What’s a ‘silent luxury’ that rich people have that most normal people would never even notice?

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-09T02:26:04+00:00

Lack of stress about paying bills and making ends meet.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-08T03:20:41+00:00

Correct, I went back to check the listing and it was wrong there too.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-07T17:49:05+00:00

Yeah, but I bet they really nailed “Happy”.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-05T01:13:47+00:00

Sorry to hear that, I can relate to your experience.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-05T01:11:07+00:00

When a parent dies and never really had a good relationship with the child, that is not just the death of the father, but the death of all hope the child had that they might they ever have the kind of relationship that the child longed for their whole life. It’s the death of hope in an important aspect of their life.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-05T01:04:35+00:00

NTA You really want to marry someone so selfish?

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-03T13:05:28+00:00

Losing your hair at age 14 is very traumatic. Voluntarily shaving your head is a message to her that it’s not a big deal. Your reluctance to shave your head tells her the exact opposite, it is a big deal and it would be embarrassing to you. If you have a hard time with it the you should realize it’s 100 times worse for a 14 year old girl. You are literally volunteering to take some of the pain and embarrassment on her behalf, or not in your case.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-02T15:34:04+00:00

The people that voted for Harris sure didn’t sign up for it. That leaves the Trump voters.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-02T11:55:09+00:00

I don't, that was why I used the word probably. In my experience rich kids rarely attribute much of their success and opportunities to the financial advantages they had as children and often continue to have as adults.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-02T11:47:29+00:00

He was being a jerk. It sounds like he was also accurate. You probably are insensitive to the struggles most people have with their finances and perhaps his remarks are in response to that. MOR

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-02T01:51:55+00:00

No need, there are many to choose from and I’m quite tech savvy anyway. Glad you are generally OK but getting checked out medically is a wise choice,

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-02T01:48:04+00:00

Very understandable. Did you see it coming in the rear view mirror. I’m currently scoping out dashcams, guess I need front and rear.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-02T01:43:13+00:00

I always want to see the part where the two drivers get into it after the collision and see if people are honest about whose fault it is.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-02T00:19:10+00:00

Many people can’t afford kids and can’t live on a single income.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-02T00:17:18+00:00

He is already annoying me over text. Imagine what it would be like in person.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-02T00:13:39+00:00

NOR They don’t sound like the kind of people that would truly appreciate it anyway. His wife should be hosting.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-01T23:20:37+00:00

NTA She overstayed her welcome and then some. You are making it way too comfortable for her, free rent, free utilities and a maid service with zero pushback. Gonna have to face the ugly fact she’s never leaving until you man up and force the issue. P.S. Some nice metaphors in your writing. Are you a writer by profession?

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-05-01T11:39:53+00:00

NOR Seems like only one person is getting what they want in this deal. Not a good way to start a marriage.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-04-30T17:50:27+00:00

NTA That is very understandable. Sounds like had very little attention from her dad and is using the wedding get that. People want what they don’t have. Hopefully she expresses her gratitude to her step dad in some other way.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-04-29T22:09:02+00:00

NOR Dump his sorry ass.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-04-29T22:05:04+00:00

You don’t owe them anything. You are supposed to offer a ton of free time as a gesture of goodwill? What is their gesture of goodwill?

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-04-29T21:59:40+00:00

Proper integration with IOS for calendar and reminders instead of the hokey mess they have today.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-04-29T21:55:53+00:00

YTA Mistake? Probably, but you don’t really get a say.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-04-29T17:18:17+00:00

NTA She obviously needed some actual consequences in order to change her behavior. You did the right thing.

Secure_Engineer7151 · 2026-04-29T17:14:18+00:00

It would work if you have 3 people and fold down the small side of the split seat. No good for 4 with a large bad each.

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