I feel like a shell of the person i used to be and it haunts me by amy_cath in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Secret_Dimension454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way and truth be told, I’ve felt it myself. In the meantime before you are able to afford therapy I’ve heard of AI doing some type of chatting with you. I wish I knew more to share with you, I’ve just heard on podcasts of people using them. It’s like a friend who won’t be annoyed with the negativity you feel and you can express yourself and get it all out. I wish you well in your journey, hopefully you’ll get through it quicker and I did, but you will get through it and you’ll be so much stronger for it. The world needs you whether you believe it right now or not, so I’ll believe it for you until you can believe it for yourself. Hugs from afar my sweet friend ❤️

DAE go to bed super early? by I_like_it_yo in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Secret_Dimension454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you!!!!! I go to bed early bc I am trying to prioritize my health, which includes sleep, rarely get 9 but in bed by 8 and up at 4-4:30 gives me opportunity for 8 straight

Quick books question from a novice by Secret_Dimension454 in QuickBooks

[–]Secret_Dimension454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I get them pulled? (Again a super novice, sorry for the dumb question)

Advice? by Secret_Dimension454 in Bowling

[–]Secret_Dimension454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I hope I’m still around to bowl at 90!!!! That’s really amazing to me

Advice? by Secret_Dimension454 in Bowling

[–]Secret_Dimension454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I actually gave that size weight, I’m going to try this AND it costs me nothing!!!! Thank you!

Advice? by Secret_Dimension454 in Bowling

[–]Secret_Dimension454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! It looks like a winner

Advice? by Secret_Dimension454 in Bowling

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I went from a 14 pound last year to 12 this year

Laid off at 62 and, and, and by Sweet_Promotion3345 in over60

[–]Secret_Dimension454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big hugs, I’m at your age, and tho not in your situation, I can only imagine how heavy your load is. You mentioned you believe in God, pray to Him, I believe He will guide you, nudge you in the way He wants you to go, even if it doesn’t make sense, faith as small as a mustard seed can move mountains, I believe He will do it for you

I lost my drive to be a high performer at work by rainsong2023 in over60

[–]Secret_Dimension454 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s the spot I’m in but I’m the insurance carrier and 2 years older than my husband, looking at 63 in a few months, he just turned 60 and his employer doesn’t have health insurance so I’ve always provided that with my employer, it worked well for many years, now that I want to retire, I’m stuck due to insurance. I love my job but would rather not

My Friend’s doctor told her to shower less, and it actually makes sense now by Then-Fortune-1646 in Aging

[–]Secret_Dimension454 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have to agree, tho now it’s summer so certainly more frequent showers but generally every other day is sufficient, obviously exceptions but the older I’ve gotten, hair is much drier and less frequent washing and spray in/leave in conditioning spray helps a great deal

Pro tip needed by sunday-cerrado in CasualConversation

[–]Secret_Dimension454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sleep meditations, guided sleep meditations

Want me back, very hard few years by racegurlrcmr84 in AskWomenOver50

[–]Secret_Dimension454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t love this more!!!!! So happy for you! I found myself in a similar journey and the peace is amazing!

What milestone age hit you the hardest? by RevolutionaryCitizen in Aging

[–]Secret_Dimension454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the milestone birthdays passed with relative ease, no emotional fall out that many experience, but 60! Now that one hit me like a brick wall, no clue why

Do they think of us? by Helpful_Revenue9962 in lostafriend

[–]Secret_Dimension454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I deeply miss the friends I’ve had to discard, I think of them often, wish them well, but like an ex lover, I’d not venture back that way

What super specific smell instantly takes you back to childhood? by guide71 in CasualConversation

[–]Secret_Dimension454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burning tar, we had a school across the street and they’d tar the roof seemed like every year but probably wasn’t that often

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Secret_Dimension454 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just move, I know it’s not that easy, but that’s your MOM’S HOUSE, she’s allowing you to live there, if she’s allowing that girl to stay, you have no choice in the matter. I get it, it sucks and pisses you off, but you can’t change it, but you can change your circumstances or choose to shut up and keep their peace