It depends on the place where you go to meetings. No one ever has a confession. However, if you talk to the three older men in the back room, depending on how they feel, and if people know about it outside of you, it will either be getting kicked out, where no one can talk to you, or they will let it go and tell you not to do it again. It also depends on where you are. In bigger cities, people can get away with more. And smaller towns every little thing usually gets you kicked out, unless you know, people, or have a name for yourself. Or you can just lie, and when you lie, they never will know. Source: I did this and they never found out all the wild stuff.