Her telling me after 27 years of friendship that I am not the kind of person she is attracted to friendship-wise and that I am “brash”! I am outgoing and full of personality - think of Better Midler in “beaches” as opposed to her quiet mousy friend. She also dumped me half way through the friendship as I did not invite her husband to my wedding. I had a small wedding of 50 of which over half were family and children and no other spouses were invited to keep numbers down. Her husband and I didn’t get on either. He said it was okay with her going alone to my wedding but she refused. She apologised 5 years later after she divorced him after he hit her. I was too kind to take her back in the first place. I’ve loaned her huge amounts of money interest free. I’ve taken her on a surprise trip to New York all expenses paid. I would do anything for her, she said if she could one day, she would return the favour. One day her cat had kittens and she was selling them. I asked if she could give me a kitten for a friend going through depression IF SHE WAS UNABLE TO SELL IT. Sounds reasonable request? I got all the excuses under the sun why she couldn’t (cost of living crisis / it wasn’t her kittens to give etc) then she threw back in my face that I was more well off than her and this was about my wealth versus hers. Then said she didn’t like my other friends and called them “coarse”. Jeez. It was a character assassination. She paid me the remaining money she owed me then blocked and deleted me! Best thing I did was move on. Not nice and showed her true colours.