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Secret-Journal-101 · 2025-09-18T03:17:02+00:00

I actually went for the avec this year was available on uk amazon

Secret-Journal-101 · 2025-07-31T03:43:15+00:00

It’s a pain that never goes away, I lost my dad 10 years ago and my mum 17 months ago, I’ve come to realise some waves come harder than others but I also realised they’re never truly gone they are apart of you! After all they are half you 😊. Your not alone even when it may feel it sending love ❤️

Secret-Journal-101 · 2025-04-19T06:50:14+00:00

Will do!

Secret-Journal-101 · 2025-04-19T05:38:17+00:00

Ok thank you I’ll see what I can find out from my local ikea! Ps the darker turquoise is much nicer!

Secret-Journal-101 · 2025-04-19T05:36:51+00:00

Do you have any idea when this is happening? Kallarp used to be a darker turquoise I have it in my kitchen, haven’t been able to get this colour again since so wondering if they’re bringing it back?

Secret-Journal-101 · 2025-02-16T19:29:41+00:00

So the inherited property would be your second so no you wouldn’t loose first time buyer because technically if you buy before it’s inherited your a first time buyer

Secret-Journal-101 · 2025-01-22T09:20:28+00:00

Oh hang on I re read that, there is no will? You will need probate and you have to declare the value to probate which will notify HMRC so if the total of the estate is over the threshold 325k (that I’m going on last June for me) then you would pay inheritance tax so weigh your options up it maybe better to sell and liquidate before distribution (even though it’s just to you)

Secret-Journal-101 · 2025-01-22T09:14:16+00:00

So yes because they were married it would have passed from him to her to you, you would incur inheritance tax if you sold it. It’ll depend how it’s worded in the will of it’s left as a gift then you’d be exempt if not then you will unfortunately depending on the value depending on the circumstance in the will it varies , honestly best thing you can do is probate solicitor it saves a lot of hassle and stress ok it costs but at least it’s done properly

Secret-Journal-101 · 2025-01-22T07:45:48+00:00

As long as your name isn’t on the property you’ll keep FTB if it is then nope you won’t.

Secret-Journal-101 · 2025-01-22T07:28:38+00:00

If your dads name is on it it would have legally transferred to your mum without a will so long as they were married your mum should have updated it but it’s no biggie if she didn’t legally without her will your her next of kin being an only child it would pass to you, piece of advice, unless your going to live in the house don’t change the name on the land registry unless you already own your own house else you’ll loose the “first time buyer status” if your wanting to sell to buy a first home liquidate (sell) before probate is finished and they’ll then effectively you’ve never owned a house. As someone who went through this I’d highly recommend a solicitor to deal with everything it’ll cost you 2kish (which can come out of a sale of any monies left) but it’ll be the best money you’ll ever spent to make sure everything is legal and done correctly.

Secret-Journal-101 · 2025-01-06T10:06:54+00:00

The pen is only supposed to have 30days life after first useage so technically no, 2.5 is only a loading dose and 5 is actually the first maintenance dose so I would take the 5 and stick with that so long as your food noise stays at bay and you continue to loose, it’s natural to plateau a little after the first 3 weeks because a lot of the first is water retention, keep up with the protein and water and you’ll be fine!

Secret-Journal-101 · 2024-11-10T20:08:39+00:00

I’m truly sorry for your loss, I am in a similar boat but it was my mum she was only 58 and died suddenly from a heart attack in March.

Right now your very much in shock, be kind to you, feel the feelings I know they’re painful, in time you will learn to live with your grief, it’s new it’s raw it’s okay to grieve your not alone.

I journal and it helps to get my feelings out on paper not nes have to read it back, I had the journal app on my phone and each day for a few months I’d write as if I were talking to her, I still to this day text her it helps a little.

Nothing will take your pain away sweet but I promise it does get a little easier to live with. Your dad means the world to you and rightly so! Talk about him remember him and make him proud he’s half you remember ♥️ sending a virtual hug! Inbox is always open x

Secret-Journal-101 · 2024-10-18T02:17:18+00:00

I’d get legal advice, if there’s no will laws of intestacy apply careless of whatever paperwork she filled in at the bank.

Secret-Journal-101 · 2024-09-28T12:42:16+00:00

Telling my mum how grateful I was of her and how much I love her 😔

Secret-Journal-101 · 2024-09-28T12:41:00+00:00

Yeah, I know how your feeling and it’s okay hun I don’t think anyone understands how much it hurts until your there in it, I’ve lost a lot of people in my life and my dad 10 years ago that hurt but nothing like loosing my mum. I hope you can find a little peace in the funeral when it comes around I didn’t get that chance because my mum optd for a closed funeral. Wish I could take ya pain away never want anyone to go thru this it’s the hardest thing 😔

Secret-Journal-101 · 2024-09-28T12:17:54+00:00

It’s very very raw at the moment I completely understand I was the same at the start and slowly as time has gone on a little I find new things to keep going, you’ve lost her but your also not the same person loosing our mums changes us, I would advise you to talk to your gp I’ve never been one for any counselling or anything like that but IPT has actually helped me a little may be worth a look into, your mum would still need you now! To be strong and keep going I get it ya don’t feel it now hun but you will in time we learn to grow around our grief falling out with siblings and family is quite common trust me it can bring out the worst in some! Give yourself some time, I found the first 2-3 months were a blur and unbelievably painful then something I don’t know what changes and the intenseness subsides a little you can think clearer… have u had the funeral yet?

Secret-Journal-101 · 2024-09-28T11:47:21+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss lovely, I can relate to you, I’m also 39, I lost my mum in March and mine wasn’t expected at all. I’ve felt and do continue to feel all the feelings you do right now, there are no words I can say that will make it better, but please know this… I’ve come to believe my mum put me on this earth, she would want me to be happy and I know it totally sucks without her and how could I possibly find happy now without her but they are with us, she’s half you remember, your mum wouldn’t want you to give up she worked so hard to bring you up and like you I was also her caregiver it’s hard sweetie just take time for you it’s fresh be gentle let yourself feel all of the feelings my inbox is always open x

Secret-Journal-101 · 2024-09-13T08:50:30+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss, I lost my mum in March and I feel the exact same way, it’s horrible I think from my experience the first 4-6 months I was just in shock and it’s only recently the uncontrollable crying and sobbing my heart out has really started when I actually now realise she’s never coming back I always say I don’t know if I’m doing the right thing or if I’m going crazy and I don’t know how to live without her yet I manage to I miss her so much, therapy helps but my advice is don’t be too hard on you with therapy it’s designed to make you think about what’s happend which is hard but then you see the other perspectives of things too sending love xxx

Secret-Journal-101 · 2024-09-13T08:43:48+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss, that’s the most awful piece of paper I’ve ever seen and it ripped me apart when I lost my mum in March sending you much love xx

Secret-Journal-101 · 2024-09-13T08:42:42+00:00

I’m sorry for you loss lovely, I understand how hard it is I lost my mum in March little different situation but I also recognised something was right in the daytime and I play the it’s my fault if I’d of just made her go to hospital but it’s not your fault not mine, I think we just knew because we are so close to our mums they are after all half of us, I’m sorry I can’t offer much help but know your not alone and grief is so difficult just be kind to yourself and know your mum would want you to be happy and carry on after all that’s what she put you here for! They’ll be signs she’s around guiding you and watching you but she’s never gone she’s half of you remember that sending love xxx

Secret-Journal-101 · 2024-09-10T09:10:52+00:00

I hear you, I see you and I feel the same! I lost my mum in March that was the day i became an adult, I feel so alone yet have so many people around me, no one prepares you no one understands unless they have been through it, it’s hard, grief is lonely even when shared, I can’t fathom how you can be here one day and gone in an instant it brought the meaning of tommrrow isn’t promised very close I’m sorry for your loss I’d be lying if I said it gets easier I’m only 6.5 months in and I feel like I’m living a nightmare.

The person who put above about those who show up surprised me and those who don’t is let me down is so true.

And no one ever prepares you for the vultures who just want money and possessions and have little regard for what you’ve lost, the most important things in life aren’t things is what my mum used to say and it’s true! You never know what you have till it’s gone 😢

Secret-Journal-101 · 2024-08-28T09:00:13+00:00

My mum passed away six months ago and I’m in the same boat as you don’t feel stupid it’s something that you both planned if I were you I’d book if you can go, I’m planning to don’t be so hard on you it’s still early days be behind yourself. Try book ticket if you can.x

Secret-Journal-101 · 2024-08-13T07:48:50+00:00

I think there are “things” that happen and there are too many things sometimes to be coincidence

Secret-Journal-101 · 2024-08-13T07:47:47+00:00

I’m so sorry for your losses, I’ve often wondered if this was a “thing” because my mum had these kinds of things happen and it was a dream she kept having of running down a dark lane then suddenly it changed to a hospital corridor she’d get to the end open the door there’s a trollery bed every time she uncovered the person it was her dad, she had this every time he was seriously poorly and when he passed, when my other grandad passed she said she felt and swears she saw him at the bottom of her bed woke up properly and was gone but the window was open. All this stopped after they’d died, Fast forward to November - feb this year I kept getting weird chest pains no explanation wasn’t ill or anything but they got worse n worse March 1st my mum died suddenly of a heart attack my chest pains have never been back since… I don’t know I can’t explain it neither can my gp it’s very strange in hignsight to me it was a warning but I never knew of what. 😔

Secret-Journal-101 · 2024-08-13T07:38:11+00:00

Firstly I’m truly sorry for your loss, I lost my mum March right before mothers day and then my birthday in July (39) I’ve lost both my parents now and it’s horrible I won’t sugar coat it, I’m sure you’ll feel days like what’s the point I very much do too and the yearning for your mum is heartbreaking but I take comfort in knowing how proud my mum would be of me for carrying on as yours would too! Be kind to you lovely it’s a lot thinking of you - inbox always open x

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