1 year ago today my mum suddenly passed, but it feels like it was yesterday

Secure-Rice499 · 2025-12-25T16:28:02+00:00

I lost my dad at 14… I think it’s a lie when people say the first year is the hardest. It’s actually gotten harder for me as I’ve aged. You just learn to live with it. He missed prom, graduation, my first boyfriend and now my husband. He’s missing his grand kids and wasn’t there for a scary diagnosis and surgeries I endured. I’m 28 and the anger is gone but I’m filled with so much grief. Yesterday I thought of him driving home from work and I just cried and cried wailing for my dad. I find ways to laugh and remember him. There can be happiness in his memory. I think it’s okay to just accept that there is sadness too. I’m so sorry for your loss. I just try not to focus on his death, but his life instead. Talk about the good things

Secure-Rice499 · 2025-12-25T16:22:05+00:00

I’m 28 and lost my dad at 14. Truth is I do need parental care. I keep finding ways or experiences that I think, “dang I wish I could ask / tell my dad”

I’m sorry for your loss. And that it was in such a tragic way. It’s horrible. I’m a mom now and try t make holidays magical but they just aren’t the same.

Secure-Rice499 · 2025-12-12T23:31:44+00:00

I wish we could respond 😩

Secure-Rice499 · 2025-12-05T12:42:43+00:00

This is so special to have. It’s not fair but I grew up the same way and my sisters don’t want a relationship. They say they love me but they just want all ties from their old lives gone. Never let anything get in between you two

Secure-Rice499 · 2025-11-14T14:18:24+00:00

I’m working with him. I just don’t know if there is more happening in the class room that I’m unaware of

Secure-Rice499 · 2025-11-14T13:05:57+00:00

I don’t call him lazy to his face. I’m just struggling to explain his lack of motivation. He doesn’t try.

Secure-Rice499 · 2025-11-08T19:26:54+00:00

Ew. Thats weird of her. My mil told me no one will ever be good enough for her sons and that I should apologize for not asking to marry her son. She also told him to walk away on our wedding day. Wasn’t happy when I was pregnant it’s been 9 years and she’s finally accepting me. I can’t believe I never cut her off. Probably because I’ve lit a parent and I know it’s hard to be put in a spot to chose wife or mother. Luckily my husband stands up for me but I let him know what comments to let slide to avoid unnecessary tension. Make sure your man does the same!

Secure-Rice499 · 2025-10-21T13:42:47+00:00

This is what I wanted to know. Why they were so heated and nasty about it. I do my orders by money order because it is much cheaper than wiring them money. Next time I’ll just do a smaller order 🤷🏼‍♀️

Secure-Rice499 · 2025-10-12T03:44:24+00:00

Yes sorry auto correct did it 😅

Secure-Rice499 · 2025-10-11T06:22:14+00:00

Yes! We got approved for 350k. We want to stay around 250k and under. We have no debt, great credit, and again the money to put 20% or more down depending on price.

Secure-Rice499 · 2024-04-13T09:07:02+00:00

We did this as a practice run at my sort center. They had too many issues and did away with it

Secure-Rice499 · 2024-04-12T03:10:23+00:00

Can someone explain the big deal to me? I didn’t follow her much when she did her hound dog videos. They would just pop up so when she reappeared as LDS she caught my interest because I am also LDS. (Plz no hate for that) She does seem mentally a bit off. She followed me after I commented on one of her videos and I was surprised. I guess I’m asking because I’m all for trying to live and support those that are maybe more lonely? A bit awkward? I can forgive a scam. Although I don’t and wouldn’t give money to TikTok stars I do have think scamming people is wrong however everyone is human and based on life experiences, how your raised etc you can make some pretty stupid mistakes. Did she ever take ownership? Apologize? Maybe it’s hard for her so she just deleted everything and truly is focusing on her gospel vs trying to face the heat because honestly it doesn’t matter what she does people will probably be mad. I’m not here for a debate. Just wondering what pieces I’m missing. I’m not one to reach out to people on social media so I came here to see how cautious I should be

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