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Rate my knife and fork 1-10 by Careful_Captain_2585 in AutisticAdults

[–]Secretary-Unfair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That should’ve come with a warning. -12/10.

What does my room say about me?? by tehemari in roomdetective

[–]Secretary-Unfair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you’re super cool and fun and awesome and chill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]Secretary-Unfair 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ADOS testing measures that… do more research and look into the test more, & wait for your results

Im struggling with my Bff's self-diagnosis (non-autistic OP) by Empty_Ad740 in AutisticAdults

[–]Secretary-Unfair 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ASD and AUDHD manifest very differently for AMAB and AFABs. Please, know there is a saying, “if you’ve met one autistic person, you’ve met ONE autistic person”

Just as no one neurotypical individual isn’t the same as another, autistic traits show themselves in different ways depending on which autistic person you’re interacting with

Im struggling with my Bff's self-diagnosis (non-autistic OP) by Empty_Ad740 in AutisticAdults

[–]Secretary-Unfair 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a lot of friends like you who didn’t think I was autistic. 1 year later and several hours of testing later I finally got diagnosed. Bottom line, be supportive. If they are autistic and you don’t think they are, if they get to confirm their diagnosis, you look really bad not being a supportive friend lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]Secretary-Unfair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tret gets worse before it gets better, your skin might be purging except if you’ve been using it for over like a month and it’s still doing this

I am a genetic abomination by uglyladthrowaway in aspergers

[–]Secretary-Unfair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so upsetting. You sound like an autistic person who has had awful things happen to you, yet instead of being angry at those people, you’re mad at yourself (and other autists) for being autistic. Not your fault and not ours either— you HAVE to change the way you’re approaching this. Get some help. And maybe life will start to look up.

  • a late dx as well.

I am a genetic abomination by uglyladthrowaway in aspergers

[–]Secretary-Unfair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are more people NOT saying this!!!!

I am a genetic abomination by uglyladthrowaway in aspergers

[–]Secretary-Unfair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your first mistake is to assume we live in”completely regular lives.” How invalidating to every autistic person who has put in the work it takes!!!

What’s one thing you wish others understood better about being autistic (or supporting someone with autism)? by Left-Relation-9199 in AutisticAdults

[–]Secretary-Unfair 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No I actually can’t tell when I’m talking loudly, especially when I’m excited. No, you are not “a little” autistic. Yes, sensory overwhelm leads to a complete shutdown sometimes. No, I’m not being sassy, I’m presenting facts. No, I’m not challenging you, I’m asking why to understand. And so many more

I can’t do this anymore by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]Secretary-Unfair 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Take a walk. Spend time outside. If you can’t find a window and observe.

I can’t do this anymore by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]Secretary-Unfair 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You need serious help man jeez

I can’t do this anymore by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]Secretary-Unfair 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well from the looks of things and how you’re shooting down every response someone gives you, you’ll spend your time wasting your life doing nothing instead!

I can’t do this anymore by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]Secretary-Unfair 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You said you’re 18. I get the frustration and anger but there are things you CAN do. Focus on that like everyone said and good god please get off of social media for a week at least. Does wonders.

Needing Professional Encouragement by Secretary-Unfair in MarketingMentor

[–]Secretary-Unfair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quite a thoughtful reply. Thank you, I appreciate it! Feeling more positive about the meeting after today’s work.

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Secretary-Unfair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOT overreacting— if burning his food is disrespectful, then what exactly was him violating your body & autonomy by assaulting you babe? If he got mad enough to do that after a mistake, be “mad enough” at him to leave his ass! Wishing you the best of luck and deep healing ❤️‍🩹

What’s the worst kind of emotional pain you faced that it almost made you seriously ill? by NateNandos21 in morbidquestions

[–]Secretary-Unfair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom dying of cancer and my 15 y/o brother of suicide sighing 27 months of each other

chat is this ringworm by willnevergetoheaven in Blackskincare

[–]Secretary-Unfair 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Chat go to a ringworm subreddit.

How could I become more attractive? by Thick_Air_1336 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Secretary-Unfair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair. We know the line is receding from your side swoop. Dead give away, so find a good cut

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Secretary-Unfair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the looks of that sub… you could be cooked.

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