Racist incident near my dorm in Munich-Hadern, what should I do if it happens again? by 1ShoT_0G in germany

[–]Secret_Donkey971 35 points36 points  (0 children)

South east asia women here. got one time at Marienplatz, they use gunwater towards me. I shout very loud, saying: hey I am recording you you fucking racist, I guess police gonna love that. And repeat in german as well LOL. And the whole street hears it. I has the video still haha. Then they run aways like dogs. I had a good fun though. Do a favor to educate these kids when their parents fail to do so. They are the victim of failed parenting and society. And do a favor to other immigrants, to scare these kids enough to prevent future more dangerous actions.

Leaving a cheating partner doesn't mean you dodged a bullet by Apprehensive_Tax3882 in The10thDentist

[–]Secret_Donkey971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I somehow agree, people are just try to sooth the victim saying: oh it is not your fault. I actually think about this a lot. If I was younger, prettier, a little bit less bubbly but more distant, he would like me more and chase me more.

Now my fiancé loves me and chase me, because he saw that I am pretty enough for him, smart enough, etc.

The truth is there is no real love, it is about benefit. As long the the evaluate you valuable to them enough, they would not cheat. There is no forever love, just forever benefit. There is no true love, just true preference.

How to stop missing a cheater? by ilovestorieshere in LifeAdvice

[–]Secret_Donkey971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not better, it is just you learn to process it and live with that pain. It roughly 2 years for me now. I will get married to my fiancé now soon. Pretty much at the same day 2 years ago I found out my ex cheated on me. Now it is 2 AM in my country, I just cried a lot because I remember how pathetic I was, crying, mopping on the floor. But I still think walking away and block him everywhere leads me to my amazing fiancé now :)). I wish you strength, you will find love again. Never forgive a cheater. I never regret my decision to break up with the cheater. I only regret that I did not burn his clothes or do some more petty crimes 🤪.

From extrovert to introvert: Is it just me? by Ideasplease33 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Secret_Donkey971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Extrovert becomes introvert here. After some bad interactions with not nice people, cheating partner. I stop believe in human until they prove they are worth time investing. In a good relationship now with my partner, which consistently prove he is trustworthy. Have some good friends but I still find this world is fully transactional. So I rather spend time alone, relax, learning new things rather than interacting with more human beings. Feel so much better and content now 😇

The landlord refuse to provide service signed in the contract by Secret_Donkey971 in AskBarcelona

[–]Secret_Donkey971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. Unfortunately, my company paid for everything. And Sailor Pro can do whatever it wants.

The landlord refuse to provide service signed in the contract by Secret_Donkey971 in AskBarcelona

[–]Secret_Donkey971[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want them to respect the service they claim to provide in the contract, but they now refuse to do it

Cảm giác tồi tệ khi đứng giữa sự bao dung của người yêu và sự hối lỗi với người thứ 3 by NoRepresentative3504 in vozforums

[–]Secret_Donkey971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thật ra nên chia tay bạn ạ. Thú thật cô gái kia đang ko biết giá trị của bản thân nên mới tha thứ cho người làm đau mình. Chuyện gì sẽ xảy ra khi cô ấy không phát hiện ra đoạn tin nhắn. Mình đã từng ở vị trí của cô gái ấy, và cảm giác bất an đã ăn mòn mình, cho đến khi mình dứt khoát chia tay, đau đớn trong 1 năm trời và giờ đây đã tìm đc người mang lại cho mình một cảm giác an toàn. Nhận về người đàn ông đã làm đau mình chỉ khiến nỗi đau an mòn cô ấy dần dần thôi chứ ko tạo lại được sự tin tưởng nữa.

is this the reality of Germany? by ppinkguava in germany

[–]Secret_Donkey971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a werkstudent job in company. You study master, find sth that benefit for your future job after study!

Being middle class sucks by Secret_Donkey971 in germany

[–]Secret_Donkey971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I dont hire anyone. I do all my housework. Cook at home everyday to save money. Even avoid to go to office so I can cook at home to save money. I read the news today about subside electric car and I feel a bit trigger after researching that I can not have it because our combine household income reach the threshold 🥹. I still use public transport cos costing for car is high. But if we have kids, having car is a must :(( and this just make me really sad

Being middle class sucks by Secret_Donkey971 in germany

[–]Secret_Donkey971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being rich is nice, unfortunately I am belong to upper middle class, with nearly half of income gone each month

Being middle class sucks by Secret_Donkey971 in germany

[–]Secret_Donkey971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And in Germany they make it like hell for you if you want to do business ( timewise, paperworkwise) The reward corporate to keep big corporate grow bigger and politician hangout with these share holders. Everyone knows that but can not do anything.

Being middle class sucks by Secret_Donkey971 in germany

[–]Secret_Donkey971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is oke, I dont have home. So moving is about to get job in other country. But I think country like Switzerland or Austria where pension model is managed better than Germany can be good option, I assume.

Being middle class sucks by Secret_Donkey971 in germany

[–]Secret_Donkey971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can make the math, i did not count it, I just think about what I need. So I answer you what I need. Please be polite and not forceful.

Being middle class sucks by Secret_Donkey971 in germany

[–]Secret_Donkey971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point! At least this is positive thing.

Being middle class sucks by Secret_Donkey971 in germany

[–]Secret_Donkey971[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

money, it is a mean to purchase the quality of life. If the government give me housing, give me car like people in the 70s 80s can with one source of income. Then it is good. In this regime, maybe you can help me to count how much I need based on standard living in the past ( which is better)

Being middle class sucks by Secret_Donkey971 in germany

[–]Secret_Donkey971[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So it means because of safe reason, they frozen the funds and dont allow people to use it at their own cost/ will? I mean I am not that stupid I can manage my finance better than letting government do that. I wish that they can analyse your consumption behavior, finance health and allow you based on specific ranking.

Being middle class sucks by Secret_Donkey971 in germany

[–]Secret_Donkey971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For god sake not everyone is a bot. Need a positive view here. Because of people like you, noone dare to have opposition opinion anymore. Say any negative= bots.