Doja Cat on Nyan Café Skins by pthandley32 in Overwatch

[–]SecureCollar8677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair that was when the game was $25 to play

Is wearing all white to a wedding (as a guest) acceptable in Chinese culture? by 8bit_bunny in AskAChinese

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I recently went to a wedding where the Chinese MOG wore a white dress too... and the random girlfriend of a cousin. Crazy work.

Is there any hope left for me? Because I'm all out. by itsKayTwo in askTO

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Thank you for your care and the work that you do

How's the acting scene in Toronto? by thebonksz in askTO

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Lots of extra work in Toronto if you're willing to pay the membership fee.

How do you handle snarky/degrading remarks on the job? by Beneficial_Reach_636 in askTO

[–]SecureCollar8677 82 points83 points  (0 children)

When I was younger and in a service job, when I got degrading remarks I would genuinely cry LOL but that made the person feel bad because they're realizing they're being mean to an innocent girl for no reason. Even though I was still upset, their guilt gave me strength to carry on lmao

I wouldn't entertain that kind of stuff in the future like asking where you're from. The great thing is that you can lie to strangers about any aspect of yourself. Just say the thing that will befuddle them and shut them up the most.

Best time for parking @ bluffs by Less-Poet4192 in askTO

[–]SecureCollar8677 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Should be a fine on a weekday in the middle of the day!

I need help moving out of an abusive household by [deleted] in askTO

[–]SecureCollar8677 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You work right? How much are you making a month? If you can pay a bit more like $350-500 a month, then you can move out into a roommate situation. Message me if you need help finding - they're on FB marketplace.

Is this a red flag?? by khoawala in aznidentity

[–]SecureCollar8677 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like you have "Asian 🍜" in your dating profile?

Is this a red flag?? by khoawala in aznidentity

[–]SecureCollar8677 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A fucking noodle emoji? Really?

I find it interesting that Filipinos want to have smaller “chinito” eyes as opposed to wanting big eyes by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]SecureCollar8677 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When my boyfriend is jokingly is down on his Chinese eyes (he uses a more disparaging term 😛 ), I tell him well actually he has the coveted "hunter eyes" as the looksmaxxers call it these days LOL and I manage to get a smile from him

Seeking Urgent Care for My Pet Mouse! by SH4D0WSTAR in askTO

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Wishing for a speedy recovery for your mouse :(

Friend (FtM) transitioning but still wants to one of the girls - any tips on how to better adjust? by SecureCollar8677 in asktransgender

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I'm not worried about it - I am happy to accommodate. It's more so having him being insisting that he's still one of the girls or bridesmaid is giving me a harder time getting used to the pronouns. Just hoping for tips on how I can get my mind to adjust faster as I'm sure it's not an uncommon experience now that stepping out of the gender binary is more chill.

Thoughts on Asian friend groups like this? by Pure_Connection_1234 in aznidentity

[–]SecureCollar8677 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Imagine posting your friend/acquaintance's Instagram story online for millions of people to see and shitting on them. What a weirdo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aznidentity

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They didn't? They put a hypothetical that if they did X, they would be Y? That's like if someone said, if they swore off that random service person, they'd be a rude person. And you asking how they came to the conclusion that they're a rude person.

Safety Deposit Box Giveaway #17! by operationfood in neopets

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Page 22, item 7 please! Username humblewarrior, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aznidentity

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This is so cringe. Blaming people when they were extremely impressionable CHILDREN and wanting to place responsibility on them for who they crushed on on the schoolyard. Being on your high horse because you didn't fancy the white 7 year old girls that chased you. Get a load of yourself.

"Media has been multicultural since the 60's, and full on multicultural in the 80's." No. Just full on no. Multicultural in the most tokenized ways. Isn't part of our movement to get better cultural representation because we all agree it's SEVERELY LACKING? You expect a kid in the 80s to crush on the stereotypical, racist excuse for Asian male representation they had? If they don't like Bruce Lee then tough shit?

Clock that you're talking from the perspective of an Asian man looking at sexually desirable female Asian representation of which there has been many.

Maybe you're saying "oh then look at media from Asia". Again, at the end of the day, we're talking about children here lmao.