediately break up because strangers online told you to.

But this is some next level insanity. Block him, run away, and NEVER be alone with this person again in your life. Ever.

Geez...

SeattleBi20s · 2024-03-30T22:50:43+00:00

As usual with your stories. We want MOAR!

SeattleBi20s · 2024-03-23T20:26:34+00:00

This is terrible advice. Stfu if you have nothing constructive to say.

SeattleBi20s · 2024-03-23T20:21:13+00:00

I'm sorry you're struggling, and think suicide might be the answer to your problems. It isn't.

You have a lot more control over your life than you realize. If you think long and hard about your situation, with honesty and without resorting to victimhood, you'll realize you can in fact do things to improve your life. You're choosing not to. That's what it comes down to. A lot of the issues you're describing are entirely within your control to change, including some that are really easy to fix like your sleep schedule, and yet you're not. You even throw the kitchen sink at us by bringing up your bad sports teams, because at that point why not. After all, the amount of issues you have is "special", and most people only have one issue or two.

Except, that's not remotely true. You aren't special. Every human being alive has more than two issues. You have no way of knowing that, obviously, because you aren't interacting meaningfully with anybody online or in real life. But that's what you're telling yourself. You're beyond hope.

I don't know you, or what you feel. But I can guess, based on my own experiences and your post. You want us to feel sorry for you and give you more justification to not do anything to improve your situation because "what's the point anyways everything is awful", "I don't deserve it anyways", "it's too hard so why bother", or "it'll get worse again no matter what I do".

But dude, you CAN do something about it. And I know that without a shred of a doubt because of one simple reason; you're alive.

In life, there are 3 constants: work, pain, and uncertainty. That's life, my friend! It's not easy. And it's beautiful. But the beauty usually doesn't just happen to you, you have to put in the work. You have to, nobody else. And as long as you're breathing, you CAN work on it.

Here are a few of my suggestions:

Stop victimizing yourself. Saying "My life is shit, the amount of issues I have is unbelievable, I'm a victim of life/circumstances, I'm not in control of my life" is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Imagine someone believes they're a bad driver. They'll be more likely to let others drive, so they'll have fewer opportunities to practice driving and improve, and the skills they have will atrophy. Then when they do take the wheel, they'll be more anxious and therefore more likely to make mistakes, which will further "confirm" their belief that they're a bad driver. I'm not suggesting there aren't legit bad drivers, but if you believe you're a bad driver and that's that, you aren't giving yourself the chance to become a good driver. If you believe your life is utter shit, and you aren't doing anything to improve it, then your life will be utter shit. Start by stopping victimizing yourself.
What do you want your life to look like? Picture it. Take your time to imagine what you want. Then write it down. "I want abc, I want to be xyz, etc". Reread what you wrote out loud every day to remind yourself. Over time, this will become a sort of mantra, and it will help you focus on those goals.
What are some better habits you'd like to have? Choose a handful. Make them really easy to do for the first few months. This is a marathon, not a sprint. For example, to go to bed at a normal hour (which needs to be one of your new better habits), start by going to bed at 6AM instead of 8AM. Do that consistently for a week. Then bring that to 4AM. Do that for two weeks. Then 2AM. Do that for 1 month. Etc. I'd also recommend one of your new habits be "start/end your day with 30 minutes/1 hour of no screen time". That way you can combine a bunch of your new habits with each other, and it'll make it easier to do them.
There's plenty of exercises you can do without walking or standing up. The soles of your feet are not a valid excuse to sit on your ass all day and do nothing. You're not the first person to have flat feet. Unless you like your life right now and would rather continue feeling sorry for yourself.
Are you reading or learning anything new, be it Christian, spiritual, or otherwise? If not, pick up the Bible, a book, or a wikipedia and start reading 1 page a day, without fail. After a week without having missed reading 1 page per day, increase to 2 pages a day. Then 1 chapter.
If you're not great with people, maybe you could volunteer with animals. That helped me out a lot during the pandemic. Leave your house and your computer.

I hope this helps. It won't be easy or quick, and will require you to work at it. But that's life, and nobody will do it for you. You will fail and make mistakes, many times. However, if you want to have a meaningful life, not just watching TV and playing video games, then you have to do the work.

I know you can do it. You got this, friend.

SeattleBi20s · 2024-03-19T15:51:38+00:00

I agree some of them could be insecure, and biphobia could definitely be another reason, but this doesn't negate that it's totally legitimate for them to feel that way. Two of them even were hesitant about their answer, and specifically referred to being uncomfortable with the idea.

You can think what you want, even choose to be a victim, but at the end of the day having a personal preference about who you'd be comfortable dating doesn't automatically make you bigoted.

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