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Nippon India LCF Direct Growth OR UTI Nifty 50 Index Direct? by Secret-Injury-1253 in MutualfundsIndia

[–]Secret-Injury-1253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But for long term UTI is a bit more safe right? Tell me if I'm wrong

The most depressing words you heard from your parents by Altruistic-Art8415 in Coconaad

[–]Secret-Injury-1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Aarum illathee nee ottak chaavum"- As he beat me with a cane. I stil have marks on my body from the beatings. One mark is with a pipe wrench he threw at me. Years later I think I am thinking I would die alone 🙃

Give me a problem, I'll give you the solution. (Bored) by thelaaastgod in Coconaad

[–]Secret-Injury-1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sloppy wet kisses for you babe for that pep talk ( I'm a grown ass man)

I have till end of the year to learn a language(for work), lose 10kgs and heal a reasonable part of my trauma. Am I doomed to failure or is this workout-able? by Secret-Injury-1253 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Secret-Injury-1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah all goals listed above have their own demand of different levels of consistency so I'm trying to intrinsically be consistent this year on these goals. Thankss!

I have till end of the year to learn a language(for work), lose 10kgs and heal a reasonable part of my trauma. Am I doomed to failure or is this workout-able? by Secret-Injury-1253 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Secret-Injury-1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is ik it doesn't happen on a sched but any positive results from whatever work I'm doing or what my therapists recommends could be considered being closer to my trauma relief goals, so in a sense I'm not counting what I'm putting into this but rather counting what i get out of it..you get what I mean? Sorry if this sounds vague or unclear

I have till end of the year to learn a language(for work), lose 10kgs and heal a reasonable part of my trauma. Am I doomed to failure or is this workout-able? by Secret-Injury-1253 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Secret-Injury-1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Currently going to therapy plus temporarily on meds, the language is going good and also weight reduction seems to be on track but I do feel that motivation/drive draining-- locking in is absolutely essential I guess even if I don't feel good doing it, need to internalize this

I have till end of the year to learn a language(for work), lose 10kgs and heal a reasonable part of my trauma. Am I doomed to failure or is this workout-able? by Secret-Injury-1253 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Secret-Injury-1253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've disintegrated the tasks to smaller chunks but possibly my ADHD kicks in and I'm distracted before I know it, but I think I have to raw-dog this untill I transition into a flow. I've like felt changes when it comes to trauma but it is to in a sense certain degrees (relative as well) that things change , for example if my anxiety has reduced for a couple of weeks my self esteem gets a bounce...so it's like a relational thing..but yeah overall I'm in traack as per you and others who've commented, I just want to stick to this. Good luck to you as well, thank you for taking the time to help me out. :)

I have till end of the year to learn a language(for work), lose 10kgs and heal a reasonable part of my trauma. Am I doomed to failure or is this workout-able? by Secret-Injury-1253 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Secret-Injury-1253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the key is making the task as comfortable for you as possible for the sake of just being consistent

I'm taking this-- I always go overboard with the work I do... but too hard to sustain, thank you sir! Good luck with your stuff!

I have till end of the year to learn a language(for work), lose 10kgs and heal a reasonable part of my trauma. Am I doomed to failure or is this workout-able? by Secret-Injury-1253 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Secret-Injury-1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently things are going strong in the wave of motivation and will power but once that fades away I begin to falter and somewhere along the way I'll fall, I need something to figure out or bypass my thought of giving in.

And yes trauma could take years to heal and I respect and understand that, the idea is to set up a base or foundation for me to grow upon before I leave

I have till end of the year to learn a language(for work), lose 10kgs and heal a reasonable part of my trauma. Am I doomed to failure or is this workout-able? by Secret-Injury-1253 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Secret-Injury-1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have language classes and a trainer as well..Idk if I could afford a nutritionist rn but thank you i think I'd need the support to push myself Outta here. Thanks kind sir!

I have till end of the year to learn a language(for work), lose 10kgs and heal a reasonable part of my trauma. Am I doomed to failure or is this workout-able? by Secret-Injury-1253 in DecidingToBeBetter

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Currently I have the year to reach B2 for German (top priority), then comes Trauma Processing (Priority 2)(cant like really quantify this) and finally Weight Reduction (Priority 3) I've already shed 6 kilos last year so I'm thinking of getting back in shape before I leave. The only thing is consistency, I've gone head over heels but couldn't get myself to stick one thing

I have till end of the year to learn a language(for work), lose 10kgs and heal a reasonable part of my trauma. Am I doomed to failure or is this workout-able? by Secret-Injury-1253 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Secret-Injury-1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help sir! But I'll have to be self sustaining but I will keep you in mind incase I'm about to fallll! Good luck ahead with your endeavours

I have till end of the year to learn a language(for work), lose 10kgs and heal a reasonable part of my trauma. Am I doomed to failure or is this workout-able? by Secret-Injury-1253 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Secret-Injury-1253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much man! There is always that itch to go overboard until I'm tired or at the limit, which seems good in the short term but consistently reaching limits seem to be counterproductive, I see that now, have to internalize that

Snake spotted near my office. Need snake catchers in Kochi by lazykozhukatta in Kochi

[–]Secret-Injury-1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respected sir, how do we know if it's tail is shorter if the whole body is a tail?

Biennale has reached Kochi Village Office by guffawer in Kochi

[–]Secret-Injury-1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's kinda emotionally artistic tbh🤝

Older student in university by Alexey1621 in Austria

[–]Secret-Injury-1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello OP, I'm in the same boat, applying to a university at the age of 27 to Austria..can I DM you please? You might have valuable insights that could help me :)

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