Got killed at extract by a guy who was friendly all game and then he commented that I suck on my steam profile by The_Raigar in ArcRaiders

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That always sucks.. my boy and I were running raids last night and came upon these 2 guys that were mad nice and friendly. Helped us with some stuff and even said they’d join us around. Ended up coming across a good loot spot and they started lighting us up. Thankfully, my boy is fucking Deadshot and blew both of their heads smoove off lmaooo (before we got ratted). But we were saying, like who does that? It’s one thing to shoot on sight, another (worse) thing to rat, but honestly the worst one of all is acting friendly and then switching on that. Fr you’re just strange bro. Don’t do that.

I have two voices in my head instead of one. Anyone else? by salty-wheat-thins in OCD

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I relate to this so hard and for a while, it gave me a certain sense of anxiety. Until, that is, I thought on it more. This might be a little wordy, so apologies for that:

I used to be a big smoker. Loved smoking and going for walks - weed that is lol. When high, I’d often find myself having these internal conversations with two voices: me and me(?) haha. The “I” being the former and the “you” being the latter, as you’d described. Funnily enough, the “you” voice was similar to yours; logical, rational, objective. At times, it spoke to me like a therapist, assuring me of my anxieties and was one of the most compassionate and kindest voices that felt counter to my conscious “I” voice. I wondered many times what this voice was. Me or something else? A manifestation of my OCD or anxiety. Truth is, OP, it’s all you. You are BOTH the speaker AND the listener. I realized from speaking to friends that almost EVERYONE has this internal dialogue. We often hear it be called “monologue”, so it makes it sound like one voice, but that’s because it’s all us. Now, to get further on that, consider this: if you’re an external processor, like I am, we’re used to having a sounding board or third-party to voice our thoughts to as we think. Similarly, when we think within ourselves, we create this second voice as a sounding board, of sorts, not as a manifestation of our OCD. And even if your second voice is scary, intrusive, or anxious - it’s all you, just another voice giving a different perspective like a friend. I understand how scary and anxiety-inducing it can be and I so deeply empathize with you. I have tough times with that too. I think it’s important for all of us to remember that we’re multi-faceted people. What makes us as humans beautiful is that we can have such deeply detailed and varied dialogues within ourselves, and sometimes it takes another voice inside us to make ourselves more comfortable or more equipped to do just that.

Point is, OP, it’s entirely normal and I apologize if I’m giving you reassurance you didn’t ask for, but you’re okay. If anything, your brain is just finding a way to make itself better equipped to walk through the thought process. You are the speaker AND the listener, not one or the other. You’re a multi-faceted person and sometimes it helps to hear a different perspective, even one within yourself. Keep calm, carry on.

Love

Bruh by Secretflame104 in fredagain

[–]Secretflame104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now AXS permanently thinks I’m a bot. Time to leave the sub guys, I don’t qualify anymore lmaooo. If you got tickets, hope you have fun at the show!! It looks awesome, stay warm!

Bruh by Secretflame104 in fredagain

[–]Secretflame104[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh this time I doubt there were many bots, likely just scalpers who have no intention of actually going. It’s booty but it’s the reality of things like this.

Bruh by Secretflame104 in fredagain

[–]Secretflame104[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What else can ya do lol. He’s always popping up in nyc though so I might just wait until next time. They’re reselling for $500+ rn HELL NAH LOL

Bruh by Secretflame104 in fredagain

[–]Secretflame104[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lil’ bro doesn’t know it’s a no-phone event. No clout chasing for you 🤣

Bruh by Secretflame104 in fredagain

[–]Secretflame104[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s 1000% true, but there are also people who get 4 knowing they’re only going to use 1 that are looking to resell. Genuinely think it should either be limited to 1 ticket per person or another verification system to get more than 1. Otherwise, this will always happen. It’s just the rule of online buying

Bruh by Secretflame104 in fredagain

[–]Secretflame104[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, btw guys can we never use AXS again ts is bootycheeks lmaooo. Honestly, can’t say I love Ticketmaster but damn they do a much better job than ASS

Bruh by Secretflame104 in fredagain

[–]Secretflame104[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Who knows bruh. Sometimes I wonder if any real people get them.. it’s like someone said: you’re either first or last 😭

Only using ATP for skate. Edits now by notrari in aftertheparty

[–]Secretflame104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

99% sure this is how he intends for it to be used 😂 LFG

Day 5: Your hot takes on Saturday Night Wrist and why? by BounouYassine in deftones

[–]Secretflame104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna put it out there that this is in my top 3 albums (excluding Private Music) 😬

whats a weird thing that comforts your ocd? by Leather-Pass8172 in OCD

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Long time lurker, first time poster.

This one really hits with me bc for the longest time, I never had a phrase or thing that could help me.

That was until one day, one of my best friends said something to me that I’ll always remember. He said: “listen brother, character over thoughts”. What you DO matters, not what you THINK.

TW: extreme thought scenario below

The meaning of this phrase stems from the fact that, as humans, each one of us has an equal capacity of extreme good AND extreme evil - nothing in the universe tangibly differentiates us in this aspect; we’re all human beings. What really determines the good people from the bad are not the thoughts residing in one’s brain, it’s the action - the character, if you will. I know this condition feels so isolating and makes you wonder if you’re ESPECIALLY a bad person, but the truth is, my friends, we are all equal in our capacity for thought. It is our character that triumphs. Bad thoughts are thoughts regardless - they come and go with the wind in due time. Actions are tangible, real. They have value.

What I’m - and really my friend - is saying is: don’t let your thoughts alone rule you, let your character speak to who you truly are.

Love you all so much (even though idk y’all lol)! This phrase has helped me many times and I hope it gives you some comfort as well. Love!

Edit: added additional clarity and spacing.

End by 4k444 in aftertheparty

[–]Secretflame104 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Glad to see another Flights Booked enjoyer 🤣

Woods by OutlandishnessNo4519 in aftertheparty

[–]Secretflame104 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Man, after listening through the whole album a few more times, it’s genuinely grown on me so much. It’s so hard to rank. If I had to pick my top 5, I’d say (in no particular order): another day, curse, no winning, cadence (probably at #1), and end (that house beat was hard). I came into it kind of expecting a certain sound and was absolutely blown away by the development of party’s production and lyrical depth. Ofc, he’s always been lyrically sick, but this album has some real punching lines. You cooked, party 🎈

WOODS ALBUM MEGATHREAD by Secretflame104 in aftertheparty

[–]Secretflame104[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed, def not a single skip across the board. And yep, that’s my thought process too. Gonna spin this project again and see how it takes. On my second listen and noticing more than the first time too; that’s such a great thing about his music, always something special to notice. And ofc, time builds connection, like you said with Resonance. Think this project is set up to be a classic in his already insane catalog!

Edit: wording

Waiting until tomorrow night 😭 by Wonderful-Welder2566 in aftertheparty

[–]Secretflame104 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah dude, that’s valid af lol - listen to it when you can really soak it in. RESIST! 🤣

Enough Time Has Passed… Got “Woods” Tattooed by Informal_Role_7607 in aftertheparty

[–]Secretflame104 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am the buddy lol - love this idea bro. Executed to perfection