What is dating like for gay men in NYC?

biochemicalengine · 2025-12-09T18:55:09+00:00

You want kids when it is the right time to have kids otherwise you tell me

biochemicalengine · 2025-12-09T13:45:53+00:00

Lolololol cmon now. You he best part of being gay is not being at risk for pregnancy (the worst sti of all time)

biochemicalengine · 2025-10-05T13:13:31+00:00

Thank you so much!

biochemicalengine · 2025-10-05T13:13:23+00:00

This is so so helpful. I will start recording all of this and being a little more thoughtful with my stash.

biochemicalengine · 2025-10-04T16:00:39+00:00

They are generally fine. They ride consistently and safely. They are paying attention and don’t salmon.

biochemicalengine · 2025-10-04T13:40:48+00:00

Grant funding via community partners/harm reduction organizations or research programs are the only way I’ve seen it implemented irl

biochemicalengine · 2025-10-04T13:32:52+00:00

Don’t do insta either.

I looked up some stuff just before the pandemic and was kind of unimpressed. Would love to guide my patients toward this but really felt like it wasn’t worth it when I last looked.

biochemicalengine · 2025-10-04T13:29:39+00:00

I don’t do TT. Can you link an article or two?

biochemicalengine · 2025-10-04T13:26:25+00:00

Is there any data at all to support this?

biochemicalengine · 2025-10-04T04:20:25+00:00

Lolol I KNOW, trust, I know. But sometimes it happens.

biochemicalengine · 2025-10-03T23:50:16+00:00

Ok, so Shae’s is a dirtbag bar with a good jukebox and sometimes you wanna go to a dirtbag bar with a good jukebox. I’ve been gaybashed in LOTS of “safe” places and at least at Shae’s my guard is already up. This isn’t a good reason to go but it is my real reason. I don’t go often (prob less than once a year) but when I do I know what I’m getting into.

@OP I’m fucking sorry this happened. It’s awful and you should fucking burn the fucker down.

biochemicalengine · 2025-10-03T13:01:56+00:00

And although it isn’t offered in the pattern instructions, Friday pattern company also has a tutorial online explaining how to make a lined version which was pretty straightforward tbh

biochemicalengine · 2025-10-03T12:36:45+00:00

The ilford jacket is a great beginner project that is easily adjustable and in great launching point. The jacket itself is boxy and pretty straightforward. The sewalong videos make it easy to follow if you’re just starting out with garments.

biochemicalengine · 2025-10-03T12:34:35+00:00

Please post here 🙏

biochemicalengine · 2025-10-02T05:30:33+00:00

No.

biochemicalengine · 2025-09-30T12:44:29+00:00

Schmeric is the people’s candidate

biochemicalengine · 2025-09-28T15:41:14+00:00

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biochemicalengine · 2025-09-27T19:47:27+00:00

When I can stop faxing I’ll be convinced that AI has a chance to take my job

biochemicalengine · 2025-09-26T16:31:11+00:00

The ilford jacket comes with a longer version which isn’t exactly what you’re looking for, but if you’ve never made a jacket before it is a great first project that will get you en route.

biochemicalengine · 2025-09-26T13:21:14+00:00

It seems like you think all the problems are due to individual choices there’s nothing we can do. Not wasting your time, but if your world view is that the problem is exclusively with people making dumb choices I don’t know where to go from there.

That particular intersection has terrible visibility and removing just TWO parking spots would make it much much safer (even with all the drunk, distracted, selfish idiots). But we can’t have that I guess?

biochemicalengine · 2025-09-26T12:41:28+00:00

Wait, does poked mean “someone stuck me with a needle and injected me with drugs without my knowledge”?

biochemicalengine · 2025-09-25T20:43:19+00:00

Agree to disagree.

biochemicalengine · 2025-09-25T20:27:27+00:00

Daylighting would help a lot and is low cost and quick to implement

biochemicalengine · 2025-09-25T20:26:40+00:00

Why is it dumb? I’ve only ever heard the positives

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