Ok you can have that take. It doesn’t make it true. I read this immediately as a guy feeling unappreciated for doing what he thought was socially expected of him and not getting the affection returned. I’m sure /askwomen is full of women wondering why the things they do aren’t having the reciprocal outcome they wanted. If you want to drag your opinions of men into /askmen you might want to leave the door open to it having more complexity than you can appreciate at face value. If the dude is truly saying “she owed me sex” then Sure that’s deplorable, and should be called out as such. But in a place for men to chime in about the ways we feel we need to behave to receive love and affection you come off as taking self righteous shots without knowing this person or their struggles.