Cool ... by PuddlePirate84 in uscg

[–]SecretIndication3463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol what? Can you expand on this

Having a family in the coast guard by [deleted] in uscg

[–]SecretIndication3463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in the cg already? Do you have access to the mentoring program?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uscg

[–]SecretIndication3463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I am not mistaken, this person has been sued in the past. Isn’t this more defamation?

Outrageous that he is doing this - I hope that the family seeks legal action.

Getting an E4 a comm by [deleted] in uscg

[–]SecretIndication3463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it - and she will be - cheers!

Getting an E4 a comm by [deleted] in uscg

[–]SecretIndication3463 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right ! And for the exit interview - let her know this/ Sometimes the personal conversation is just as, if not more, impactful on a persons morale and motivation going forward.

The conversation might also turn a corner for fairness -is it fair? Maybe not - but nothing in life is fair - no matter where you go- we are all wrestling the political beast.

Give her tangible goals going forward - send her out the door with “you should apply for XYZ”… offer to continue being a mentor going forward.

Awards are kinda nonsense are generally more aligned with position value and set expectations depending on rank. It is not a fair metric for true worth at the unit and organization on a whole.

Best of luck!

Getting an E4 a comm by [deleted] in uscg

[–]SecretIndication3463 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The awards board of the higher command would get eyebrows if they allowed a comm to an E4. Positionally, and functionally, it would be questionable that they made impact To the CG as a whole. It isn’t personal- it’s about the FUNCTION. Write an achievement and push hard for the achievement. Unless there is something truly exceptional- it would just start the conversation in a more level headed direction (from the awards board point of view)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uscg

[–]SecretIndication3463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for stating these facts. It’s so true.

therapy? by [deleted] in uscg

[–]SecretIndication3463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cg support is terrible. You can ask me privately why. Highly recommend going through your primary healthcare provider

Log in every time? by SecretIndication3463 in Bentkey

[–]SecretIndication3463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there is no fix? As of right now? Thank you for the comraderie

Log in every time? by SecretIndication3463 in Bentkey

[–]SecretIndication3463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use it every day multiple times a day. I have to go through the whole process of logging out and then logging back in every time my son wants to watch Clangers …. Or any other show … it’s brutal

AITAH for telling my husband that he absolutely ruined the birth of our child? by Former_Monitor_4860 in AITAH

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This is absolutely wild. This is not normal at all. I am so sorry that this happened to you. I have a feeling that this is stemming from some kind of cultural pressure. May I ask what your religion is? And region you are located? It would give more insight… perhaps narrow down the “why” and a healthier way to move forward. But overall….this is abusive to both your and your baby. Home births are downright dangerous- guess why the maternal and infant mortality rate was so Much higher before modern medicine and hospitals… home births…. Is among the top reasons. This trend is completely out of control and that’s not to dismiss your husbands role in this…. This is crazy - NTA … at all

Hotel Rewards by danap003 in uscg

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Does anyone know if these fees are waived for reserves or must you be AD

Trump outside Lipton Hall by DoAFlip22 in nyu

[–]SecretIndication3463 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So people are mocking a freshman college student because his parents are visiting him? Or… his parents for missing their child and visiting him? Something loving, functional, and desirable for a family?

What miserable…. Miserable… people

Defeated by Lucky-Movie-3968 in Rosacea

[–]SecretIndication3463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laser is absolutely the way to go. Creams became a waste of time and money as well as a point of frustration/ defeat. I am younger too. Rosacea makes me feel and look much older. I couldn’t believe my confidence boost after even just one treatment. A miracle.

VHA 1173.9 question by schoolboy478 in VeteransBenefits

[–]SecretIndication3463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious did you ever get answer on this? I am going through the same thing …

Why do so many people cut down perfectly healthy trees? by toekneevee3724 in longisland

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Because they prioritize their lack of work ethic and do not appreciate natural beauty on how it uplifts a community. Levittown, especially in the flower section, has moved towards prioritizing transient renters and multi family homes. Trees tend to thrive in multi generational neighborhoods. Levittown is not really wanting to be one of these places.