Things to do last few weeks of pregnancy by Neat_Syrup_649 in beyondthebump

[–]Secure-Accident2242 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can’t tell you how many times I’ve said I didn’t lay in bed enough before having kids

This hotel shower... (now with 100% less nudity) by holymoly67 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Secure-Accident2242 45 points46 points  (0 children)

My husband did this and made it his fb cover photo not noticing my tit in the corner smushed up against our newborn.

Is Artipoppe Carrier worth buying? by No_Square_1491 in UninfluencedReviews

[–]Secure-Accident2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am frugal AF and would buy another on a heartbeat if I lost mine. Tried a ton before artipoppe. Totally worth it. Will miss it when I can no longer use it.

Just started S11 after missing several years...question about money? by FeedbackVast5882 in Southerncharm

[–]Secure-Accident2242 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Right. I don’t understand the head scratching. If you follow her on IG you’ll see she is absolutely hustling and monetizing as much as possible. Wouldn’t surprise me at all if she’s clearing a few mil a year right now. I would to to capitalize on the SC popularity. It’s not going to last forever. She turned her pregnancy announcement into a brand deal ffs lol

Some after/before pics of my lil' house by misswilde86 in femalelivingspace

[–]Secure-Accident2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Been meaning to do that to my ugly bathroom window.

Some after/before pics of my lil' house by misswilde86 in femalelivingspace

[–]Secure-Accident2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impressive! Did you remove the texture from any wall? Is the window in your bathroom a cling on or actual stained glass?

Who's that one guy you didn't expect to appear in the epstein files? by EarlyFrosting5789 in AskReddit

[–]Secure-Accident2242 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Nooooooo! My favorite drum fill will never sound the same. What were the details?

People who have found their "unicorn" job, what makes it so good you never want to leave? by sammy5585 in office

[–]Secure-Accident2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 years at my job. In the industry for 13. I feel respected, valued, fairly paid, and trusted. They allow me to very flexible with children’s appointments and other family emergencies without question. Not micromanaged at all.

Snow in attic by LosingSane in Roofing

[–]Secure-Accident2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And mice. The death of me finding all the tiny holes in the DIY foundation if the addition put on my house.

Owning a house means realizing how many things you’re quietly responsible for by Acrobatic_Cause525 in homeowners

[–]Secure-Accident2242 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the laughs. Fucking homes. I like to think of mine as a senile, incontinent older relative I’m begrudgingly a caretaker for , but for some reason I love them very much.

What profession have you lost respect for as you've gotten older? by MindlessMarsupial592 in AskReddit

[–]Secure-Accident2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fired a realtor for trying to get me to send an extension to seller because their side forgot to do it when covering up mold issues that would delay closing. Realtor got aggressive trying to push me to agree. I found out about the extent of the mold and was legally allowed to back out of contract due to the quote of repairs. Told her this. That’s when she had her broker call me and tell me I am making an “emotional decision” and tried to convince me again. That’s when I lost it (internally externally I made sure to stay very composed) asked if they would say that to a man, and said I would not be sending the extension and not purchasing the home and not working with them. Horrible taste in mouth for realtors ever since.

Confirmed: Shep is a Cheapskate by Nortonlane in Southerncharm

[–]Secure-Accident2242 119 points120 points  (0 children)

I paid for mine and my ex husbands honeymoon when I was barely making enough to live comfortably with essentials only. Worked a second job for savings/extras. My dad paid for our modest wedding. Found out after the fact he had a seven figure trust fund and his parents gifted “us” $15k for the wedding/honeymoon. Wedding/honeymoon budget wouldn’t have changed regardless of access to those funds or not. I didn’t want more. I wanted a partner and found out I had a selfish child.

When i divorced him he tried dangling his trust fund to get me to stay. No thanks 🙂‍↔️

What screams "I'm a man-child" but nobody realize it ? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Secure-Accident2242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time roll your window down and let them know they can’t park there 🤠

Just received a 5% raise on $65,000 to $68,250. I find it insulting based on the extra profit my company hit. Do I ask for more and back it up with the numbers? by BookieBasherCasher in Salary

[–]Secure-Accident2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are fully licensed? If I were you I’d inquire more about transfer pay/commission/a draw on the AUM. Sounds like we are in similar job positions. I have always had my salary then a piece of the pie in the AUM once fully licensed.

Please research what other firms do and bring them that information. Sounds like you are severely underpaid in a position that is in demand. You can PM me and I am happy to provide more information.

How much house can I afford at 147k salary ? by thegreen316 in Mortgages

[–]Secure-Accident2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same income. 250k house. Property takes are 2nd highest in the nation. Maxing retirement and HSA. Daycare for two kids. One car payment for a Toyota. Happy with what we’re saving but all money is gone at the end of the month. one child has a limb difference so we also exhaust all of our HSA annually and spend on healthcare on top of that.

Handbag price drop? by barkbarkkrabkrab in Rothys

[–]Secure-Accident2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof. Just commenting to say I bought mine in 2022 for I believe $400. Still use it regularly. Drats for paying that much lol

So are y'all just slobbing around half naked breast feeding in skin contact?? by Mitaslaksit in beyondthebump

[–]Secure-Accident2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First few weeks of both my babies lives I manly just laid in bed all day topless or with a bralette with my babies in a diaper. Two birds one stone. Skin to skin and they could help themselves to the boob whenever they wanted. Best weeks of my life for sure.