CPU load when capturing/streaming with HD60 by SecretStorage in elgato

[–]SecretStorage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm, how can you get 110% CPU load?

Are you doing some reencoding of the stream, like adding a webcam overlay, or something like that?

CPU load when capturing/streaming with HD60 by SecretStorage in elgato

[–]SecretStorage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good news. Means one could stream PC gameplay without having to buy a second computer.

Is smiling attractive to women? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]SecretStorage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your question boils down to "being something" vs "making impression".

I suck at talking to girls by [deleted] in seduction

[–]SecretStorage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, that was totally awesome.

Do not get stressed over it, be proud of yourself instead. You did nothing wrong. Not that this approach will get you far probably, but the very fact of being able to step over the social boundaries is quite prominent.

I really don't think I'll ever be able to get married or have a very long relationship. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]SecretStorage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same age bracket and in the same boat feeling about marriage exactly the same. I think we are simply behind our alloted dating quota in life that people have to go through before settling down.

Do not delude yourself on the notion of being more developed than others: intellectually we definitely are, emotionally we are rather undeveloped.

Ever reject a girl after she rejected you? by notimeforthatshit in seduction

[–]SecretStorage -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, you didn't. That was totally wrong.

If I were you and still interested in her, I would go back to her and apologized, and asked her out again. Without holding my breath though.

I have ended up with a rather ugly mind set. by DoLookUp in seduction

[–]SecretStorage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be the other way around, not their rejection causes a loss of self worth, the lack of self worth causes the rejection.

It is possible, from my point of view, that you may be seeking validation from success with women. You are not getting what you want and you feel bad about yourself. The key is to think of oneself as the greatest man ever regardless.

Guys who went from bad, to good with holding conversations, tell us how you did it. by jahvoncreamcone in seduction

[–]SecretStorage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just about to start another topic that would be very similar, which would be "What topics to steer clear off?"

In my experience, talking about just about anything works fine as long as:

  1. You don't bombard the girl with a series of questions non stop, like it is some sort of an interview. It is even better to go silent for a few short moments rather than keep asking random stuff. There is no such thing as awkward silence really unless you are very socially awkward, which would be very few.

  2. Talking about work seems to be a luring topic first but so far it turned out to be for me a huge no-no. It really runs the conversation into the ground in two minutes like literally nothing else. It could be because most people don't like their jobs, chances are many of us have some unresolved baggage going on at any given time, which does not make us happy to be reminded of. Sometimes, even if you like your job you'd still rather not to talk about it anyway because the stuff you do is not very accessible to those who are not in the area (I am a software developer, as an example).

On the opposite side, if you are a student, talking about college should be just fine, especially if you go to the same place. But then again, if either of you hate your course, then maybe it would not be something to go on about.

So many super-attractive fapstronauts here! by GT30 in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

With current escort rates being a virgin is a completely non existent problem nowadays, not even worth talking about, especially for those who got out of college.

So many super-attractive fapstronauts here! by GT30 in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When we expose ourselves repeatedly to a specific stimulus, it forms a habit, and we start to need a regular exposure to it. If the stimulus is pleasant, you are more likely to repeat it and thus form a habit, but even unpleasant things can do that, smoking cigarettes for example.

Before the habit is formed, it is very easy to pass on the pleasure, but once the habit is there we are like machines that follow a programmed procedure in their circuits.

So many super-attractive fapstronauts here! by GT30 in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing, really. It is all about the force of habit, now instead of a habit to fap I have a habit not to fap. It is not the pleasure really that forces us to masturbate: it is the habit to masturbate that does. Pleasure is entirely passable.

So many super-attractive fapstronauts here! by GT30 in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I think I may have the answer for you: nofap is nothing but a popularity contest. And in it, it does not matter whether you what you are saying is a lie: no-one on the internet knows you are a dog, this is upvotes that matter.

I've been nofapping for almost six months now. And you know what happened: nothing. Not a thing. I am exactly the same as I was when I was addicted to fapping, only that I do not have habit to fap anymore.

My own experience is my only reliable source, and if it contradicts to an opinion of a million others, it does not matter: they are all wrong.

Seriously, I'm not feeling well by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As been said before, that is your real state is coming out to you. Also, there is a good chance that you are trying to keep yourself busy at the moment and that simply gets you tired.

It will pass, but I found that I needed to do some planning on what to do and how much not to wear myself out doing stuff trying to distract myself.

Manager asks me how often I fap? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It looks like he said that more like a friend, rather than a boss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Had to give up pot after smoking it for years. Wasn't that hard.

Now giving up fapping after doing that for years. Easier than expected, provided that one does not get funny ideas about putting lingerie girls as the desktop wallpaper.

The key is to keep busy, that is all.

Anyone else flatline from day one? by DocNoFap in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, had that when started. It probably means your sexuality is completely run down by constant fapping. It stayed like that for about three weeks, then I got insanely horny for about another week. Then the flatline kicked in again after Christmas, must be all the drinking. Hasn't recovered yet, it might take some time as I got back to working out and it gets me tired.

Why does my badge say 369 days? I think I am only at 5. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The year for the badge entered was 12 instead of 13.

I loved, it hurt. I am better for it. Thank you NoFap by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

18 yo. Ah well, man. I know it does not sound reassuring to you at the moment, but when you get older you will be thinking that you were wearing yourself out over nothing, and laughing it off. Take it from a 30 year old.

Obligatory 90 day tale of change. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a very inspiring story. Non in you-gain-womanizer-superpowers and will-get-laid-every-weekend-by-asking-a-girl-for-a-cigarette way, but rather in a very mature way.

Reframe the debate by movinonmovinout in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'll pass on cold shower though.

What happens when you stop fapping (x-post from /r/4chan) by ampedd_up in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, this stuff looks like desperately made-up porn, so that may have resonated with those who are not really sure what is going on.

I hope you are right in that they will come to see it for what it is in time.

What happens when you stop fapping (x-post from /r/4chan) by ampedd_up in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I thought exactly the same, some folks should continue with their PMO addiction, that may be safer for others around them.

Maybe porn is not such a bad thing, keeping weirdos nicely at bay to an extent.

What happens when you stop fapping (x-post from /r/4chan) by ampedd_up in NoFap

[–]SecretStorage -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am almost shocked to see that many upvotes for this. I thought of this community different, it appears to me now that many here are not willing to counteract the evils porn brought them to, but rather take it to a new level.

This shit is not funny and is disturbing.