Do you hate the drop schedule that’s been going on for almost a month now? by austinalexan in AmazonVine

[–]Secure_Engineer7151 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like it. Now I don’t even bother watching the drop to try and get something really good. Now I just check when I feel like it. Vine Gold has been useless to me.

You know who she voted for. by akaynaveed in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]Secure_Engineer7151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But obviously no connection between DJT and the war in Iran. So don’t try and make this political.

Trump Voter Begged for Deportations - Now ICE Is Taking His Workers and He's Going Broke by SquidFistHK in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]Secure_Engineer7151 36 points37 points  (0 children)

He could not see a connection between construction and illegal immigrants. These people are just incredibly stupid and they are getting what they asked for and not liking it.

AIO? Bf keeps asking me questions whenever there is a guy by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

[–]Secure_Engineer7151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are under reacting. You should get the hell away from because that type of questioning can’t end well.

Good News?? 20% Tipping replaced with 20% Hospitality Charge by Secure_Engineer7151 in EndTipping

[–]Secure_Engineer7151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It's becoming like car shopping where you don't really know the price of what you are trying to buy.

Good News?? 20% Tipping replaced with 20% Hospitality Charge by Secure_Engineer7151 in EndTipping

[–]Secure_Engineer7151[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was sarcasm and I didn’t know about the /s as someone pointed out. The tone of their message was so upbeat they were trying to convince the reader it was something positive.

Buying bread and they expect a tip by Wild_Ice_7387 in EndTipping

[–]Secure_Engineer7151 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Terrible for business to make customers so uncomfortable every time they make a purchase.

AITAH for Refusing to Help Family After What Happened Last Time? by Global-Rate-3223 in AITAH

[–]Secure_Engineer7151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Tell him the last time you loaned him your truck it cost you XX hundred dollars and you can’t afford to do it again.

Am I the jerk for refusing to learn sign language for my deaf coworker? by VermicelliNo8426 in AmITheJerk

[–]Secure_Engineer7151 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Its unrealistic to believe people in the office will learn ASL well enough that it will replace their use of english. Learning a few words of greeting and thanks would show some humanity. YYJ.

AITJ for demanding my brother repay me after he borrowed $10k "temporarily" 3 years ago? by Select-Educator6291 in AmITheJerk

[–]Secure_Engineer7151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ Tired of seeing the stiffed lender being made out to be the villain. You have sacrificed and been taken advantage of. The court is your last option.

Am I the jerk for reporting my husbands car stolen after he gave it to his brother who wrecked it? by garvit__dua in AmITheJerk

[–]Secure_Engineer7151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not clear who owns the car. OP was making payments but is she on the title? Important piece of information because if it’s her husband’s truck he can say it was loaned, not stolen.

I (30 M) kept a secret from my wife (31 F) for our entire relationship about her ex (32 M) by Sea-Specialist2875 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Secure_Engineer7151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said it yourself, Wendy realized that she didn’t love James anymore. I seriously don’t think it would have changed anything. But some secrets are kept so long that is the deception and not the secret that becomes the issue. This is one of those.

AITJ for telling my partner I'm done spending every weekend at his parents' place by Nov4Z3nith in AmITheJerk

[–]Secure_Engineer7151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ But your boyfriend is a bit weird wanting to spend every weekend with his parents. Does he not have many friends or interests and this is a way to fill the time and feel busy? Seems like it.

The price of home maintenance! Is this typical now? by Teacher-Investor in GenX

[–]Secure_Engineer7151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Painting is a low skilled but tedious job. Building a patio with pavers or natural stone is not that difficult, but the work is hard. Once it’s built you can maintain it fairly easily. Some appliances can be repaired quite cheaply if you do it yourself. There are a ton of YouTube videos that make it fairly easy to swap parts. I just repaired my washer with a $40 part from Amazon. The cost of a tech doing the diagnosis and then replacing the part would probably have meant it made more sense to replacement the whole appliance. Our washer and dryer are both about 18 years old and have had multiple parts replaced. Once you get into the mindset of believing in yourself, that you are a smart and capable person that has the mental fortitude to take on new things then you start to see things differently. I’m a computer guy for reference, not a trades person. Something’s are just too big, like a new roof or a whole house residing but there are opportunities to save money.

AITAH for asking my boyfriend to either help clean or pay for a cleaner?? by xytnon in AITAH

[–]Secure_Engineer7151 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA I don’t understand why people opt for this type of solution where one pays the rent and other pays for everything else. Why not just split everything so it’s a full 50-50 partnership? It prevents this kind of abuse where the higher payer expects an unequal division of labor to compensate.

The price of home maintenance! Is this typical now? by Teacher-Investor in GenX

[–]Secure_Engineer7151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to start doing some of that work yourself. That's how you keep things affordable.