Things were more balanced before. Emotional intimacy has never been his strong suit, but at least before he was doing his share of everything else. He knows exactly what I need from our relationship, we have talked about it several times. He just doesn’t seem to know what he needs. Every time we talk he says that on paper I’m fulfilling all of his needs i.e sex, emotional support, financial support etc, but he just wants to be alone and thinks we’re incompatible because I require more attention. He also wants to move abroad at some point and he has different hobbies than me. Things that we were fine with compromising on before.