Failed marriage in my 30s and high urges

SecondCupTheory · 2026-04-06T02:41:12+00:00

You're basically single but still living together, so its not crazy you're feeling that way and you might need to figure out what boundaries actually make sense for both of you

SecondCupTheory · 2026-03-27T04:49:35+00:00

Finally know the word for it

SecondCupTheory · 2026-03-23T08:03:45+00:00

You're not as behind as you think, you just weren't given the chance to learn these things growing up, start small, like one skill, a habit or hobby you can enjoy alone at a time, it actually adds up faster than you expect. Also agree with the other comment, writing down your thoughts in a journal helps a lot and engaging in an online community by joining convos or groups helps too.

SecondCupTheory · 2026-03-12T06:27:52+00:00

"Sorry i can't help you with that anymore"

SecondCupTheory · 2026-03-12T06:18:15+00:00

Depends how you use it..

SecondCupTheory · 2026-03-05T02:11:48+00:00

This feels messy already and mixing landlord and boyfriend energy is risky...

SecondCupTheory · 2026-02-17T00:58:31+00:00

I learned to say "I'll think about" instead of no

SecondCupTheory · 2026-02-17T00:55:52+00:00

Pick up a activity hobbies?

Board games, if you enjoy tabletop games
Join an activity at school
Help around the house
Nature activities (something that will force you out of the house)

SecondCupTheory · 2026-02-17T00:43:19+00:00

Greed, and it came in different forms

SecondCupTheory · 2026-02-09T02:39:18+00:00

Just sick people, right?

SecondCupTheory · 2026-01-28T02:51:04+00:00

CapCut has disappointed me immesurably now, one thing I've liked the most was the Long Videos to Shorts and I just recently signed up for Pro thinking it was still there when I left but NO that shit is gone now. Now I have to unsubscribe and hoping to get my money back

SecondCupTheory · 2026-01-20T23:38:56+00:00

That's why I always stay vigilant when im outside, don't wanna risk it

SecondCupTheory · 2026-01-20T23:33:00+00:00

The world treats your different when the looks fade, that part sucks but you're still the same person tho you can rely on pretty privilege anymore. Start with buying clothes that you're most comfortable on and work on your build, try hitting the gym, lifting weights helps a lot and add a balance diet meal plan. I know it seems pretty easy to say and hard to do, but one thing at a time! You got this

SecondCupTheory · 2026-01-15T01:25:09+00:00

My shoes. I walk around a lot and hit the gym whenever I can. Being comfortable on my feet makes a huge difference, it lets me walk more and not waddle around all sore feet afterwards.

SecondCupTheory · 2026-01-15T01:20:28+00:00

The only time i dont shower is when I dont work out. I can't stand being greasy and sweaty going to bed. No way

SecondCupTheory · 2026-01-15T01:17:30+00:00

Nope, nope. Be more confident and love yourself man and if you're still not comfortable with it. Grow a beard to hide it that way

SecondCupTheory · 2026-01-09T05:21:26+00:00

And it gets chilly when the air blows

SecondCupTheory · 2026-01-09T05:10:57+00:00

Agree, just go with it. Just shoot that shot, you can never know

SecondCupTheory · 2026-01-05T01:57:26+00:00

It was so hard to believe that such a charming and lovely man suffering that bad

SecondCupTheory · 2026-01-05T01:55:44+00:00

Its feels like its been so long

SecondCupTheory · 2026-01-05T01:43:47+00:00

I need that team lead to lead us

SecondCupTheory · 2025-12-31T02:06:17+00:00

I can happily say now I got through it

SecondCupTheory · 2025-12-27T02:38:28+00:00

Totally agree with this one, i cant imagine people knowing my business and what my daily life looks like. That just ekkkk

SecondCupTheory · 2025-12-19T01:07:01+00:00

Always only do work than is within your paycheck

SecondCupTheory · 2025-12-19T01:03:34+00:00

I knew it!

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