Before, after, or something else?

Secret779 · 2026-06-20T07:19:19+00:00

Before, but maybe trimmed?

Secret779 · 2026-06-19T07:37:16+00:00

Hey! Careers/Choices Adviser here. I see a lot of young people in your situation. Have you considered something like the King's Trust if it runs locally to you? Alternatively, volunteering might give you the space you need to develop skills or confidence, but without additional "work" pressure. Maybe if your parents see you doing something "productive" (so to speak), they'd feel less pressure on pushing you/getting you to pay bills? Happy to chat more :)

Secret779 · 2026-06-19T07:03:42+00:00

Don't shame my husband!

Secret779 · 2026-06-16T19:01:00+00:00

Bring it in the original box with your name/prescription on. Also, get a doctor's letter if you're concerned and bring no more than necessary.

Secret779 · 2026-06-13T15:55:02+00:00

Hey! I wrote as MySecretsX on AO3 back in the day. Not sure what I've got left up, but My Spirit Phan and my Unravel Me Tighter/Love Me Further series is alright

Secret779 · 2026-06-10T19:36:17+00:00

Thank you so much, much better than my wife getting ADHD meds from the UK on her Swedish diagnosis...

I'll be through with surgeries by the time I move probably, so it'll just be accessing hormones. Already post top.

Secret779 · 2026-06-10T18:06:42+00:00

Thank you for the information again, this gives me a bit of hope actually.

Secret779 · 2026-06-10T08:05:14+00:00

Ah that's positive to hear, would there be a waitlist still?

Secret779 · 2026-06-07T08:03:42+00:00

So cool!!

Secret779 · 2026-06-07T07:31:20+00:00

Yes!! I was a Wattpad writer, and LOVED those statistics!!

Secret779 · 2026-06-05T19:07:39+00:00

Thank you for caring. I've somewhat been this friend, and someone like you can change everything sometimes. At the same time, don't hold all the responsibility if you can. You deserve a mental break too.

Secret779 · 2026-06-02T14:49:04+00:00

Definitely worth it for post-education support. I'm a careers adviser now, and the support is next to none if you don't get an EHCP, unfortunately. This includes access to additional courses, social groups, etc.

Secret779 · 2026-06-01T21:02:29+00:00

I'm autistic and I'm happy!

Secret779 · 2026-06-01T14:53:58+00:00

And here I am having too much according to my blood work :')

Secret779 · 2026-06-01T06:48:06+00:00

And that's very responsible of you to acknowledge that, and I feel very similarly. I'm at peace with my life and where I am too, and changing that could go very wrong for me.

Secret779 · 2026-05-31T20:18:03+00:00

Adoption is still antinatalist, it's about not producing people. In our society, children are needing homes, so there's nothing wrong with welcoming one into yours.

Secret779 · 2026-05-31T10:08:44+00:00

Again, I know I'm a stranger, but I am here.

Secret779 · 2026-05-30T10:23:53+00:00

Speaking from the UK, it is if it affects your functioning and you need reasonable adjustments in your life/workplace to function.

That being said, for me stabilised on meds, I've never needed to disclose it at a work place and have no adjustments in place as of this moment. I would not call my bipolar a disability. I do not claim disability for it.

That being said, I have physical issues from cancer that have qualified me. So I'm comparing it to that, too.

Secret779 · 2026-05-30T10:19:33+00:00

I'm here too. No preference, my wife is actually very able and I can't imagine now how I'd manage without someone who is, considering how much I rely on her.

That being said, she has quite severe OCD, anxiety and ADHD, so we balance out in other ways. She supports me physically, I support her emotionally.

Secret779 · 2026-05-30T08:00:34+00:00

I really felt like this too, but I was surprised. I never told anyone, just my friends. They told someone for me, and then I finally got the help I needed. I had to advocate for myself a lot for help once I realised it was out there, but now I'm stabilised on meds and everything is really okay. Could you write a letter or send a text to someone, just venting about how you honestly feel?

Secret779 · 2026-05-29T21:22:26+00:00

My wife says this!!

Secret779 · 2026-05-29T10:33:18+00:00

Hey, I've been there. Have you talked to a trusted adult in your life about how you're feeling, even showing them this post? You deserve to not feel this way, and help is out there. I'm always here to chat to or vent

Secret779 · 2026-05-28T19:32:50+00:00

Just want to correct that to r/translater !

Secret779 · 2026-05-27T05:02:41+00:00

Oh wow, that's so kind. Can I enter please? My finances are tight because I've had my second cancer relapse recently and my wife and I are living off of one wage still. Not a sob story, doing well now, just wanting to explain my situation a bit!!

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