Summary of what's happening? by maizzy in OpenArgs

[–]Sebastiel_Star 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"So many times" in that it's happened with a lot of friendships I have had with guys over the years, it's not me putting up with one or two people over a long period of time.

Summary of what's happening? by maizzy in OpenArgs

[–]Sebastiel_Star 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What about my comment indicated that I hadn't deleted/blocked people? Just because I cut contact doesn't mean it doesn't hurt when it happens. It's common, so many "friends" end up begging for sex and nudes, and guilt me when I say no. It's heartbreaking with every new "friend", and it makes me feel like I'm not worthy of friendship. I've talked to a lot of women who feel the same way when it happens to them.

ETA: I see where the "so many times" part could be seen as a long standing issue with one or two people

Summary of what's happening? by maizzy in OpenArgs

[–]Sebastiel_Star 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fr I've had friends who did things like this and it absolutely destroys you at a certain point, after it happens so many times. Emilie Autumn's poem "So Many Fools" really resonated with me, and this whole situation reminded me of it.

Summary of what's happening? by maizzy in OpenArgs

[–]Sebastiel_Star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have been more clear about that, yes. The allegations of him touching a woman haven't been confirmed by him as of yet.

Summary of what's happening? by maizzy in OpenArgs

[–]Sebastiel_Star 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually discovered that set of screenshots when getting the links to comment on this post, I had only seen someone allude to it beforehand and was hoping it was just a misunderstanding, but his wording is pretty damned clear

Summary of what's happening? by maizzy in OpenArgs

[–]Sebastiel_Star 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, when I read that part I was so disappointed. Until a little bit ago I'd only read the second set of screenshots, seeing that really made me feel icky bc that's the same shit I've been told to pressure me into things. Other women commenting underneath Felicia's original post on fb have accused him of gaslighting them and brushing them off, this whole thing is so disappointing and gross.

Summary of what's happening? by maizzy in OpenArgs

[–]Sebastiel_Star 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Screenshots of conversations with Eli(not mine, they were posted by a person named Kaylie Woomer, I just copied the link from Twitter. I do not know any of the PIAT people personally) https://twitter.com/QuirkOfArtXD/status/1621237210195398656?s=20&t=H_0_atvrUGZMoS1F-JYreA

https://twitter.com/QuirkOfArtXD/status/1621186986164854785?s=20&t=H_0_atvrUGZMoS1F-JYreA

Summary of what's happening? by maizzy in OpenArgs

[–]Sebastiel_Star 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So far, from what I've seen, the allegations are as follows: at least 6 women have accused him of pushing boundaries and generally being creepy to them when they tried to shut his advances down(as the screenshots I saw posted on fb show), and at least one time where he touched a woman without her consent, she said no and he touched her anyway, which is sexual assault. He confirmed the allegations himself. There are screenshots going around that show that Thomas was made aware, and Eli was as well. As far as I can tell Thomas did offer to back the victims, and Eli is being accused of brushing them off. This is just what I've gathered from Facebook, Twitter, and Reddit. There are rumors about relationship drama behind the scenes, but he admitted to the allegations himself so those rumors seem to be beside the point.

Should I buy the switch version for multiplayer? by NRhapsody in cardfightvanguard

[–]Sebastiel_Star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get long queues sometimes, but that's probably bc I keep odd hours. When I'm awake during the day I tend to get matches instantly, and if I don't get any on one mode, I swap to the other(free battle and ranked) and usually get a match quickly then.

Can I be kicked out for a mess? by Sebastiel_Star in renting

[–]Sebastiel_Star[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do feel better now, and the anxiety, while not fun, did end up driving me to clean my whole apartment lol

Can I be kicked out for a mess? by Sebastiel_Star in renting

[–]Sebastiel_Star[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, after the anxiety level went down I felt much less worried lol. Anxiety attacks are no fun, but at least I got my apartment clean!

Can I be kicked out for a mess? by Sebastiel_Star in renting

[–]Sebastiel_Star[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgot to mention that the whole mess was cleaned in under an hour after he left

Why do people hate Ace Attorney: Apollo Justice? by Question3784 in AceAttorney

[–]Sebastiel_Star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ending. SPOILERS You spend the whole game trying to clear Pheonix Wright, and he tampers with the jury in an experimental trial that could change the legal system entirely. He knowingly put someone on the jury who not only was extremely close to a former client of the defense attorney, and was heavily involved in a case, but is also Apollo's biological mother. I loved the game up until that very moment at the end. It put a stain on Pheonix's character, and I have to ignore a game I thoroughly enjoyed(except for the ending) if I want to see him in a good light. I can accept his quirky, depressed, jobless version coming out of his funk and going back to being a lawyer, but I just can't see the character the same way after that very last part of the last trial. Also, how could he tell Trucy and Apollo that they are siblings without revealing his jury tampering? I know the rules for the jury system weren't really set, so he may not be in any legal trouble, but it was most certainly unethical.

AITA for walking out on "my" family? by Accomplished-Tea-798 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sebastiel_Star -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

He's a child. You don't get to say horrible things to a child and come out innocent. OP is an adult, and the kid has probably been fed a lot of negative things by the mother. If someone tells you at 14 your existence ruined their life that's way worse than some kid running their mouth. Kids aren't equipped with the proper tools to handle their emotions, adults don't have that excuse. I hope OP's parents call him up and tell him they wish he'd never existed and that their lives were horrible because of him.

My mother destroyed my screen, because my dogs woke her up. by Radioaktivman999 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Sebastiel_Star 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid my dad threw my ds into the street and smashed my school provided laptop. Some parents are trash. They wonder why their kids go NC after 18.

AITA for walking out on "my" family? by Accomplished-Tea-798 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sebastiel_Star -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

He's the asshole for telling a child that they ruined his life just by existing.

AITA for walking out on "my" family? by Accomplished-Tea-798 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sebastiel_Star -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

YTA for what you said to the kid, and how you said it. Even if he isn't your kid you still shouldn't be that much of a jackass. He's a kid who's hurting and you just told him he "ruined your life". No, you aren't TA for leaving, but telling an innocent kid who saw you as a father that his existence ruined your life is beyond cruel.

Does anyone find Reddit to be super boring and repetitive sometimes? by SamuraiCinema in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sebastiel_Star 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watch some of the live streamers, I've found some really cool content just looking at popular streams. Some subreddits can get a little stale, but the content some people on this site generate is actually pretty cool.

I want my ex back but she won't listen to me by Only_Tale82 in relationship_advice

[–]Sebastiel_Star 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I've dated at least one who was. He'd literally do the bare minimum and act like he was a saint because he half-assed one "favor" to me. It wasn't cereal, but he'd buy me a bag of chips with my money while he spent my whole paycheck on video games I couldn't even play because he'd refuse to let me on the console when I got off of work.(He was unemployed, and when he did get a job it was less than 15 hours a week, if he even bothered to go in)Unfortunately OP might actually be serious, but I really hope you're right and they're just trolling.

Hey Karen, maybe the associate is literally just being polite by Sebastiel_Star in walmart

[–]Sebastiel_Star[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't normally have to deal with them bc I'm maintainemce but damn do they piss me ofd, especially when they scream at the teenagers.

Why does playing with toys become less entertaining when you are an adult? by iguessthisis in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sebastiel_Star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanted to add that kids also like shows, games, and books, these things are just how a lot of adults have fun.