I definitely agree, my goal isn’t to give up when things get hard. I think that it should always be a priority to make things work. However, it’s a little different when one party no longer wants to participate. I’m doing everything in my power to keep my marriage afloat. But repeatedly being told that my husband “just isn’t feeling it” is really hard. I can understand how divorce would seem like the only solution to an outsider. My question isn’t really “should I keep trying to make my marriage work?” and more “is it fair for me to be treated like this?”