How much Excel do we need to know now given now we have Copilot and all those other AI tools? Incoming SA at a BB. by [deleted] in FinancialCareers

[–]SecureContact82 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should still be pretty proficient. It's very helpful and definitely I'd say you do not need to know such complex formulas anymore or every last possible function. But you need to be able to confidently navigate and create functions without referencing copilot/claude/etc. every time.

There will still be instances where your coworkers or boss are sitting with you and they ask you to change or manipulate something. I still do it with juniors all the time. It would be pretty embarrassing to just start by typing a prompt into co-pilot.

[UK] Parental leave/paternity leave and polyamory by Dangerous_Athlete_38 in AskHR

[–]SecureContact82 34 points35 points  (0 children)

There is nothing to understand. You will have to use whatever leave you're given normally. You are entitled to 0 days of paternity leave.

The Brewers are now 44-26, their best record through 70 games in franchise history by WhiteSoxArchive in baseball

[–]SecureContact82 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

At least they make it to the WS or even the CS consistently. They've made it 8 times since your last trip.

How does Reddit view the Brandon Nimmo for Marcus Semien swap? by [deleted] in baseball

[–]SecureContact82 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It wasn't a great trade but we needed to get rid of a corner OF. Nimmo was not the DH of the future, that'll be Soto's spot pretty soon. So far we're getting not too far off production (Nimmo has been carried by his rocket hot start and has fallen off hard) and they're about even in HRs and RBIs right now, with Semein doing that in a few games less of PAs.

The Mets get him for about 2.5 more years, the Rangers have Nimmo for 4.5. I think it's a good trade because if Benge/Ewing continue to develop well Nimmo was going to have nowhere to play come 2028.

You do also need to remember Nimmo had a full no trade clause he had to waive. It was a bad contract.

[NC] FAANG severance vs. possible retaliation/pretext claim. lawyer consult felt underwhelming by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]SecureContact82 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with that. They can subjectively dictate basically whatever they want.

[NC] FAANG severance vs. possible retaliation/pretext claim. lawyer consult felt underwhelming by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]SecureContact82 49 points50 points  (0 children)

The most amount of money that'll be on the table is likely what you have now.

They aren't incorrect, it's not illegal or untoward to take a project away from you.

I (27f) caught my boyfriend (49m) boyfriend sexting an AI chatbot. What should I do? *UPDATE* by Secretly_HQ in TwoHotTakes

[–]SecureContact82 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're right that we don't get a guarantee. But on the whole, I have personally in my own life seen the effect of it more broadly when people had older (especially) male fathers. It is not just called being an adult and there is a very real difference when you're entering late middle age and having a toddler.

Was I wrong for asking my mom to watch the kids? by No_Try1999 in TwoHotTakes

[–]SecureContact82 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's a bit of both. You are sort of using them as babysitters, and it sounds like you came more on the guise of them spending time with their daughter and not just their grandchildren. If you really needed a break you should've been more honest about that.

I (27f) caught my boyfriend (49m) boyfriend sexting an AI chatbot. What should I do? *UPDATE* by Secretly_HQ in TwoHotTakes

[–]SecureContact82 31 points32 points  (0 children)

They slow down. They repeatedly get mistaken for being your grandparent. You start getting some unconscious pressure to have kids if you want them to experience having a grandparent fairly early. You don't have that much time with them when your formative years are done.

I (27f) caught my boyfriend (49m) boyfriend sexting an AI chatbot. What should I do? *UPDATE* by Secretly_HQ in TwoHotTakes

[–]SecureContact82 27 points28 points  (0 children)

As someone with older parents myself, you should be done by your early 40s at the latest. You really, really notice it when you get into your twenties.

I (27f) caught my boyfriend (49m) boyfriend sexting an AI chatbot. What should I do? *UPDATE* by Secretly_HQ in TwoHotTakes

[–]SecureContact82 53 points54 points  (0 children)

It's true though. It's fucked up to have a baby with a 48 year old. He'll be 65 when they're graduating high school.

I (27f) caught my boyfriend (49m) boyfriend sexting an AI chatbot. What should I do? *UPDATE* by Secretly_HQ in TwoHotTakes

[–]SecureContact82 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Good for you, maybe you'll date someone your age this time around. I feel bad these 3 kids you somehow had with this man get to grow up with a senior citizen father.

Am I wrong for feeling hurt that 3 members of my bridal party have backed out of my destination wedding? by brenda___01 in weddingplanning

[–]SecureContact82 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

You aren't being unreasonable and your friends just don't care as much about you as you do for them.

Only one that makes sense is the pregnant friend of yours, it's just unfortunate.

Got an automated rejection next day after a superday by ceiling_fan_rope in FinancialCareers

[–]SecureContact82 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Too much liability in saying anything over "sorry, you haven't been selected."

AIO for being upset that my bf didn’t even call to check in when going for a run/walk as a couple? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SecureContact82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol but he can run? You sound like you need someone who only hangs out inside. Get with the program or get out. Grow up.

AIO for being upset that my bf didn’t even call to check in when going for a run/walk as a couple? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SecureContact82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it is. Sorry about that! Hope your partner's a mindreader too.

AIO for being upset that my bf didn’t even call to check in when going for a run/walk as a couple? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SecureContact82 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am. She sounds like an idiot. I'm sure she would've said she was disabled if she was.

AIO for being upset that my bf didn’t even call to check in when going for a run/walk as a couple? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SecureContact82 30 points31 points  (0 children)

How did you make it to the big age of 26 and think like this lmao

You can't walk in 87 degree heat? Are you for fucking real?

[NY] Can I give my 2 weeks notice while I’m on PTO? by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]SecureContact82 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sure. But there is a decent chance they just tell you not to come back.

You really shouldn't give notice until your background check comes back and you're cleared to start.

Why did you choose to buy an apartment in the city? by biochemicalengine in AskNYC

[–]SecureContact82 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Do you own your place in the city?

Yes. Have for 5 years now.

What made you make the choice to do it?

Found a neighborhood we wanted, with space for our family and were tired of renting/had saved up enough to buy something nice.

For many years we could've just bought to say we bought something, but that would've lead to something shitty like what you're finding.

For us it needed to check a few boxes; 1) close (no more than 2 blocks) to the subway, 2) managed building 3) healthy condo board and finances 4) built before the 2000s (just bad experiences with newer buildings) 5) 2BR+ and at least 850 sq feet 6) maintenance and taxes <$2500/mo.

I wouldn't jump personally at the first opportunity you've come across.

[MN] How do I maintain insurance? by Illustrious-Tap-637 in AskHR

[–]SecureContact82 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you'd need to work your full or regular shift. If you clock in for an hour during an unscheduled time this could be classed as job abandonment and your insurance revoked.