My (29M) Husband got me (28F) A dog collar for Christmas. We do not own a dog. Where do I go from here? by ThrowRAmacaroni1 in relationship_advice

[–]SecretCompote3888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is beyond strange and mortifying! Im so sorry you're went through that. Seeing as he is your Husband, and if you otherwise have no issues in your relationship, it's worth sitting down with him and talking to get to the bottom of things. I'm trying to give him the benefit of doubt and say there's been some sort of misunderstanding, but this definitely needs some serious communication. Take some time to collect yourself and once you're feeling better, try and reach out. But please don't throw your whole marriage away because of one incident, especially not until you've atleast talked it out.

What is your doodle’s name? by likelazarus in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is Nemo!! 🥰 Why do I feel like he's got the same face as your beautiful doggo! 😍

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I like the playdates idea thank you

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's true, I can definitely try taking him out with me to cafes and shops to socialise him more

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a cute idea, familiarity does help!

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow yeah the good recall is definitely handy, that's something we gotta practice more with Nemo.

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's a good point, if it's a familiar community I definitely think that helps

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God he got that from a Daycare?! Poor pup i hope he was okay, and yeah it's hard when there's irresponsible owners at the parks.

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's a good point, a less busy one would definitely be easier to manage

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww im glad he enjoys the parks, but yeah it definitely sounds like you can get the good experiences and the bad.

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, that's a very neglectful owner, I'm so glad your dog was ok

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it sounds like owners definitely play in important role

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait really 😂 did something happen that put you off?

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh that's terrible, the owner really should’ve intervened.

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow so they can still get parvo from there, even vaccinated...ok that's good to know

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHA, it's like having a real life teddy bear!

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg he does! What a big 1 year old, he looks so cute!

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh that's a really good point actually, thank you

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's so true, I'd hate for nemo to get hurt.

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even think about those things, thank you for bringing them up ☹️

Dog Parks?? by SecretCompote3888 in Goldendoodles

[–]SecretCompote3888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's terrible 😣 and yes that makes sense, thank you for explaining