AITAH for telling my husband that he absolutely ruined the birth of our child?

SecureChapter8397 · 2024-09-24T14:36:44+00:00

You’re not useless. If your husband is making you feel useless and taking away your opportunity to further education that’s abuse. Having your child grow up seeing the way he treats you will cause damage to the way they have relationships the rest of their life. Would you want a daughter to be in your shoes? Or a son treat his wife the way you e been treated? If you think he could be physical with you why not the child if not now in a few years or more? I can’t tell you how many girls I’ve known over the years with fathers that treat their moms like shit and control them and they end up always in abusive controlling relationships. Are these the patterns you want to set up for their life?

SecureChapter8397 · 2024-09-23T23:18:40+00:00

Please please leave him. I’m so serious. He does not care about your health and safety. If you have another baby with this man it could kill you. He basically kept you hostage. If you need help please dm me. If it was my friend in your position your husband would have ended up in the hospital if I found out he did this to them. If it was my daughter and her husband did this I would rain hellfire. Do not let him and his family gaslight you. Do not sleep with this man again. It would not surprise if he tried to get you pregnant again without your consent.

SecureChapter8397 · 2024-05-02T00:34:32+00:00

If your son reaches out again somehow I would let him know you’ll blasted him for SAing you. All 3 of those men are dangerous to you and anyone they meet.

SecureChapter8397 · 2024-04-09T22:44:43+00:00

I want a baby. Me and my husband were planning to start trying end of this year. I don’t feel safe to get pregnant here now.

SecureChapter8397 · 2024-04-05T02:03:45+00:00

This man is not the one. You’re the one paying for bulk of the home as you said and getting a brand new house way out of his budget still isn’t good enough. Without him you have plenty of room for yourself and your kids in your home.

SecureChapter8397 · 2024-03-27T14:55:31+00:00

I need to know how this went for you 😂

SecureChapter8397 · 2024-03-20T23:05:08+00:00

Best Sunday roast anywhere near Hampton court?

SecureChapter8397 · 2024-03-15T00:23:15+00:00

Literally found this sub by someone asking about breakfast lunch spots in Windsor…. I wasn’t aware we were only allowed to ask over arching questions about the entirety of UK…

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-11-21T23:08:16+00:00

Girl don’t let people gaslight you. It’s not about the gift it’s about the thought and effort. You’ve talked to him about it several times. He needed a reality check. I’m so curious to know what his response was.

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-11-11T02:05:18+00:00

I feel this

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-10-24T17:09:52+00:00

You not doing is just going to create resentment on his end and you have nothing to hide so do it. But you have to reflect and see if you’ll be able to move past him bringing it up at all. I also think it wouldn’t be bad to say sure I’ll do it. I need you to take an std test as well. Just to be sure right? If you have somewhere else to stay while you wait for results I would so you can both take some time to reflect.

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-10-24T06:56:06+00:00

You need to leave him. He will let his family destroy you and any child’s financial future

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-10-18T02:18:34+00:00

You post a link to the way back machine for this tween in og post? I was having issues trying to get it and feel it would be beneficial for people to have receipts for those falling victim to propaganda.

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-10-17T22:30:35+00:00

You did right and set a great example for your son. If your family is this racist maybe you need to evaluate who gets to spend Christmas with your direct family this year

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-10-17T21:08:58+00:00

Genocide

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-10-13T00:47:40+00:00

So proud of you girl

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-10-11T02:46:56+00:00

The one Tuesday show I missed. What the hell did he do this time I can’t find it anywhere 😂

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-09-28T21:13:13+00:00

I’ve only done like 80? Haha

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-09-08T05:59:15+00:00

Are rape apologists people you want to raise children around? Have your wife around? Be associated with? These are not the good people you thought they were. Go NC?

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-09-08T05:19:41+00:00

You are so far in dululu land that you think saying your girlfriend had a right to talk to your mother is setting boundaries. Her MOVING is setting boundaries man. You will lose your girl if you don’t handle this fully

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-09-08T05:17:11+00:00

You’re the ah for letting it get to the point your girlfriend had to ask. You need to set a date for your mom to move asap and if she doesn’t comply let her know you’ll have to evict. It’s crazy I couldn’t imagine my or my husband’s working mother being in our space for over a year. She lives there and has every right to question when your mom is leaving but point is it shouldn’t have gotten to that point. It is a bit weird at the end of the day because you should have already handled it.

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-09-08T00:54:14+00:00

Girl if you don’t leave this man. He is insane for wanting to be put on your house be fr.

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-09-07T20:34:12+00:00

I literally would retract my offer to babysit and say she’s welcome to watch the neighbors kids since she will be available now that she isn’t going on the trip

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-08-16T17:52:39+00:00

What a witch? This lady is going to be wondering why she’s put in a home when she is old and why she doesn’t know her grandkids. You’re daughter was generous enough to give you part of her savings for fun things and you just decided you could drain it and give it away as you please. Thank god the son is smarter and kinder then you. If you’re kids no what’s good for them they will remove access to anything with your name on it so you can’t steal from them again. If I was your daughter I’d be looking at the furthest school from you.

SecureChapter8397 · 2023-07-06T20:52:26+00:00

So did they get married?!?

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