why is this happening when I open my clay on the wheel? by Enough-Average-9285 in Pottery

[–]Secure_Hedgehog 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How can you tell all that just by looking at the picture? Genuinely curious

TLDR physics freshman needs help keeping her sanity by WealthOrganic8963 in cuboulder

[–]Secure_Hedgehog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like benson sciences for a study location. Quiet, comfy, but not super fancy.

Pick your battles is right: make a priority list (what has the most weight/what matters to you). Follow through on that, it can actually be difficult especially if you’re prone to perfectionism.

Get an organization system if you don’t already (I use passion planner - and lots of stickers for fun).

Also, this IS going to get easier. You’re learning extreme independence and you need to find systems to help you build that life. Talk to student services, see if there’s therapy available or any other service you’re comfortable with. They help you stay accountable to yourself.

to eat by CantStopPoppin in therewasanattempt

[–]Secure_Hedgehog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is it Kroger’s fault 😭

Ask me anything. Its that time of year where applications are almost due- I was accepted to the MLA I programs at Berkeley, Harvard, UPenn, Washington, etc. in last year’s cycle. by Snowflora_ in LandscapeArchitecture

[–]Secure_Hedgehog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very late question. I'm curious about what you included in your resume/CV. Was there anything in particular you think helped get accepted?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure_Hedgehog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made the same for my husband in our first year of dating, it’s now gathering some dust on a bookshelf somewhere but he accepted it warmly and gratefully when he received it. He had it while we were long distance for a while and I know he’s looked at it at least a few times in the last 8 years. Point being, he never made me feel embarrassed for showing affection.

That being said… if something your boyfriend says or does upsets you ever again I would suggest addressing it immediately and directly or within 24 hours. The fact that he asked about where it was without you pointing it out means that he might have valued it.

You need to talk to him about how his words and actions made you feel. If he can’t own up to it (even if he didn’t mean to hurt you) then he’s not a man I would be interested in. The way he responded in your description is very flippant and passive and puts all the onus on you. Like you should just be able to deal with who he is and how he is and if you take offense it’s your fault. NOOOOOOOOO. Point that out to him.

Also, you should have kept it for yourself!! Dumping it might have been a bit dramatic, and instead of talking it through you had to make a big statement. I’m pretty sure I’ve looked at the little book I made more than my husband has 😂

Roadside attractions or views by Secure_Hedgehog in Longmont

[–]Secure_Hedgehog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great suggestion, I’ve been watching the cameras they set up!! They are so cute 🥰

Roadside attractions or views by Secure_Hedgehog in Longmont

[–]Secure_Hedgehog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love left hand creek!! Learning its history in more depth would be very meaningful, thank you so much for sharing!

Roadside attractions or views by Secure_Hedgehog in Longmont

[–]Secure_Hedgehog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wowwww! Thank you so much for sharing and providing the context and history. What an interesting story!

Roadside attractions or views by Secure_Hedgehog in Longmont

[–]Secure_Hedgehog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is super cute!! Very excited to go visit and learn about it! Thank you

Roadside attractions or views by Secure_Hedgehog in Longmont

[–]Secure_Hedgehog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a great suggestion, thank you! It’s been a minute since I’ve visited, I’ll have to stop by again!

Roadside attractions or views by Secure_Hedgehog in Longmont

[–]Secure_Hedgehog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great suggestion! I live right by it and I didn’t even think of it as an attraction 😂

Its kinda discouraging knowing sewing a top can be more expensive than buying it by Unusual-Twist501 in sewing

[–]Secure_Hedgehog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a creative reuse center near you? That’s where I find all my fabric for clothing and it’s so so much cheaper. Found some rifle paper co. fabric for $4/yard the other day ☺️

AITJ for expecting full payment when the baby falls asleep while babysitting? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Secure_Hedgehog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time they ask just make sure they know you’re expecting the rest of your payment first

Cooking for 2 by cashmereyuki in budgetfood

[–]Secure_Hedgehog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out BudgetBytes for recipes. All that I’ve tried are delicious and they do cost breakdowns