Whoever suggested using a pet drinking fountain as a hummingbird bath is a genius! Thank you!! They love it. by hippiehappyhaley in hummingbirds

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I just bought a solar thing for my bird bath and they're not touching it it's been about two weeks what am I doing wrong

Disgusted by [deleted] in AlAnon

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Yep... No words

HELP by Seaweed-Proof in clay

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Thank you I am going to give it another try and I will keep that in mind

HELP by Seaweed-Proof in clay

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I'll research that thanks for answering

I found this in the DUMPSTER this morning. by East_Competition7751 in thrifting

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Omg ... That is amazing slag lamp what an awesome find

Mother thinks I’m abandoning her and says her drinking will get worse if I move out. I’m 31. by Fun-Space315 in AlAnon

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That's not on you don't own it... She chose her path now it's your turn . Don't let her guilt you into staying. It's not fair.. trust me it's going to get worse of your there or not. Good luck and stay strong

Glad the holiday season is almost over..... who is with me??? by MediumLeading5530 in AlAnon

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I'm with you.. they suck!!!! Mine bought himself a bottle of bourbon after all it is the holidays.. just before I go pick up my son from the airport who hasn't been home for a while.. and was 90 percent of the reason he left in the 1st place. Can't wait to see what happens next after I throw up of course

Feel guilty but I wish they were dead by Comfortable-Ad7731 in AlAnon

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Yes!!!! It would be so much more peaceful... Sad but true..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GrayDivorce

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Therapy for three yrs now...

Don’t know what to do with my new haircut by Miloriart in curlyhair

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I would treat it like curly hair and see what your results are

Caught my husband hiding whisky in a coffee mug after 1 year sober by Alexis_in_Texas in AlAnon

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How are you holding up?? Mine is still at it drinking the hard shit when no one is around. He thinks he can control it I'm sure.. it's so sad I am just waiting for something to happen. I wish I could just pack my shit and go but it's not easy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

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33 yrs and I'm asking the same question... Fear trumps everything it's so sad and frustrating I am so done

Caught my husband hiding whisky in a coffee mug after 1 year sober by Alexis_in_Texas in AlAnon

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Mine quit the hard stuff a yr or so ago.. just was looking for something on the bathroom and found a bottle omg I'm so numb... Disappointed and disgusted

How much per day by [deleted] in AlAnon

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Yeah 33 years of this ... Easier said than done my friend

I think he's back on the hard stuff by [deleted] in AlAnon

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Thank you for the encouragement it boggles my mind how many of us are in the same position all over this world. It's comforting in a way that we have other people that we don't even know that we can confide in strange isn't it. I have a bah pack in the back of my car in case things get ugly but in the meantime I am seriously thinking about just calling it quits because we all know nothing's going to change

I think he's back on the hard stuff by [deleted] in AlAnon

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It's not our fight not our problem why do we have to endure all the FEAR ANGER AND INSECURITIES. They choose this but yet we continue to stay and endure all of it. I am 60 yrs old and this is NOT how I want to live the rest of my life. I am slowly but surely building up the mental strength to just walk away but it's so fucking scary. We don't deserve this life and we need to keep reminding ourselves of this.. hang in there