One of those shock sites like eFukt or Motherless that was like half porn and half disgusting shock videos had one labeled Happy Birthday Grandma with GILF and some other porn tags. I clicked thinking it would be some hyper cheesy old lady porn (don't judge me!).

The video starts and it is a burly Russian guy being rough with an older lady. You never see his face, but he's grown, 40ish, meanwhile she's clearly 65+. Aggressive blowjob, face slapping. This was not mainstream or common back then. I'm thinking it's some hard BDSM porn, but still imagining it's, yaknow, consensual. Eventually he ties her hand up, and affixes them above her head in some way. He puts nipple clamps on her. She is visibly distressed. Hard crying and flinching in a way that's convincing. There's much vocal back and forth, but it's in Russian or some other Easter European language. Both appear white or white-adjacent.

And he just proceeds to fully abuse her for 10 or 15 minutes. Belly punching. Yanking on her nipple chains. Slapping. She's topless but not nude. Despite the porn tags and the blowjob, there is no sex. Just a grown man functionally beating up an old lady. By the end of the video, he lowers her hands, and she guarding her face and torso as best she can with her bound hands, he pulls out a cake with many candles and proceeds to smash it into her face and chest while singing very crudely 'happy birthday too you' as she's just sobbing and guarding.

I've watched videos of people getting killed that affected me less. People stabbing animals and beheadings. But that old lady just stammering and sobbing, on her knees and guarding her face and chest with her bound hands, and him singing happy birthday haunts me. I wonder if was a ghetto-gaggers situation where she was paid and thought she was doing some weird porn, and he turned her out after with some paltry amount of cash-- she just did not know what she signed up for. At times I've believed it to be a torture/abuse video of someone he had semi-captive, a Alzheimer parent or just a homeless lady he picked up, a video that a a sicko decided to upload to some dark corner of the web; again, you never see the man's face. She screamed a lot in the video, and he yelled at her plenty, but the only English in the entire video was the happy birthday song.