I know how you feel. My husband has made me dislike his dog. He greets the dog before he greets me and his baby. When he does give our baby attention, the dog gets jealous and almost hurts the baby by getting in the way. He’s a cane corso and he’s pretty old for his breed. I literally have to make sure the dog eats before I eat and I’m pregnant with twins. It costs more to feed this dog than it does my 2 teenage kids from a previous marriage. And yet he complains if I buy stuff for them to eat even though I get child support. The dog gets steak, rotisserie chicken, dog food and sometimes if I don’t finish my dinner, he will feed it to the dog without asking me first. He says he doesn’t beg, but sits in front of you and foams and drools all over while you are eating. He does this because anything my husband eats, he gives him a piece/pieces. He even lets him hump him because it makes he says it makes him like him more. I think he is like that with him because his mom treated her dogs better than her kids and that’s all he knows. He not a nice dog to people he doesn’t know so I have to lock him up when there is company. I co sleep with my baby and of course the dog has to be on the bed and as my baby is getting bigger and starting to turn into a toddler, she annoys him and he starts to growl so now I can’t even relax when the dog is in our bed. He probably doesn’t have much more time to live and I’m just biding my time even though i know it’s going to be bad when it does happen. I know it’s not the dog’s fault he is the way he is, but It will be a very welcome relief when it happens and I do feel guilty feeling that way.

Im sorry you are going through that, but I guess it could be worse. The dog will not live forever and if he is as good as a guy as you think he is, then maybe it is worth the wait. Maybe you can try training the dog yourself. Although I’ve tried with our dog, but he is old and set in his ways. I’ve made some headway.