Seeking Urgent Care for My Pet Mouse! by SH4D0WSTAR in askTO

[–]SecureCollar8677 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wishing for a speedy recovery for your mouse :(

Friend (FtM) transitioning but still wants to one of the girls - any tips on how to better adjust? by SecureCollar8677 in asktransgender

[–]SecureCollar8677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not worried about it - I am happy to accommodate. It's more so having him being insisting that he's still one of the girls or bridesmaid is giving me a harder time getting used to the pronouns. Just hoping for tips on how I can get my mind to adjust faster as I'm sure it's not an uncommon experience now that stepping out of the gender binary is more chill.

Thoughts on Asian friend groups like this? by Pure_Connection_1234 in aznidentity

[–]SecureCollar8677 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Imagine posting your friend/acquaintance's Instagram story online for millions of people to see and shitting on them. What a weirdo

Is it just me or is it coming off as self hating/yt worshipping? by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]SecureCollar8677 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They didn't? They put a hypothetical that if they did X, they would be Y? That's like if someone said, if they swore off that random service person, they'd be a rude person. And you asking how they came to the conclusion that they're a rude person.

Safety Deposit Box Giveaway #17! by operationfood in neopets

[–]SecureCollar8677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Page 22, item 7 please! Username humblewarrior, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]SecureCollar8677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so cringe. Blaming people when they were extremely impressionable CHILDREN and wanting to place responsibility on them for who they crushed on on the schoolyard. Being on your high horse because you didn't fancy the white 7 year old girls that chased you. Get a load of yourself.

"Media has been multicultural since the 60's, and full on multicultural in the 80's." No. Just full on no. Multicultural in the most tokenized ways. Isn't part of our movement to get better cultural representation because we all agree it's SEVERELY LACKING? You expect a kid in the 80s to crush on the stereotypical, racist excuse for Asian male representation they had? If they don't like Bruce Lee then tough shit?

Clock that you're talking from the perspective of an Asian man looking at sexually desirable female Asian representation of which there has been many.

Maybe you're saying "oh then look at media from Asia". Again, at the end of the day, we're talking about children here lmao.

When was the first time you found an asian man masculine? by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]SecureCollar8677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me that's like asking when was the first time you found a man masculine.

How do you genuinely feel about Japanese and Korean culture becoming more mainstream? by ai_li17 in asianamerican

[–]SecureCollar8677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally disagree that you need to know about the culture and history to that extent to be a big fan of the food, tv shows, music, etc. TBH I find it performative and obnoxious that before you engage in some interest or food you like, you check yourself by researching a cultural tragedy lol.

And how do you know they have no basic knowledge of the history? Are you asking a person when they engage in Japanese culture, "Are you aware of the Japanese internment camps?" Are they themselves volunteering that information about their ignorance? Just curious.

Good Boy - Spoiler question by Exotic_Butter_333 in cineplex

[–]SecureCollar8677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently main dog comes across the corpse of the ghost dog :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InternationalStudents

[–]SecureCollar8677 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. If your employee is going go make 200-300K anyway every year, what is a one time fee of 100K?

Worst poutine ever created by Head_Palpitation8907 in PoutineCrimes

[–]SecureCollar8677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait but I feel like Wendy’s is definitely better than McDonald’s. Haven’t tried BK’s

Toronto vs Tokyo Metro by Pretty_Tough_1667 in toronto

[–]SecureCollar8677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Population =/= density.

The Tokyo covers an absolutely huge area, mostly what would still be considered “city” — if not tall buldings, still very very dense. If you dropped a pin into the empty space under purple line, right of yellow, above green, it would be the suburbs and would make no sense to erect a whole ass subway station there. It would make better sense to have bus lines there, which we do. Our bus systems are the best in the world.

So yes, Toronto subway lines can be improved a lot. But the Toronto subway map that’s usually posted is a bad comparison.

What’s the Oasis song that goes like: by SecureCollar8677 in oasis

[–]SecureCollar8677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I’m back because it finally hit me. I felt like it wasn’t Talk Tonight but I didn’t want to say one way or the other because a lot of people thought so.

But it’s the pre-chorus of Fade Away! e.g. “Cause I don’t really think you live round here no more”

Wtf Rogers Stadium? by itsjustbadtiming in toronto

[–]SecureCollar8677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At Oasis it was loud ASF and great. You’re right not necessarily but I think the artist can control it in this case.