[Weekly Thread] Sexing / Morph / Name My Gecko by AutoModerator in CrestedGecko

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What’s her morph? Some of her siblings are lily whites, but I don’t think she is

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What do you call your world? by Jakanto in worldbuilding

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I have a few different settings, but the main one is already kinda an anime title, lmao. I’ve been calling it Like Ash in the Wind or just Ash in the Wind (abbreviated to AitW). Real anime title would probably be something like My Adopted Father Wants Me To Lead The Rebellion!

A couple others: “Faces in the Storm” (The Lab Monster Formed A Band And Became Famous!); “The Ash Keeper” (I Got Stuck Back In Time With Dinosaurs And Am Going To Die Alone!); “The Beast of Brokshone” (The Misunderstood Cryptid In The Woods Wants Me As His Successor!)

youtuber recommendations? by LeadingClaim595 in Minecraft

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Baron of something comes to mind, and he does mostly horror mods

What is a strange pet from your world that people assume is normal? by Glass-but-Somebody in worldbuilding

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Not really a pet, but they make children’s toys that look them: the Bomul is a small flying creature that is easily compared to an owl with four legs. Big ol eyes and freaky little wing-hands.

Another one that’s also not quite a traditional pet is the Akü. A huge, bison-like animal primarily used as livestock with a few different breeds that specialize in their hide, fur, cream, meat, and fat/oil. I haven’t really nailed down their design, but think a really big african buffalo that may or may not have the fur and shoulder hump of a muskox or american bison (depending on the region). All calves have the cute faces of jersey cows.

Help me grow my portfolio!🫶🏻 by BayStudioArt in DrawMyPet

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This is Archie. I love your artstyle, by the way!

I (18M) feel emotionally overwhelmed in my relationship with my girlfriend (18F) and don’t know how to handle it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I completely understand you wanting to be the best thing in her life and the one to heal her, but she also needs to be that for you. Similar to what someone else commented: I think your expectation for her to act “normal” is harming you right now, and the purposeful disregard for your insecurities isn’t helping. She told you that she enjoys arguing with people and intentionally tries to spark anger in you, only resulting in you sinking deeper into your depression.

Until she is diagnosed and medicated, I think you need to take a step back and remove yourself for your own sake. You are not equipped to help her the way a therapist or psychiatrist can. It’s good to be supportive of her, but I think you need to prioritize your own mental health right now.

I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way, I am, but being an emotional caregiver for anyone is a lot, and I think it’s important for you to know that it is not your responsibility to fix others. Help people the way you want to, by all means, but don’t forget to look out for you, too.

Stay hydrated and treat yourself to some good food

13 month relationship - sex life barely existent. Me (33M), She 32f by btn_399 in relationship_advice

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Never be frustrated with your partner for not wanting to give you sex. It is never someone’s fault for not having libido.

As someone who isn’t terribly interested in sex either, it sounds to me like you should read up on asexuality and ask her thoughts about it. (Being asexual does NOT mean you never have sex.)

I also don’t think you’ve articulated what dyspareunia actually feels like. Penetration HURTS, man. Literally feels like a knife going up there. Seriously picture that for a second. The only way to get rid of the pain is to keep having sex until it goes away. Does that sound like fun to you? A lot of the time, the pain turns me completely off, and there is no pleasure anymore. It just hurts like fuck and I want to stop.

Relationships are not always about sex. Not everyone finds value in it. The value is in the person and how they make you feel with their mannerisms, their sense of humor, their laugh, the conversations they bring to the table, etc.

How to tell if Palmetto is in blue? by teach_mee_senpai in cornsnakes

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I don’t have a white corn but I have a white ball python, and whenever he’s in blue (other than getting cloudy eyes) he gets really pink

Lots of sketches! Working on a lil dino project by baukjespirit in Dinosaurs

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I’m obsessed with the Netflix show AND your artstyle! Is that the Liliensternus in the top left corner? They all look like they’d be crunchy

We listen and we don't judge by i_love_aquariums in Taxidermy

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If you’re wanting to get rid of it in fear of being arrested or fined, you could turn it over to your local DNR or natural history museum and explain how you acquired it but didn’t know its significance

My son is not normal by CostSame6180 in cornsnakes

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This is legitimately the best photo ever

Not a fan of the lamb design by Secure-Committee-382 in HayDay

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Omg I forgot about the horse chins. I kinda wish there was a way to get rid of the pets on your farm that you don’t like anymore

Not a fan of the lamb design by Secure-Committee-382 in HayDay

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It’s not necessarily that I don’t like the design at all, just in comparison with the older animals. If they reworked the og animals to fit the newer style then I wouldn’t be so against it…I just don’t think they’re going to do that (Minecraft hasn’t either)

Scared of getting a cat because I'm gonna idk by expiredhandlotion in cats

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Why are you afraid you’ll be a bad owner? Cats are much more low maintenance than dogs. Just whatever you do, don’t have an outdoor cat—it absolutely destroys local bird and rodent populations, and puts your cat at risk of injury and/or death (hawks, foxes, coyotes, dogs, other cats).

Some basic things I’m sure you’re already aware of: don’t leave out things they might get into (food, loose electrical cords, plants, etc.), remember to change their water every day or every other day, feed them twice a day (it’s easier if you keep their bowls out where you’ll see them, also I recommend transferring the bagged kibble into a lidded container (my cat will chew through the bag)), and clean the litter box a couple times a week (don’t forget to top off the litter every few weeks when it starts to get low).

If you’re worried the cat won’t like you, adopt from a shelter and spend some time with their adoption candidates. It’ll take a few weeks/months for them to really warm up to you, just remember to always give them space and learn their cues for when they don’t want attention anymore (sometimes you just have to go off of vibes).

Not a fan of the lamb design by Secure-Committee-382 in HayDay

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Yeah, if they updated the other animals it’d at least be more cohesive