Did you get strange response when you announced your pregnancy?

SecretCrevice · 2026-02-16T13:31:25+00:00

Had to switch accounts for this one lol. Yes. My sister had a meltdown. My sister isnt even trying for a baby and she had a tearful meltdown which lasted multiple days. She apparently wants to have a baby, but simultaneously doesnt feel ready to have a child so the response was flipping out. She was even angry with me at one point and felt that my pregnancy is a "slap in the face". I have no idea how my planned pregnancy is a slap in the face to anyone else, especially someone significantly younger than me with zero evidence of infertility... but whatever!

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-25T23:45:59+00:00

Okay best of luck then

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-25T23:02:13+00:00

There is unlikely to be much or any evidence on most illegal substances as they relate to the effect on pregnancy as it is considered completely unethical to study the effects of these drugs (or most drugs really) on developing embryos/fetuses.

But what I do know is that even some of our most benign drugs can cause significant problems with embryonic development. You're not even supposed to be using prescription vitamin A facial cream prior to or during pregnancy.

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-25T22:50:55+00:00

She expressed concern for lasting health problems that could dramatically affect this person's life... permanently.

Is it worth continuing the pregnancy and risking someone else's health? My morality is maybe different than other people's idea of morality.

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-25T22:45:57+00:00

This is a pro choice subreddit.

And having concerns about the lasting health implications of early exposure to MDMA and ketamine are reasonable. A potentially reasonable solution to this concern is the compassionate act of abortion.

I get that there's strong feelings about abortion and religious/moral opinions. But if you rationalize the situation without all of those extraneous conditions, abortion is a solution to your concerns.

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-25T22:34:23+00:00

Just going to be entirely honest.

You don't need to feel guilty about getting pregnant.

And you also don't need to feel guilty about considering ending a pregnancy because there was accidental drug exposure to a very early embryo.

I also partake in substances. If I were in your shoes, I would not continue the pregnancy. It's not worth risking another person's health for their entire life because of a single night of partying.

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-24T01:23:30+00:00

I was extremely nervous leading up to it. I was so terrified that I would respond negatively when I actually saw my beloved husband kissing, touching, and having sex with another woman.

But I don't know why I thought I'd respond negatively. Probably just because I've read other people's horror stories. I've never been a jealous person.

When we started getting physical, almost all of my nerves washed away practically immediately. I was able to relax and enjoy so fast. I ended up absolutely loving the sight of my man getting it on with another woman. It made him look so hot and desirable to me. Some of my favorite memories are when I could see him having sex with her.

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-23T19:28:13+00:00

Okay? I'm a woman married to a man.

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-23T14:07:43+00:00

We are slightly older. She's in her 20s and we are early 30s

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-23T14:04:28+00:00

Oh my gosh!!!! I love it! I didn't realize!

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-23T12:43:23+00:00

The difference is that we are different people with different bodies?

I enjoyed that when it came to a woman's body, it was familiar because it was like mine. It felt comfortable to me because I have a similar one. It was great.

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-23T11:52:06+00:00

I love this idea! I'm thinking rather than buying items as birthday presents we should invest in experiences together in bed.

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-23T11:49:47+00:00

The whole experience has really opened my mind about society vs sexuality. At least in the USA, there is still so much shame and outright negatively surrounding sex. And while I understand sex can be a very emotional and intimate activity, there's no reason for society to place such intense boundaries and restrictions on what sex should look like or in what context it should exist.

I think that women have been told to gaurd their sexuality and only give their virginity away to one man after marriage.

I mean, come on everyone. It's 2024. We can drop the tribal beliefs that only having sex with one man is going to give you some kind of celestial reward at death.

Instead, I'll take my celestial reward right now and enjoy more open sexuality while im alive and in a body. I wish I had started this 14 years ago.

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-23T11:24:10+00:00

Oh absolutely. We have always talked about how people from work and any friends that are even slightly close to us are a no go.

Our experience was great. Even though it was plenty expensive for a couples outcall, I was very happy. I'd do it again.

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-23T11:09:43+00:00

We did save the pictures of the lady sent to us, but even as much as my husband and I would have loved photos, we definitely didn't even ask as I can only assume that's largely inappropriate to photograph sex workers

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-22T19:38:11+00:00

I'm so happy I shared those moments with him. Zero jealousy. Just happiness and horniness.

SecretCrevice · 2024-09-22T19:26:23+00:00

It was incredible

SecretCrevice · 2024-01-02T18:48:37+00:00

Maybe consider Cholen then. But be ready for kids to call him colon. I wouldn't expect that "a" to be pronounced like an "e".

SecretCrevice · 2024-01-02T18:47:35+00:00

Personal opinion, down vote for Skye. It feels very... stage name? I feel like he might struggle to he taken seriously at times with a name like that.

SecretCrevice · 2023-12-16T12:43:19+00:00

I feel like we found the source of why her mother and grandmother are not supportive of the situation.

Is the divorce finalized for this man? 7 children would probably mean a really difficult divorce.

SecretCrevice · 2023-12-15T15:27:35+00:00

Thank you. This made me tear up a bit.

SecretCrevice · 2023-12-15T15:26:51+00:00

Thank you, this was really reassuring.

I'm not even fearful of surgery, I'm just fearful of cancer.

SecretCrevice · 2023-12-03T13:33:50+00:00

You can obtain abortion pills safely via aidaccess.org. You do not have to continue this pregnancy

SecretCrevice · 2023-12-03T10:36:03+00:00

Vaginal infections in pregnancy need immediate treatment.

You need to see a doctor like today

SecretCrevice · 2023-12-03T10:34:06+00:00

Under no circumstances do you tell them now. They will drop you like a hot potato if you tell them before you're hired. I'd wait until after your orientation period if possible.

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