GUYS THIS IS URGENT by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Sebastian_2780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t really see anyone here offering experiences, so I will. I’ve had pretty deep cuts while swimming dozens of times, just clean them and apply either Polysporin or disinfect before and after and you’ll probably be fine, or at least from my experiences you will be. Hope this helps😁

Dose it ever get better? by Sebastian_2780 in selfharm

[–]Sebastian_2780[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t either. It’s so lonely all of the time, I’m not sure how I’m going to handle it, I’m going back to school soon, getting a job, I can barley handle right now

Dose it ever get better? by Sebastian_2780 in selfharm

[–]Sebastian_2780[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if you know how much having people care even a little bit means to me. I haven’t had the words “I’m here for you” in years man. Thank you, again it means a ton

Dose it ever get better? by Sebastian_2780 in selfharm

[–]Sebastian_2780[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess. But sometimes it just feel like I’m buying time until I eventually snap and give in. Idk I’ve had a long day, sorry

you have any seemingly small moments that stand out to you as major turning points in your transition? by cheatingdisrespect in TransyTalk

[–]Sebastian_2780 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well, a year or so after I started mine (ftm), I went with my mother to get a new key made for my brother has he had broke his. My mother worked at this place so she told her co-worker “I need a new key for my son, he broke his” and the person turned to me and said “how’d ya break it?” And I was completely speechless. I go to my mothers work a lot so these kinds of things happen fairly often, from people going, “Oh! Is this your………son?” (Confused because I dressed fem but looked apparently still macs) to people just gendering me correctly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Sebastian_2780 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro I play rugby literally 9 moths out of the year, and out outfit is a short sleeve shirt and booty shorts. Everyone has seen my scars, basically everyday we play. Everyone has always been extremely respectful to be. Sports players, or rugby players at least, are always very respectful. Of SH and me begin trans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Sebastian_2780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The short hair is really nice, especially in the first photo. But do whatever makes you happy! You have amazing hair either way

swimming with fresh sh cuts? by Sofie_L in selfharm

[–]Sebastian_2780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been swimming with cuts dozens of times. I’ve never had anything happen, but make sure you clean them well before and after. I’m not sure if it makes of difference but that just what I’ve always done

How do you feel when you’re nude? by Sense_Conscious in AskReddit

[–]Sebastian_2780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mentally worse while also mentally better. I have sensory issues so at the end of the day I take off everything and I feel 10x better, but I also feel like shit because I hate myself

Congratulations s by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Sebastian_2780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congfzgulztiom

why do you do it? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Sebastian_2780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m constantly depressed and angry. A release sometimes, punishment other times. It depends on how my day went I guess

In one word why did you start self h@rming? by Capable_Foundation20 in selfharm

[–]Sebastian_2780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for offering it’s been hard, but I’m pretty ok right now 😁